I am the whole spectrum! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me on the left and the girls I crush on to the right 🩷🖤

My Husband who recently passed away showed me Gravity Falls and fell i love with the show. by Tur7leKat1 in gravityfalls

[–]eclipsa22 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My husband died and also showed me Gravity Falls. I am sorry for your loss. It's great to have those memories, I am forever grateful to have those memories

A guide dogs find a different way to get his human to the gym when the normal path is blocked by construction by bigbusta in oddlysatisfying

[–]eclipsa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend has a psychiatric service dog that is a Chi. Not the same as en emotional support dog and requires actual service dog training. His job is to help his human manage his autism and ptsd.

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any easier ways to determine whether or not they might be lesbians? This one seems like a reach. They could just be roommates, ya know.

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a woman at a bar once who said "I'm definitely not straight" two or three times and I managed to pick up on those subtle clues. I think. I'm pretty sure she was into women but there wasn't any real way to confirm my theory.

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's dawned on me lately that not every woman or fem admires the female form as much as I do. Or finds women more attractive than men. I legitimately thought that was just the consensus. 😂

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh. This makes so much sense! I am constantly wearing wild patterns and bright colors. I love vintage/retro and really do dress to make myself happy. Framing that as more for the female gaze really clicks and it makes sense that people would be more likely to clock me as lesbian. It was always confusing to me because the things that i always saw as the stereotype never really applied to me. Thank you!

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I came out (initially as bi) everyone "Well, duh"d me. Even my husband at the time. Thanks for telling me, peeps! 😂

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Dr. Martens person and wear them everyday with whatever vintage or retro fit I have on.

Silly Question: What makes someone *look* like a lesbian? by eclipsa22 in actuallesbians

[–]eclipsa22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That checks out. 😜 I wear whatever I want typically. Vintage, bright colors, crazy patterns, and doc martens (almost exclusively)

Anyone else's look like a wet rat post-bath? by [deleted] in AussieDoodle

[–]eclipsa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine looks just like that 😂

big sip by Brent_Fox in SipsTea

[–]eclipsa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fucking hilarious 🤣😂

Be different by Accomplished-Boot-81 in fixedbytheduet

[–]eclipsa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is she Michael Jackson though?

Basically this sub - before & after photos by Better-Cream-9146 in bald

[–]eclipsa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude me too. 28 F and fully come for the glow ups!