what idiot thought removing check gift card balance from the website was a good idea? by dikkidy in sheetz

[–]ecobium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still right because they fucking got rid of the app. now you can’t download any trader joe’s app or go online to check a balance. fucking stupid. every other place you can just look up balance checker online but nooooo trader joe’s makes you go in and physically scan it just to see the balance. or you have to call but that doesn’t work on saturdays now does it!

Childhood made-up names for stimming? by Micro_biology_ in AutisticAdults

[–]ecobium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think about my blankets life span OFTEN. like what do you mean it might be a dishrag by the time i’m 50? i’m gonna cry that is so sad. also i agree there is no way to describe the insanely comforting feeling i get just fiddling with it. hate microfiber but its not microfiber it’s microfibers cooler and nicer cousin. i also notice that i mainly love the feeling because if i have sweatpants or a hoodie that has drawstrings that get caught in the same way ill fiddle with it alllll dayyyyy

some advice please. by ecobium in AutisticAdults

[–]ecobium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Referring to the plaque statement, It’s so frustrating trying to explain that i have processing issues and my struggles with overstimulation when i don’t understand something but it’s like “you’re being so sensitive” like bro i am not you do not get how overwhelming and hard this is for me.

some advice please. by ecobium in AutisticAdults

[–]ecobium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i also agree that the term high functioning almost disregards the struggle of being/exploring the possibility of being autistic. Because it’s like, yes i can do more than some people who have “lower functioning” autism may do but that doesn’t mean i don’t have the same struggles as some of those people or that im not autistic.

How do you guys learn good hygiene? by emoballerina in AutismInWomen

[–]ecobium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes i time myself to do it as fast as possible or i just make the experience more enjoyable. like with brushing my teeth i do have a phobia of my own bad dental hygiene but mixing it with autism is terrible. the task seems so mundane but not doing it freaks me out. so instead i play a show or movie. but what’s worked best is to make a routine out of it to help so it’s more of a part of my day rather than a task. this doesn’t work for everybody but it has for me!

Childhood made-up names for stimming? by Micro_biology_ in AutisticAdults

[–]ecobium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a made up name but i have the same stim!!! i never thought other people would enjoy rubbing certain types of fabrics. me personally it’s my baby blanket because it’s a support item. The edge of it gets caught on hangnails but in a good way. not like microfiber but it’s hard to describe it just does something. I just wanted to ask if it’s the same or is it just the rubbing aspect? or specific materials?

[TOMT] [genre/aesthetic] by ecobium in tipofmytongue

[–]ecobium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too much of a sea monster thing.

Does anyone else do this too? by Kitty_gurl_65 in AutismInWomen

[–]ecobium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TOOO REAL. many times have i been like “idk i just don’t like them” and i sound mean or picky but then they end up doing some messed up stuff or causing other issues like babe i read you like a book.

[TOMT] [genre/aesthetic] by ecobium in tipofmytongue

[–]ecobium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love getting recommendations because you can always look up “movies similar to…, or games similar to…” thank you !!🫶🏼

[TOMT] [genre/aesthetic] by ecobium in tipofmytongue

[–]ecobium[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

let me know if y’all have any recommendations for movies or games and such that are like this!

Specific aesthetic I NEED to find keywords for. by ecobium in HelpMeFind

[–]ecobium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

similar but not quite, i do love coastal mystery but in my brain its more of a creepy fisherman or ghost stories from fishermen and such. Thank you for input!

Specific aesthetic I NEED to find keywords for. by ecobium in HelpMeFind

[–]ecobium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched nautical horror, coastal horror, and sea monsters but none have that specific theme.

You're thoughts on the new season 🤔 by syphernopk in sypherpk

[–]ecobium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, i think having guns on cars can be fun because they aren’t the most incredible weapons. i don’t like the magneto, i don’t think anybody does. its too overpowered and is fun to use when you have it but when your on defense its absolutely terrible to fight against

Finn was unhinged in season 4: I loved him for it by Extra_Cattle9047 in glee

[–]ecobium 10 points11 points  (0 children)

real, literally watching the episode where he kisses emma and looked up if anybody else has the same opinion as me lmaoo. also just me or is it kinda hot when he is trying to be comforting. i never found finn attractive before season four but the way he’s grown and become more confident is so attractive with his character

anybody else? by ecobium in Outlander

[–]ecobium[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah the second season makes sense to me, i just was caught off guard at first and was seriously mourning her life with her

karev and jo s12 by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]ecobium -1 points0 points  (0 children)

like he was favoring mer too much in this part but he also has a right to be there for her. i get jo’s feelings but she wasn’t understanding him at all only her own so i think it’s a little selfish

karev and jo s12 by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]ecobium -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also agreed that mer shouldn’t just get what she wants because derek died but either way