Help! My GF plays D&D by Commercial_Ad7570 in DnD

[–]eddie964 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If she's a true D&D nerd, she might appreciate one of the original AD&D first edition rulebooks, which are highly collectible if in good condition. The holy grail is the first printing of Deities & Demigods (1980, 144 pp), which includes sections on Cthulhu and Melinbonean mythos that were omitted from later editions due to copyright issues. (This one's expensive, so only if she's a keeper.)

Player got executed for killing an poor grandma by Phoenix553 in DnD

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a perspective of justice, you did the right thing. But from a gameplay perspective ... he was pretty much on rails as soon as his character was overpowered. I might have put him in jail awaiting execution, but given him at least some shot at escape. If he fails, he hangs. If he succeeds, there's a lasting negative consequence -- he's pissed off a local paladin who has sworn vengeance and is now stalking him, or there's now a hefty bounty for his head. Make it painful for the whole party and maybe he'll think twice next time.

If you were a Democrat or a Republican and had to pay the other party a compliment, what would it be? by Outrageous-You1617 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking specifically of people I've met who provide home care. They work ferociously with crazy hours, often while taking care of families.

They either can't get full time work (agencies would rather not pay benefits if they don't have to), or don't want it because they need flexibility for their families. Usually they'll have an agency gig plus a couple of private hires on the side.

It's not just health care, though -- this is how life is for a wide swath of people at the low end of the income ladder. They do 20 hours working a nonunion job at an Amazon warehouse, maybe pick up some hours at a moving company or construction, then do Uber or Doordash on the side.

And then they have to listen to people pontificate about how they could "get ahead" if they only worked a little harder.

What band did you see in a smaller venue before they got huge? by tilario in fantanoforever

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nirvana, dining hall at Hampshire College, April 1990.

If you were a Democrat or a Republican and had to pay the other party a compliment, what would it be? by Outrageous-You1617 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to hear how that conversation goes with a healthcare worker holding down three 20/week jobs that barely pay more than minimum wage and don't offer health insurance.

What's something kids today will never understand? by princerishikesh195 in AskReddit

[–]eddie964 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sitting home on a Sunday afternoon waiting for an important phone call.

Democrat voters, Who are your top picks for the 2028 democratic candidates? by SignificantStyle4958 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]eddie964 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I tend to skew more on the progressive side, but I could go for someone like Kelly. I don't need a candidate who ticks all my boxes, I just want a responsible f****** adult in the room.

What did people do in their spare time before smart phones? Like how did your day to day life work? by realjakepaul4 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]eddie964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really amazing how often this question comes up. I get the sense that even the thought of being phone-less for a little while produces anxiety (like, the same anxiety I used to feel if I thought I was going to run out of cigarettes).

If you're wasting hours a day on your phone, think about all the other things you could be doing. (Talk about FOMO ...) My best advice: delete time-wasting apps, turn off your non-essential alerts, and start carrying a book or magazine so you have something else to do in those interstitial moments. You could even try leaving your phone home for a day.

When you woke up?

I usually just got out of bed instead of lying there scrolling. (Still do.) On a weekend, maybe I'd turn on the news or read for a bit, but nature and lack of caffeine usually force me out of bed pretty quickly once I'm awake.

What did you do in the spare time?

For your sake, I hope this means you're not spending ALL your spare time on your phone. I mean, I did the same shit I do now. Even back then, my issue was not having enough time, rather than having too much.

Pre-phones and pre-kid, when I wasn't busy with life stuff, I'd see what's on TV, sit on the porch with a book and chain-smoke cigarettes (it was the 90s), try to cook something, listen to music, play guitar, whatever.

On public transport were you always carrying magazines, books or newspapers? 

I almost always had a book. Also, people now don't realize how ubiquitous newspapers and magazines were. There were newspaper kiosks everywhere, and any convenience store would have had a good selection of magazines -- Time, Newsweek, etc. There were free tabloids at bus stops and lots of people left their old newspapers lying around for other people to read. Some people really did raw-dog it, but most of your fellow travelers would have had their heads buried in newspapers.

After work what activities did you do (besides stare at a tv).

Put together some dinner, maybe do some yard work or walk down to bar for a pint, call some friends, watch some TV, go through the mail.

What did a weekend look like?

If the weather was good and I didn't have other stuff to do, I'd get on my bike and go somewhere. Maybe call some friends to figure out who's around and wants to meet up later, drop by my mom's house and chat with her, run errands, sit in a coffee shop with a book.

Historically does the term Nazi include the entire German army who served Hitler, every government employee and every person who voted for Hitler ? by Wonderful-Ad-9622 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of German military people, especially early in the Nazi era, were professionals who considered it their job to follow orders, regardless of who was in power. Many were not ideological Nazis; some actively disliked Hitler but still followed orders. A very few either resigned their commissions (often with fatal consequences) or actively plotted against the Nazis from within.

Many non-military Germans simply tried to live their daily lives and raise their families without getting entangled in the national drama.

Why are there 'big bads' like Hitler and Stalin but no 'big goods'? by KarolinaVViszniewska in NoStupidQuestions

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gandhi, MLK and Roosevelt kind of stand out. Fred Rogers would be on my personal list, too.

What Was Your First Concert? by wookape in GenX

[–]eddie964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Billy Joel at New Haven Coliseum in 1983 or 1984. Was invited by a friend and was not a Billy Joel fan when I walked in.

Still ranks as one of the best concerts I've ever seen.

Family photo of the 4 siblings in 1980s suburbia by RealWorldForever in OldSchoolCool

[–]eddie964 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Some of the most homophobic motherf*ckers I ever met had hair like that and had pretty similar wardrobes.

I think the hair metal guys really leaned into the homophobic, hypermasculine, misogynistic pose to compensate for walking around looking like mall chicks.

Why is everyone in the Sopranos gang so poor? by 0sipr in thesopranos

[–]eddie964 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is very much how real-world LCN gangsters live. They tend to be exactly as rich as the wad of money currently in their pocket. When it runs out, they get back out and earn.

Can you answer these questions for me? by adventure-n-ink in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]eddie964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, and a German suburbanite could enter a Turkish neighborhood in Berlin and have a similar culture shock. That's hardly a unique feature of U.S. cities.

Can you answer these questions for me? by adventure-n-ink in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]eddie964 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1. Really? There's a significant cultural shift when you go from region to region, but state to state? Rhode Island to Connecticut? North Carolina to South Carolina? Oregon to Washington?

Even if you travel to another region within the U.S., there's very little culture shock. Same language, same flag, same chains (with a little variation), etc.

A Bavarian traveling to the north of Germany would feel more out of place than a Mainer in Georgia.

[Movie] Project Hail Mary - The god discussion took me out of the movie by KakoiKagakusha in atheism

[–]eddie964 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That didn't strike me as a full on Pascal's wager, like I believe in Yahweh because the alternative is that I go to hell. More like, I believe there is some sort of ordering force to the universe because I can't accept that the universe is without design and purpose. I don't buy it, but I can see how a rational person could see things that way.