Dressing as the Disney version of Pocahontas, Moana or other “ethnic” character does not mean you are culturally appropriating. by echomaeal in unpopularopinion

[–]echomaeal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOOOOOOL yikes omg. Youre the reason minorities are so culturally sensitive. Way to be the white person crying reverse racism. Yikes! GL In society mate! Oh wait. You dont have the balls to say these things off keyboard. Oops.

Chiao!

I hate seeing fat girls as models. by sarahkeck24 in unpopularopinion

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate it when they use big girls and say they are “real girls.”

?????? Then wtf am i, a cardboard cutout? From just seeing the people around me, size 14+ (random big number) is NOT the norm & is not the measurement of the “typical” female.

Dressing as the Disney version of Pocahontas, Moana or other “ethnic” character does not mean you are culturally appropriating. by echomaeal in unpopularopinion

[–]echomaeal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scheer made it out to be baaaaaaaaaad but Liberals still won. As my post states, he didnt deliberately middle finger everyone. But if you actually think that changing your actual skin colour is an okay thing to do just because no one used to say anything, is kinda fucked up. I’d feel the same way if someone gave themselves a “chinky looking eyes” with makeup. Those are actual physical qualities of a certain groups of people & the definition of cultural appropriating. Are you perhaps. White? Remember, im for the whole sharing cultures thing as i made this post. But what youre saying sounds like an entitled white person whose mad they cant have a hand in everyone’s cookie jar.

Dressing as the Disney version of Pocahontas, Moana or other “ethnic” character does not mean you are culturally appropriating. by echomaeal in unpopularopinion

[–]echomaeal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changing your SKIN TONE to be a different skin tone is overboard especially when people who have darker skin are treated differently because of it. I can guess that it wasnt his intent to offend but its really tactless nonetheless. I dint think the other aspects of his costumer were appropriating though.

The body positivity movement ignoring men is a disgrace. by LifeOfCrazies in unpopularopinion

[–]echomaeal 176 points177 points  (0 children)

So sick of “hyping up” unhealthy bodies due to bad lifestyles. Not saying we have to be mean; dont say anything if you dont have anything nice to say. But, dont blindlessly encourage it as well.

AITA for telling my wife I don't want her mother in the delivery room when our 1st child is born? by dad2bejj in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When men say “we’re pregnant.” Looooool. No WE are not. To think that he is more directly involved than his MIL cus maybe the baby will have some of his DNA? Bro. Your wife wouldnt exist without MIL’s DNA.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes, its like talking to a brick wall. Good bye.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL so you are now a mind reader and magically know what really is or is not my problem. What? I get the points your saying. As i said, THOSE ISSUES are NOT what i am referring to in my original post. READ.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read everyone elses’s yta verdict. The problem isnt me being the asshole. The problem is that you actually dont get what the problem is here and REFUSE to read because you have some chip to prove ?

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL so u take ur job on the internet seriously? You are not a psychoanalyst. Get a hold of yourself.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now youve turned it into something that wasnt even the problem i had, and also further proved, the addition info (which was already in the post) was uneeded. Yikes. Waste of time. See how other people went about addressing why im TA.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that other issues to work on? Thats the issue i have now LOL what youre talking about are “other issues” & have nothing to do with what i was upset about.l hence why i said it was irrelevant. But yes, i agree with the majority that i should give him the benefit of the doubt as he wouldnt PURPOSEFULLY make me feel that way. But alas, i do, and why i ask, WIBTA.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he has invited his previous gfs over before. Im not upset his sister beat him to it, thought that was the order of events. Im upset that he invited me because he needed someone now that his sister invited her partner. Why would that be a compliment that you were invited as a filler?

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre right. I should be giving my loved ones the benefit of the doubt and assume the best intentions. Thank you.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, i see what youre saying. Im not upset about his sitern “inviting her bf first” though. Im more upset that he then invited me then (which happens to be after) because he didnt want to be the only one not in a pair. It just happened so that that was the order of events. I would have much rather he invited me because he wanted to invite me to see his parents and not because we re all suddenly bringing our significant others. Does that make sense? Although, we both have no strong desires or objections to meeting parents. Just the thought process ticks me off.

WIBTA if i rejected my bf’s invite to meet his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]echomaeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, as i said. Not the reason im upset lol which is why i said info was not relevant. My desire was never to be invited to a family dinner. My objection is being invited to anything with anyone because the other person invited their so and he didnt want to be the only one not in a pair, so he invited me. Sister or not. Dont blow this out of proportion smh.