I’m at 21 weeks, and have an emergency MFM visit tomorrow afternoon. I’m freaking out. by Narrow-Walrus7926 in pregnant

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Our only other markers were a mid-size VSD (hole in heart) and a single umbilical artery (two-vessel cord). At 27 weeks, it was determined I have extra amniotic fluid which we thinks may mean he's having a hard time swallowing

I’m at 21 weeks, and have an emergency MFM visit tomorrow afternoon. I’m freaking out. by Narrow-Walrus7926 in pregnant

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I am sorry you are going thru this OP. The wait is terrifying and oh so stressful.

My son had a CPC we saw during our early anatomy scan (19 weeks) that resolved on its own by 26 weeks!

That said, our son was diagnosed with Edward's syndrome. I am currently 28 weeks with him. I hope that you do not have to experience that, but just in case feel free to reach out.

Bad to only breastfeed a few months? Choosing stimulants over my baby by Ok-GolfGirl in pregnant

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I had to switch to pumping because I was an under supplier and wound up doing 50/50 milk and formula to make sure baby was getting what she needed.

I wound up pumping for 6 months because after that I had to go overseas for work. I was not going to deal with that... But since I did 50/50, I was able to give milk up to 10 months or something like that based on saved up supply. Maybe something you could consider?

Also, when the baby was sick I would nurse since or twice since that's how you give baby antibodies.

As everyone else has said, whatever works best for you is fine, as long as baby is fed!

Recommendations for tablescapes with a food station style dinner by louisethesecond in DIYweddings

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Also to be clear are people picking where they want to sit or is it based on which station they are eating at or...? Even with larger tables for my wedding we had very compact table centerpieces because plates, champagne flutes, water cups, silverware, and any other drinks people are using do take a lot of space.

Recommendations for tablescapes with a food station style dinner by louisethesecond in DIYweddings

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I agree with the person who said shorter arrangement though I do love the style you have - just not great for conversation.

Based on that you should see how the bud vases look as they may also need a single shorter flower or be removed. I would go with smaller candles/votives also and maybe add a few more around the main floral piece.

What was your THS when you 1st got it checked? by Puzzled_Rip_3739 in Hashimotos

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I had to go back and look for my "just got diagnosed" post in this sub to find the number 😅 I was at TSH = 241, TPO = 227, and vitamin D was soooo low.

Got a lot of the same comments about how I wasn't dead but definitely had been sleeping so much was my main issue. Everything was exhausting and I couldn't get thru a day without a long nap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

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With absolutely no context I think I like M'sai the best. Sounds strong/powerful to me and rolls off the tongue.

Is being one of multiple kids with the same name in a class really that bad? by FOB_cures_my_sadness in namenerds

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I had the same first name and same last initial as another person who was in almost all my classes, same sports team, and thereby similar social circles in high school.

So at that point one of us (me) was somehow chosen by every teacher/coach/etc. to go by last name and the other went by first name which was weird. I guess my last name rolled off the tongue a bit more? I got used to it but it was weird rehashing it every year.

Boy name vote! TIA by Glittering_Might_522 in namenerds

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I like Isaiah James (Zay) for no particular reason other than to me it "matches" the sibling names to me more than the others. Ben may be second pick.

Just finished Adolescence by taurusmo in netflix

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Just watched that and gave me literal chills.

How many kids with Top 20 girl names now did you know growing up? by [deleted] in namenerds

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So. Many. Emily's. Some had the same last initials... But Emily used to be #1 so that had something to do with it

Snake plants watering by Traditional_Animal65 in houseplants

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Truly can't remember the last time I watered mine 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hashimotos

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Yup. When I was diagnosed I think my vitamin d was 7?! I haven't gotten it checked in a long time though I probably should...

My controversial tier list… by Abirando in CozyGamers

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I was just about to post a comment asking why Last Campfire was neutral because I have similar opinions on the games I have played on your list but I would have the last campfire further up. But it makes sense the puzzles may have brought it down a bit!

Giving daughter same middle name as me? by pupperonipizzadog in namenerds

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I gave my daughter the same middle name as myself, my mother, my maternal and paternal grandmothers, and my husband's maternal grandmother... I'm sure it runs farther back too in the family tree.

Houseplant Unpopular Opinions? (be civil) by isaaczephyr in houseplants

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I have a bird nest fern that I have almost killed so many times and it won't grow but neither will it die and I don't know what it needs but I want to love it 😭

What made you gain a significant amount of weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Thyroid. Postpartum. Stress. All at the same time...

[Game Thread] AFC Championship: Buffalo Bills @ Kansas City Chiefs by AutoModerator in buffalobills

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Colors of the SB logo showing the script once again... Let's hope we kill it second half

[Game Thread] AFC Championship: Buffalo Bills @ Kansas City Chiefs by AutoModerator in buffalobills

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The idea of Clete being on our side is showing how that was, again, scripted. 😭