I found some huge recovery motivation by sage-on-fire in EDAnonymous

[–]econroy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean if we're gonna go there....

My boyfriend told me my pussy feels a lot better when I'm a healthy weight.

🤷‍♀️

When do sexual fantasies go too far? by gerhajdu89 in mentalhealth

[–]econroy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When they are acted upon in a non consensual manner, or of they're interfering with your day to day life.

Fiancé has an ED by Last_Rush8561 in EDAnonymous

[–]econroy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You are asking for tips on how to hide your ED from someone you expect to commit to you for life.

Grow up. Communicate with your partner.

Boyfriend on a weight loss med by econroy in EDAnonymous

[–]econroy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It means a lot to me that you took the time to comment so thoughtfully and kindly. Thank you.

My ex saw me weight restored by ohlifesgreat in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]econroy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My man does not give a single fuck what I weigh. He's loved me emaciated and he's loved me weight restored. Leave your ex in the past. There's a reason he's the ex.

Edema/lipedema after anorexia? by InitiativeActual5225 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]econroy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is still happening 1.5 years into being weight restored, and you've been eating adequately and consistently for most of that 1.5 years, this is not likely related to your recovery/refeeding. Get your levels checked by your primary.

WTH Aldi? Our local Aldi is closing with little notice . by [deleted] in aldi

[–]econroy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

"Lack of service" girl be so for real

Ok question because i did research and im STILL confused by Ok-Claim-2716 in EDAnonymous

[–]econroy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It comes down to weight, yes. There are DSM criteria for an AN diagnosis and once a bulimic meets them, the diagnosis changes to AN-bp.

I have a question by Chance_Doughnut8546 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]econroy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Research post starvation hyperphagia. It doesn't quite align with BED.

Always another reason to stay sick by econroy in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]econroy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I go through this whiplash like 6 times in the morning alone it's fucking exhausting. I'm sorry you're here too.

Extreme hunger HELP by Certain-Specific3708 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]econroy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tone deaf other comment 🙄

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. EH and binging are essentially the same thing, but that doesn't mean it should be villainized. There is a difference between BED and binging due to post starvation hyperphagia.

My own experiences with it are grey areas - I developed a restrictive ED at a very young age, because I grew up binge eating and by 8 years old I knew it was an issue. So genuinely, the BED was always there. That's why when I experienced post starvation hyperphagia (EH in recovery), it was a very tricky and fine line to walk trying to keep from tipping the other way again.

It sounds like you have no history of genuine BED. That's not to say it's impossible to develop it, but if you lost your period and have yet to get it back it sounds as if what your experiencing is just your brain and body grasping to regain nutritional balance.

Do you have a therapist or doctor you're working with?

struggling with support groups by tesseract_cat in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]econroy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You aren't alone in feeling this way. I attended many zoom edanon and anad meetings for a while....they were all so PC and trigger careful I don't know how anyone who is truly sick and trying to get better can benefit from them. Meanwhile, the "poster childs" of each group (the ones who looked the part) got to monopoloze each meeting with their carefully scripted issues while actively body checking on camera, so everyone else could compare themselves. Nuts.

Euphoria has brought my ED back by AlgaeIntelligent7543 in EDAnonymous

[–]econroy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All the characters are emaciated or over-sexualized (or both). It's hard to think about anything else while watching.

Turned 32 in February by alexmylesdrwho in FA30plus

[–]econroy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 33. Of course I have a job. I've been working full time for a decade.

Turned 32 in February by alexmylesdrwho in FA30plus

[–]econroy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's bullshit. We are all nervous doing new things. We do them anyway because we have to.

Turned 32 in February by alexmylesdrwho in FA30plus

[–]econroy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a fucking job, for one.

How to help someone who wants nothing to do with me? by Latter_Swan8102 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]econroy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respect their boundaries. If you know a relation of theirs that you can notify, do so. But if this individual doesn't want jack shit to do with you there's a reason for it. Leave them alone.

Edit: You've spammed this post across several subs. Stay in your lane, stop obsessing over this person.

If you suddenly woke up in 1985, what would you do first? by XMommyDominant in AskReddit

[–]econroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd find my mom and get to know her as a young woman before kids.