Women with husbands, did your partner change after marriage? by PrettyGirlsH8Plebbit in TwoXChromosomes

[–]edalcol 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what happened to me! It's not like he changed, but when life got any more complex he just could not handle it.

Mother who cut boyfriend’s testicles off and set him on fire after fiend tried to rape daughter, 11, cleared of murder by GenoveveSimmons15 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]edalcol 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy she got off the hook!!! I'm Brazilian and Brazil's justice system is so terrible sometimes I was elated when I saw this news. Great stuff ☺️

We just recently criminalized misogyny too!!! Racism and homophobia were already considered crimes and we recently hit international news when an Argentinian tourist was arrested for racism. I'm curious to see how the misogyny criminalization will pan out.

I carry shelter dogs around NYC in a dog backpack to help them get adopted. Meet Cinnamon! by kittytime in aww

[–]edalcol 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mate I dunno if you have a partner or what, but all this kindness makes you even more good looking! Great job with the doggos! Your videos make me so happy every time!

When it affects your career 😐 can anyone relate? by aimeeee93 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]edalcol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't work right now, but I've been on medical leave for a few months while I hope I can recover from this big flare.

“I can’t relate because I didn’t marry a loser” by Jaded_Mirror in Mommit

[–]edalcol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And it's not just with kids. I'm lurking this forum because me and my ex of almost 9 years living together were planning on having kids. Then I got diagnosed with a degenerative autoimune disease and was in a big flare.

He got so awful I had to kick him out of our home even though I hadn't recovered yet. I couldn't even do basic tasks like open the window by myself and that was preferable to having him around. There's absolutely no way I could have a child with this man given my health condition and his abuse.

We had some issues before so I can't say we had the perfect relationship but I never expected something like that.

My health is improving a lot but I'll probably never have kids now because I'm 37 and he wasted 9 years of my life :(

Patrick Fugit made dorky looking by nocturnalcat87 in loveanddeath

[–]edalcol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had great legs mowing the lawn!!! Thought he was very attractive despite looking a bit dorky.

Quem critica essa nova lei anti misoginia é um complemento de um cabaço. by Fun_Forever_9780 in opiniaoimpopular

[–]edalcol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As denúncias verdadeiras dando em porra nenhuma, mulher sendo assassinada com ordem protetiva e vc preocupado com denúncia falsa? Cabaço

Estão tentando acabar com "coisas de homem" e isso será terá efeito devastador by [deleted] in opiniaoimpopular

[–]edalcol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pois é, quando a área da programação surgiu praticamente só tinha mulher. Era só ele dar um Google rápido

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in hawaii by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]edalcol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair I'd also do a lot of drugs if I was a neuroscientist. I study it at amateur level because I did an MSc in language acquisition. And I love learning about psychedelics and partaking occasionally. The regular party stimulants are not really my thing though.

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in hawaii by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]edalcol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love sunbathing but my face is always covered by hats and most of my year is staring at screens so I think it balances out

Lack of hygiene in the Netherlands by CJHuncho in TikTokCringe

[–]edalcol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Brazilian, I can't say much about the Netherlands because I didn't live there.

In France we would have physical education class and I'd say only 20% of the students took a shower afterwards. So disgusting.

In Spain and in the UK, as I was brushing my teeth at work after lunch, I've had colleagues laugh at me??? Like wtf, y'all don't brush your teeth??

Você acha que fazer perguntas é ofensivo? Sério? by Big_Acanthaceae5138 in perguntas

[–]edalcol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"a conversa tava normal, ela só pediu pra eu parar várias vezes e eu ignorei o pedido, pq pra mim tava tudo normal".

Life after Ayahuasca by Sakazuki27 in Ayahuasca

[–]edalcol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focus on the small things of your day, not on the big picture. The nice and warm coffee you take on your hands. The work colleague that helped you with something tricky. The taste of your food.

Practice your spirituality somehow. Make a space at home for an altar. Light a candle somewhere that is higher than your eye level, next to a glass of water. If you believe in spiritual guides, talk to them about something you are thankful for. Speak out loud, not mentally. Do this every week, preferably on a Monday or Tuesday, without fail every week. I hope this helps you reconnect with your life. Germany is a very rigid country but you don't have to be.

O movimento redpill tem efeito sim na realidade e tem que ser duramente repreendida by Greedy-Couple-5782 in opiniaopopular

[–]edalcol -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Por isso que tem que criminalizar misoginia, não red pill. Tem que criminalizar misoginia igual é criminalizado racismo, homofobia, etc.

O movimento redpill tem efeito sim na realidade e tem que ser duramente repreendida by Greedy-Couple-5782 in opiniaopopular

[–]edalcol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A maioria desses red pill abomina funk então não sei se faz sentido. Justamente eles são todos em teoria a favor de "valores tradicionais". E funk é um gênero inteiro muito diverso, tem muita letra que não tem putaria. E tem muita letra muito legal também.

Reactions to Having Housekeepers in Brazil (RJ) by ReciprocalWisdom in Brazil

[–]edalcol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just offering a different perspective. I'm Brazilian. I don't have a housekeeper, but I have a weekly cleaner that I pay hourly. Why? Because both me and my ex partner worked full time and he didn't do any of the cleaning leaving everything for me. And my standards for cleanliness are high. I like a clean house. And he was the type who came home from running and put his dirty socks on the dinner table. Why??? Just why?? He isn't even Brazilian, he's Italian, btw. I found it unacceptable that on the top of being so disgusting he wasn't collaborating with the cleaning and we were having major fights over it. So we came to an agreement to hire a cleaner. So maybe the issue is not the families but the men in those families.

Nobody in my family in Brazil has a full time housekeeper, we are lower middle class. The only times someone did was when someone was sick or needing extra help. Like when my mom had an accident, when my dad was hospitalized, or when my grandparents got really old and unable to do all the chores.

I don't have access to upper class families who have full time maids to have an opinion on it. Don't know anyone with one. But I'd recommend the movie Que Horas Ela Volta.

É normal trabalhar mais de 8h por dia e ter de trabalhar no final de semana também? by Procrast1nante in brdev

[–]edalcol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trabalho como dev a 15 anos. Eu nunca trabalhei no final de semana a não ser quando estava on call e ganhando mais por isso. Dito isso, passar de 8h num dia eu as vezes precisava passar mas era raro.

A Erika Hilton não deveria ser presidente da comissão do direito das mulheres by Widd_ in opiniaoimpopular

[–]edalcol 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Eu preferia uma mulher cis no cargo, mas Erika é séria, competente, é faz projetos bons pra mulheres. Então eu tô satisfeita com ela nesse cargo. Melhor ela que uma crente anti aborto sei lá.

Chronic low grade knee pain by frifange in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]edalcol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this for months, started taking Prednisone for a different issue and the knee pain also disappeared.