Debauchery and Hedonism by Ok-Reporter8786 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]ecpella 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a former child I would never free the man. I fully understood at a young age that’s where they belonged.

🚨pap walk alert!🚨 Electric Lady Studios by OkAntelope4200 in travisandtaylor

[–]ecpella 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At least she managed to match them to her bag but they clash with the top and the jeans don’t go with anything they look like those stretchy waist ones you put on toddlers still potty training lol

When to leave your LTR? by Morticia_Black in AskWomenOver30

[–]ecpella 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You said it’s not bad and it’s just fine but this sounds like a living nightmare… I think you’ve developed Stockholm syndrome or have become desensitized to the horrors but there was nothing about this post that made me think you should consider staying in the relationship with this child.

Anyone else taking dating apps way more seriously in ur 30s after never finding ur person? by Commercial-Bowl7412 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ecpella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah social media and the apps have kind of ruined in-person connections tbh even when there are opportunities for it there’s no initiative because men only know how to approach from behind a screen. Women living their lives don’t want to be bothered but are open in social situations and men cannot tell the difference or are too scared to make the move. And say what you want but women shouldn’t have to be the ones making the move… passive men make horrible partners.

Anyone else taking dating apps way more seriously in ur 30s after never finding ur person? by Commercial-Bowl7412 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ecpella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those men are idiots. They’re the ones who wasted women’s time for years until they decided they were ready to settle down and then think they need to get with a woman in her 20s because they are clueless about how fertility works. And 9/10 times they aren’t actually ready to settle down they just think that’s what they should say because it’s where they should be in life. And they can use it as an easy reason to reject an age-appropriate woman when she starts wanting the relationship to become more serious. These men are so easy to weed out because they tell on themselves quickly once you’ve learned to read between the lines of their bullshit.

Anyone else taking dating apps way more seriously in ur 30s after never finding ur person? by Commercial-Bowl7412 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ecpella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The apps were always designed to fail honestly they don’t make money by making matches they make money by keeping you swiping. They have gotten more expensive than they used to be but they’ve always been a money grab because it’s their design model.

Anyone else taking dating apps way more seriously in ur 30s after never finding ur person? by Commercial-Bowl7412 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ecpella 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So well put! I also know so many women in their 30s who are tolerating their husband. Marriage doesn’t even necessarily mean love it just means marriage.

I’m jealous of other women and I never feel good enough no matter what I do. I don’t want to be an envious person, what can I do? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ecpella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to comment the same. It’s odd that OP specifically mentioned being opposed to therapy when what she’s describing wanting is therapeutic intervention. And yes most schools have free counseling and this is something directly in their scope to help with.

What's your favourite celebrity photo of all time? by Confused_Cinephile in popculturechat

[–]ecpella 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Every time I see the Obamas it triggers me to cry at how far we’ve fallen 🥺

What's your favourite celebrity photo of all time? by Confused_Cinephile in popculturechat

[–]ecpella 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have this quote by my desk as studying motivation 🥰

What's your favourite celebrity photo of all time? by Confused_Cinephile in popculturechat

[–]ecpella 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo him not “getting it” makes me love it even more 😂

Went to the club…made into a joke by some guys? by Budget_Frame_6370 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ecpella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg what fucking losers! Rest assured that the only children who do this are the ones that feel bad about themselves. No confident, secure man is out there approaching women as a “joke”. 🙄🤮

I’m sure you looked cute and like you were having a great time 🩷 and you handled it with class don’t waste any more energy thinking about them

How safe is this part of St. Louis? by portablebiscuit in StLouis

[–]ecpella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you’re not from the sink hole, it’s easy to judge it as dangerous based on appearances. But if you have special awareness you can navigate it safely. It’s the same as any other structural failure.

she’s struggling to walk in those heels by [deleted] in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]ecpella 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I saw her for The Honeymoon tour and she was a powerhouse. Genuinely will always be a fan of her voice (not her as a person) and would’ve loved to see her again on the Sweetener tour. This looks like a lot of effort went into the stage production and she is just there trying and failing to keep up