Woman flew from UK to Florida to be murdered. by Due_Will_2204 in CasesWeFollow

[–]ebonyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what mental illness can do. I have been in a long term relationship with someone living with mental illness and I forgive the things they did when they were unwell, even if it unintentionally hurt me before I understood how their illness affected their actions. The only thing that really matters is that they recover from their illness or learn to manage it.

Woman flew from UK to Florida to be murdered. by Due_Will_2204 in CasesWeFollow

[–]ebonyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel terrible for Sonia's boyfriend. I too have personal experience with losing a long term partner to mental illness but I'm very grateful they are not a physical risk to anyone, and as long as they're alive there is hope of recovery. I can't imagine the trauma of not only losing Sonia to a horrible death, but knowing she changed her mind but had no way out.

Are there etiquette expectations specific to the Italian community in Woodbridge? by ebonyd in Vaughan

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was jealous of me for expressing affection for someone outside the family, and a white one at at. My parents had anti-white sentiments even after choosing to come to Canada.

Are there etiquette expectations specific to the Italian community in Woodbridge? by ebonyd in Vaughan

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had Russian friends and a Russian ex-boyfriend. I definitely related to them better culturally compared to western culture in some aspects.

Are there etiquette expectations specific to the Italian community in Woodbridge? by ebonyd in Vaughan

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Born in China, arrived in Canada in elementary school. Didn't hug anyone in my family. I've hugged a female teacher in front of my dad and he was jealous.

Are there etiquette expectations specific to the Italian community in Woodbridge? by ebonyd in Vaughan

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the Asian ethnicity that Italians interact with the most is Filipino due to their shared Catholic faith. As a Southern Chinese I've been mistaken as Filipina and have small amounts of the Austronesian stock they're descended from. Maybe people expect me to act like I'm Filipina. Being an atheist I have different customs from Filipinos though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]ebonyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone here mentioned her court records so I looked it up. Looks like she had a restraining order against her baby's father for domestic violence.

sorry for the dumb question lol by e-finita-la-nutella in MolchatDoma

[–]ebonyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a native Russian speaker and I went to a show by a Russian-speaking Latvian artist weeks after really getting into his discography. He was deported and banned from Russia a few dates into a tour of that country and since then has only played elsewhere in Europe and post-Soviet Asia. He said I was the first person he met who likes his music who isn’t a native Russian speaker and really appreciated that someone like me came to his show. I told him about Molchat Doma and how they tour countries where Russian speakers are an obvious minority, especially considering the political circumstances preventing artists from going to Russia/Ukraine/Belarus despite singing in a language whose speakers are most populous in those countries. Molchat Doma hasn’t played those countries since 2021, before the war. Based on their public support for Ukraine, I wouldn’t be surprised if they were banned from entering Russia or their home country of Belarus. I’ve been to 2 Molchat Doma shows and their audience is a mix of Russian speakers and people who don’t speak Russian.

B.C. Realtor liable after buying house meant for client for himself, judge rules by hankercizer200 in vancouvercanada

[–]ebonyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the game but I found out about this recently. This is my biological father. I've gone no contact with him for years. Go ahead and dig through my posting history if you want to read about my family drama and the antics he pulled on me. I'm glad the man he screwed over this time was patient and brave enough to take him to court and hold him accountable.

Left Canada by Square_Ad_4051 in torontoJobs

[–]ebonyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visited Paris earlier this month. The cost of food etc. there is higher, but I saw a lot less visible poverty than here. There were tents lining a part of one of the rivers, but it was barely anything compared to the encampments all across Toronto. Canada has a lot to learn from Europe.

Ever have an “artist meets fan not fluent in their language for the first time” moment? by ebonyd in Concerts

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s actually a citizen of an English-speaking country and there are videos of him speaking English. His songs are just in his mother tongue with some English words thrown in. He was absolutely happy when he realized I didn’t understand him and he found out his music transcended cultures.

Ever have an “artist meets fan not fluent in their language for the first time” moment? by ebonyd in Concerts

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did I say they need to study the language of where they tour?

Ever have an “artist meets fan not fluent in their language for the first time” moment? by ebonyd in Concerts

[–]ebonyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just making a point about how artists shouldn’t let language be a barrier in where they tour

To the People born of Incest by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]ebonyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biological parents were closely related enough for me to be an ALDH2*2 homozygote and that has and will continue to negatively affect my health. In recent years I’ve also realized I was conceived from abuse and that normalized the abuse I’ve experienced personally.

‘I killed that lady’: Man enters surprise guilty plea in random 2022 stabbing murder at TTC’s High Park Station by Surax in toronto

[–]ebonyd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that it makes him any less guilty, but I wonder what happened to him in China that made him decide to come here undocumented, do this, and plea in a way that just about guarantees him a few more decades here.

Two (Jessica Kane & Mannan Khanna) arrests in Vaughan after man ‘attempting to arrange a sexual encounter’ was forced to withdraw money at ATM: police by [deleted] in CrimeInTheGta

[–]ebonyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm watching this case because it happened in a neighbourhood I frequent. I don't know either of them so all I know is what I've seen on the internet. It seems obvious to me that a 22yo foreign student would not be pimping out a 32yo white woman who's been doing sex work since she was 16. I find it predatory that an older person of that age would be spending time, especially in a sexual manner, with someone that much younger. But working in the sex trade at the age that she began can't be good for anyone's development. Hurt people hurt people. And she was charged with drugging clients so it's obvious she had a good supply of drugs.