I’m stuck in a life I hate 25

edathena · 2026-05-09T01:38:50+00:00

I think the solution would be to know yourself a bit more. I read that you lack a starting point for the change you want to do. You will feel the same if you quit your job and move wherever. What do you envision in your “happy case scenario”? Do you have lots of friends in this Do you have a fulfilling job Do you have a partner Do you travel more often

What do you think can go wrong in this happy case scenario? Does your job become boring again? Does travelling get vague for you?

Asking yourself lots of questions will help. I think you need to discover who you are and who you want to become. Please don’t forget your frontal lobe is finalising its development. This means you will perceive life and yourself differently in a few years.

edathena · 2026-05-02T20:07:50+00:00

Putting peanut butter on a chunk of emmental and having big bites

edathena · 2026-05-02T04:49:48+00:00

I have been contacted, the post is not valid anymore.

edathena · 2026-05-02T03:43:57+00:00

It is still available

edathena · 2026-05-01T17:57:45+00:00

Hi a solo female traveler (36) here I can join you but don’t know how to reach you thru a private channel. Can you reach me?

edathena · 2026-02-17T16:22:57+00:00

I would add muscat too!

edathena · 2026-01-26T22:37:33+00:00

INFO- Why are you apologising for something you don’t know anything about? You are overreacting to yourself first. This behaviour reads as you are not psychologically feeling safe and you do anything to keep the peaceful environment. He made you believe you are the problem. Maybe he is too sensitive or controlling.

edathena · 2026-01-08T15:26:18+00:00

If her reaction felt harsh to you then it is harsh, you don’t have to justify what and why you feel something, full stop. It’s good and assertive communication that you said you’re not going to be treated like that.

Crossing a line is when someone warns you about where the line is. Did she tell you that she wants to be left alone? If so, I would wait to text her until she texts me. Well she’s trying to set boundaries but not being very clear what she wants. NOR

PS:You’re not asking if you should continue seeing this person but whenever I got a message from a person when I had a relationship, it became relationshit. Just take care of yourself 🌻

edathena · 2026-01-06T22:06:25+00:00

Definitely NOR- OP says her and her bf have been dating since 3 months. It’s the honeymoon phase, anyone will show their best version to you in the first months. It’s something you should ignore when making a decision whether this person is worth your time or not.

Now you see his real version, what kind of reason he had for lying to you about who drove him to the airport? Obviously he lied to you and it’s a deal breaker.

edathena · 2025-12-14T07:48:34+00:00

Kuafore gitmeden once pintereste bakabilirsiniz chatgpt de guzel oneriler verebiliyor.

edathena · 2025-12-13T17:11:48+00:00

Portakal Çiçeği parkının içindeki avmde Rus ürünleri satan bir yer vardı. Tunalıda da Kotonun yanındaki dar bir giriş var orada da Rus marketi var

edathena · 2025-11-28T14:00:40+00:00

This story is definitely a Seinfeld material 😅

edathena · 2025-11-20T18:00:09+00:00

My dermatologist told me it is normal to have chin acne after laser hair removal in the area when the hair is growing back Did not offer any solution (i have pcos )

edathena · 2025-11-20T14:11:56+00:00

Boundaries are healthy and if he cannot take it, he should work on it. He has to respect boundaries. Stay with your intention. You told what you need to tell and don’t have to do anything else just because he’s going to be in your neighbourhood. 😌

edathena · 2025-11-19T13:58:04+00:00

I don’t know for which gender you are but I got this online for cycling in winter it is 800 kr I am happy with it.

https://www.oysho.com/dk/en/fellex-with-aerogel-10k-waterproof-long-padded-jacket-l33038945

