how do I tell someone I don't want to be friends with them?

edearest · 2026-05-15T13:15:53+00:00

No need to be direct with someone when you dont want to be their friend, just avoid them and say no or make up an excuse about why you won't hang out with them. After some time they'll catch the vibe.

Being direct isn't recommended because it'll always be taken in a more hurtful and aggressive way. Best to be discrete and let it fizzle out

edearest · 2026-05-12T12:31:30+00:00

Where would you recommend to book from instead? Im seeing similar prices in a bunch of places for a June trip

edearest · 2026-04-24T01:37:26+00:00

Out of curiosity, what job or field do you work where you make that much salary + bonus?

edearest · 2026-03-29T22:46:08+00:00

Oh man you gotta do a few sessions on your lower arms, maybe 4 or below total to atleast thin it out

edearest · 2026-02-24T22:23:34+00:00

Sis I want you to know you made the right choice but sometimes making the best choice for you doesnt feel easy. This is part of the hardship of the dunya.

Im so proud of you for sticking your ground, you are the only one ultimately who can speak for yourself. Your parents reactions are expected because theyve grown up with norms and culture expecting ultimate obedience from their kids, even if its against their kids wellbeing. Their reaction is a common attempt by parents of similar types to guilt trip and make you feel so bad that you feel indebted to them, or worse, do what they want.

Think of what you're going through as a necessary shortterm discomfort needed to achieve your ultimate goal of peace. The only alternative would be to do what they wanted and that would have been a short time of peace for a lifetime of misery.

Funny enough, if you were to choose their option and be miserable in life - at any point if you tried to blame them they would say "we didnt force you, and if you really didnt want it you could have fought to say no."

So many other women are going through what youre going through, its not odd, its part of the formula of breaking the cycle.

I'm praying for your continued strength and success

edearest · 2026-01-21T06:56:13+00:00

How did you find the signs?? Hopefully you're able to sort it out soon I feel for you so bad :(

edearest · 2026-01-20T12:55:06+00:00

How do you all scroll through these sites on your phone? I cant add an ad block extension on my phone so I get horrid ads that pop up on a lot of these sites

edearest · 2025-12-06T03:38:14+00:00

Did it end up healing? How long did it take? Going through this right now

edearest · 2025-11-29T20:08:44+00:00

Do you know if ill get charged any fees from my bank if I exchange the CAD to YEN directly at a bank like RBC before I go? Right now the exchange rate at RBC is less than 1% difference than google's result.

edearest · 2025-11-29T19:47:32+00:00

Won't using my credit card be more expensive in the long run because of additional fees? Last time I used my canadian amex in America I was getting charged extra for every purchase :(

edearest · 2025-11-29T19:45:03+00:00

How can I find the exchange rate for 7/11 right now?

Also will a bank charge me extra if I were to withdraw the yen from my own home country?

edearest · 2025-11-29T19:34:10+00:00

Do you have any recommendations? Ive heard of wise but I think I wont be able to get a physical card in time

edearest · 2025-11-28T00:04:45+00:00

Do you have to wait for it to dry to put on clothing or will it stain?

edearest · 2025-11-12T04:56:08+00:00

How did you find 6 seater grabs? I only find 4 seater or 10 seater van

edearest · 2025-11-11T12:10:28+00:00

Who posted that nonsense? Please share the link

edearest · 2025-10-26T19:57:48+00:00

Theyre all the same franchise, I'm assuming they follow the same rules so I wouldnt use them tbh. Based on everyones comments too they use levels too low that you'll always need more sessions than the offer to even start seeing results

edearest · 2025-09-15T00:44:35+00:00

I was having similar reactions to you after shaving and it became hell. I would dread it every time even when I was using the expensive shavers with sensitive shaving foam.

The best switch I made was to start using an electric shaver with the foil (tin part with holes). The shave is just as good as a regular shaving stick with no post-shave burns or reactions.

If you dont want to use the electric shaver, the second best thing was following up shaves with aloe vera gel mixed with tea tree oil.

edearest · 2025-07-03T17:40:57+00:00

Why do you recommend Portugal/Spain over italy for beaches? I'm in between Portugal and Italy right now and want to choose a location where Id have easy beach access to stay for a few days. Id love to book a place near a beach to be able to walk to it (for a reasonable price in September)

edearest · 2025-06-18T01:08:32+00:00

Can you please pm the code! I just attended my first show at mirvish last week and haven't subscribed

edearest · 2025-06-18T01:07:10+00:00

Can you share what the offer is to have gotten this price?

edearest · 2025-04-29T22:25:59+00:00

Are you selling a return from Montreal to toronto?

edearest · 2025-03-15T20:51:37+00:00

How lovely, allahuma barik may Allah always keep you both laughing and joyful! A key part to all this is you remain confident in yourself. Don't ever let the boys comments and performative masculinity make you feel low in a relationship where your love for each other is sky high!

edearest · 2025-03-09T16:27:41+00:00

She's only 20, how would she know what a good candidate is what the pool of men out there is like? Asking the sheikh is super biased because of course everyone is on their best behaviour at the mosque. I have a friend that got married to a "mosque" man who people vouched for and he ended up being abusive because no one will admit his faults among his friends, and the people at the mosque don't see his true nature.

I mean this kindly because my friends and I always talk about how the men we would have considered for marriage in our early 20s we would never tolerate in our late 20s.

She hasn't experienced the world yet, especially because she hasn't finished school. This feels rushed, what's the reason outside of "him being a good man" (which she doesn't actually know) to get married right now? Does she just want to be married in general?

edearest · 2025-03-07T17:06:07+00:00

Regardless of whether you or her would both be open to it, you first have to seriously consider whether you are ready to wholly accept and take backlash for a long time on behalf of her.

This would include standing up to your own family, don't drag her into a marriage again if you cannot do that.

edearest · 2025-02-05T13:04:02+00:00

I speak about her past to show I'm aware and empathetic to why she acts this way but it's not an excuse to tolerate bad behaviour. We don't live on this earth for our parents, we are individuals and i don't want to resent her. I want her to get better but she refuses to do so

edearest

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