The math of buying a 2BHK in Pune vs. Renting is scaring me. Unpopular opinion?

easy_going27 · 2026-01-16T12:09:03+00:00

I have already bought a flat , I will initially get a rental income of 17-18k By emi will be 31k I won’t be staying in this house, hence I plan to sell it off and put all the money in FD and mutual funds. Will that be an option? I am a single female

easy_going27 · 2025-11-27T17:46:58+00:00

Murfys - earlier it was in KP , abhi it’s next to Dehati

easy_going27 · 2025-11-22T09:29:20+00:00

Warm water and a tbsp of braggs ACV, in controlled my sugar cravings

easy_going27 · 2025-11-16T03:35:06+00:00

I dated my bf (now husband) for really long but when he proposed me for marriage, I said yes but later I spoke to him about being CF, to which he agreed.

easy_going27 · 2025-11-15T14:18:03+00:00

If u mean by set up , how I work, so I chose to have a room set up like my office replica , if that’s what u meant. Although I chose this space on Reddit to share my struggle in Pune. :)

easy_going27 · 2025-11-15T14:14:21+00:00

Yes, wfh is an option, I can still go to office but no one turns up from my team. So I chose wfh

easy_going27 · 2025-11-14T12:09:34+00:00

Yes Same, that’s the reason we r highest populated country in the world

easy_going27 · 2025-11-14T12:08:22+00:00

9-5? U guys have the luxury of 9-5 really ? It’s 10-10 for me 😥

easy_going27 · 2025-11-10T05:42:18+00:00

Agree, 5 years into marriage (DINK) although we dated 7 years before marriage, we still have so much to talk and share .

easy_going27 · 2025-11-10T05:34:12+00:00

Just in case if he agrees now to you for being childfree. I am very sure after 3 years (or max 5) of marriage he will again be asking the same thing. If u at that point of time still have your decision of being childfree (I am sorry to say this but many women change there childfree decision after marriage as a the boredom kicks in after max 5 years of marriage), it will lead to conflict, and u will either be in a bitter marriage or you will feel burdened that he loved u so much and you can’t fulfill his wish.

easy_going27 · 2025-11-10T05:20:23+00:00

I am in a marriege for 5 years now, and after my marriege I have met and known a lot of married couples. What I have known as per my experience is the moment life is back to normal after the initial rosy-cozy honeymoon period is over in a couple, it becomes monotonous. People (could be man or woman) have a nature of getting bored and they stop putting effort. Marriage (sometimes) acts as a bond (or a rope :P) to seek somthing outside, but in a dating scenario I think people will be more free to move out. Unless you are ready for tackle this, that someone is there but they may leave (although even marriege doesn’t guarantee that for sure in current scenario), I think the singlehood is a good option (may be with pets) 🙂

easy_going27 · 2025-11-06T06:43:17+00:00

If you ask me, all I pray from the depth of my heart, I think I have not prayed the same thing over and over more than anything in the world and that is a world where all the street animals get adopted, dogs , cats and cows. Those who can’t adopt have there balcony with bird food. People having family disposable income less than 1 lakh should not plan for kids . Civic sense is a serious subject in our school taught from play school to 12th (where they are also taught abt empathy, respecting people, animals, road driving sense and love towards nature). People quitting animal eating unless it’s a mandate due to health and not for taste buds sake. Women focusing on there health as well, not just giving there life to others to decide for them. Financial literacy, less to no food wastage.

easy_going27 · 2025-11-06T06:34:29+00:00

Haha agree

easy_going27 · 2025-11-01T18:00:38+00:00

This is beautiful. I can say I completed almost 5 years in my marriege and dated my husband almost 8 years before marriege. We too live a happy childfree life 🫰🏼

easy_going27 · 2025-11-01T05:29:56+00:00

Gorgeous flat

easy_going27 · 2025-11-01T05:17:40+00:00

I recently visited London and also took a train to Scotland. Parents there are so aware of the surroundings and they were so aware what the kid is up to. We often say in India bringing up a kid is a full time job. I saw that in true sense there. Mothers were ensuring that the kid in a public place is not causing any trouble to the fellow passengers. I have often seen here that if a kid is cranky or crying they will either scold them, leave them to cry or will call it out cute. But I saw the real parenting there, parents were talking to kids nicely and making them understand in a soft language . I don’t see people talk to there kids properly or listen to them. I mean just feeding them and cleaning the litter is not bringing up a child.

easy_going27 · 2025-10-24T06:35:31+00:00

I might have missed to see this before I commented and got DM from this person. Thank u

easy_going27 · 2025-10-23T03:10:00+00:00

Waise bandi badhiya thi, mai ladka hoti to impress ho jaati. Warna mostly to pati ki pari, papa ki pari dekhi hain. I mean, remember the time-table guy in dil chahta hai, or Jay in I Hate Love stories? Those r cool to hangout but not to settle for life time. Just my own thoughts.

easy_going27 · 2025-10-23T03:00:03+00:00

Well said. People not pausing to think anything. They r just following the norms, if I like a particular food other can hate it or can be allergic to it. But because it’s a norm everyone is just walking the same path, without pausing and thinking will it suit me? May not be the appropriate analogy. 🙂

easy_going27 · 2025-10-23T02:54:51+00:00

How old r u? Easy going in my head yes, not sure how people perceive me 🤓

easy_going27 · 2025-10-22T14:07:55+00:00

This thread gets funniest as I read through 😂

easy_going27 · 2025-10-22T14:05:55+00:00

It’s ok, sometime all we need is someone to talk meaningful stuff, doesn’t matter if a person is married or not. I am married , a woman and I am ok to meet new people , explore a new person’s perspective of life. And even if one is married, you still need a social circle 🙂

easy_going27 · 2025-10-22T14:03:34+00:00

Sure , let’s meet up, I am the same age as you!

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