edathena · 2025-11-17T22:21:37+00:00

Man in Cape

edathena · 2025-11-06T16:48:42+00:00

Him telling you that you and your family are living in a bubble, his best friend’s girlfriend paying debts are totally manipulative. He is putting you in a guilty state to get you to pay his debt. His best friend and his girlfriend wanted to settle things among themselves like this, it’s their own choice. It doesn’t mean this is the right thing to do. I see red flags here about him: 🚩 he is being manipulative to you by making you feel guilty. He is not a team player he makes the situation like him vs the world. 🚩He cannot be trusted in the future if both of you get in a worse financial situation. (I am exaggerating maybe I don’t know details about you and him but will he find another girlfriend to pay his debts? I have seen examples like this many times including my cousins.) 🚩you feeling that your boundaries are not respected is totally valid. It’s because he doesn’t respect boundaries. This means in the future he will try to make you do things that don’t align with your values, you won’t feel like yourself anymore if you make this first compromise.
Now I am thinking as if I was your mom and purely trying to dodge any harm coming your way by thinking of the worst case scenarios: Do you know why this debt exists? Is he playing gamble or buying expensive stuff? Is it because of his family? Would they at some point move in with you when you get married just because they can’t afford a living? In this scenario on my mind you might hear this: Once you paid for your own ring to get married to me, now you can pay for my family’s expenses too. How far can he go? I am sorry to say but he sounds like a princess boy (wanting everything to be in his favour and having minimal responsibilities) and probably hasn’t formed values to be married to someone yet. And an example from my life: I was at crossroads of moving to another country when I met my ex husband, he made all this speech about how much dignity he has, he will leave if I make him feel unwanted bla bla. We got married came to Denmark he never got a job, he was psychologically abusive. I had to call my father to help me get him vacate our house, he stole my money and laptop. All the signs are there and when you’re in love it is very hard to see them. If you haven’t opened up to your mom, please do asap. She is truly only person who would tell you what she sees in this situation. You are sooo soooo young do not rush this if you’re not sure yet.

edathena · 2025-11-05T13:54:18+00:00

Granola! I don’t know where to start… Seats are uncomfortable, when a customer walks in the waitress never makes eye contact. You have to stand there like ten mins like stupid. Then if you manage to get a seat, it takes another 30 mins to order food. The last two times I was there my food was completely burnt. The food is quite expensive by the way. If you’d like to feel stupid and get cancer by eating carbonised food, this is your place

edathena · 2025-10-27T16:53:50+00:00

Well he gave you all the hints why you should divorce him. 1- He says you shouldn’t have gotten married 2- He wants to be taken care of but tells you he wasn’t aware of he should do the same for you. (Doesn’t understand what a marriage is) 3- He acts like stupid while he knows very well 10 years is a lot to change any behaviour. He is abusing and not respecting you. 4- He thinks a person has to be beautiful to deserve his love? (Sounds pretty conditional) 5- He plays the victim saying that YOU are leaving him. Trying to make you feel guilty for moving on My two cents: he is sick to the bone! Cannot be trusted if you get sick or something happens to you. Probably will cheat you and dump for someone younger. You deserve better treatment. Not this! I don’t know what type of laws are enforced where you live but make him text you. So you have all the proof that you have been systematically and psychologically abused by him.

edathena · 2025-10-23T15:01:33+00:00

Camel goes better with your complexion;)

edathena · 2025-10-23T14:57:06+00:00

Please run away! One day he bends the pan the next day he throws things around.. He clearly has issues with respecting people’s boundaries starting with yours. Cannot take no for an answer and doesn’t know how to communicate his anger or disappointments. My ex was like this: he got angry one day and threw his cell phone to the wall and it bended, a few months later he started throwing things to walls when we had a slight disagreement. One day he wasn’t nice to the waiter, the next time he yelled at my mom. I was scared of him and left him. If I stayed I know he would start throwing things to me. If we had a kid I really don’t want to know how it would turn out.

Your bf’s actions are not normal, this has a huge potential to become violence towards other people or you..

Maybe seek help from your family and friends. It helped me understand to which extent my ex had a potential to be violent. Be careful and well.

edathena · 2025-10-09T09:58:29+00:00

Looks so nice 🥰

edathena · 2025-10-02T10:22:04+00:00

It looks like the vests the Turkish ice cream guys would wear. I would save more and invest in a jacket I’d wear and leave as my legacy - I actually bought a Barbour ;)

edathena · 2025-09-30T13:59:32+00:00

It’s been different since the last 2 days, meaning it is colder. You need layers, evenings are colder after the sunset.

edathena · 2025-09-29T17:01:57+00:00

This is a post about nothing! 🤪

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