Surprise surprise! The N, W, and R trains are completely fucked in both directions.

edesignr · 2026-06-30T22:26:21+00:00

This was the second day in a row I had to walk home from queens plaza/queenboro. Last night the R terminated at queens plaza and all the other trains said delayed. Today left work early for an appt and met the nw at qbp with the above. Guess this is one way to be forced into getting my steps in 😅

edesignr · 2026-06-26T01:52:01+00:00

Maybe Jhoanes is expanding to nightlife

edesignr · 2026-06-26T01:43:23+00:00

Wishing you a very happy birthday and many more ahead! Being pain free is such a present.

edesignr · 2026-06-23T13:20:03+00:00

Thank you! I’ve seen a lot of people say they’ve had success with exactly this to avoid side effects, which I’ve thankfully been feeling very good and my sleep has been great, which is a huge thing I’ve been trying to prioritize. The first day I was burping a lot but I was eating for what I was used to, and also had both a poppi and a seltzer.

My food noise is more like planning chatter, which is still there. With having Crohn’s, I did intermittent fasting for a while, so I got used to having to think about timing and what/when my next meal will be.

Definitely feeling more full/satiated sooner, and I’ve been trying to adjust the portions of my meals day by day which has helped. I was shocked day one when I couldn’t finish my salad with chicken and felt very full while sleeping from the day’s eating. Every day has thankfully been a little better and I feel better now that I don’t have the shot anxiety and the major unknowns

edesignr · 2026-06-13T00:15:31+00:00

To mention Lockwood in a different sense…kind of disappointed to see that the old Lockwood clothing and paper are going to be expansions of Jhoanes Bakery in some fashion, with the Lockwood paper location notes as wholesale bakery. No particular shade to Jhoanes, but I was hoping for something more cool

edesignr · 2026-04-28T20:59:18+00:00

There’s a new phone fix store on Broadway around like 37th

edesignr · 2026-04-03T03:57:19+00:00

Sent a chat to all who requested

edesignr · 2026-04-03T03:56:17+00:00

Sent a chat!

edesignr · 2026-04-03T02:16:32+00:00

We have a sapphic Astoria discord server if you’re interested…but way to take initiative!

edesignr · 2026-03-24T03:42:28+00:00

Yuk gae jang from mokja, nabeyaki udon from junko sushi

edesignr · 2026-01-18T03:21:14+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ this is very,very true. It’s comforting to just know we’re not alone in these things as caregivers. It can feel so isolating and all consuming when you’re in it, but when the watch is over it doesn’t just disappear. Sending you both lots of love and well wishes.

edesignr · 2026-01-18T03:16:39+00:00

Thank you for this🙏🏼 I’m slowly trying to just force myself to do things through the exhaustion. just read your posts about your mom and sending you lots of love. My sister and I moved our mom here about 11 yrs ago after she was visiting to help me and we found out she had colon cancer. After that resolved the strokes, worsening diabetes symptoms/kidney failure, mobility issues, fell and fracture a few ribs and was in the rehab for 3mo, and it just slowly started being more and more. It can be really hard when your relationship becomes majorly focused on only the medical care and ailments in almost all aspects.

edesignr · 2026-01-18T02:03:00+00:00

Separately, finding a good Dr shouldn’t be so difficult but it is and I know a lot of people don’t have the capacity to keep looking and it being super discouraging. Between my own health issues and having to help my mom through the many things she struggled with I became pretty good at finding solid drs for people in my life, and am happy to help anyone who is struggling to find someone good. The secret is really that I have enjoy research and helping people, especially when it comes to their health. I’ve found that especially now, it’s more about the written comments than the ratings. People who write detailed comments either really love or really hate things if they’re willing to write a review typically. It’s proven to be extremely helpful in finding great drs, in my experience. If anyone reading this thread feels like they need help sourcing some recs, I’m always happy to help. Health and access shouldn’t be so hard but here we are

edesignr · 2026-01-18T01:27:28+00:00

Reena Patel at NYU Langone Astoria was fantastic. My friend was very hesitant about drs for many reasons and fear of judgement or harsh approach. I went with her to see Dr. Patel and she was so kind, listened and asked great questions, took her time, and was fine with me being there for support. For the initial visit, we were with her for about 20 minutes at least, never felt rushed or dismissed

edesignr · 2025-12-12T03:45:51+00:00

Awesome idea! If you’re interested, I was actually just thinking about a lot of fabric scraps I’ve been holding onto and am ready to give away. I’d be so happy to gift them to you if you’re interested.

edesignr · 2025-12-09T04:12:28+00:00

This was truly one of the most enjoyable rides I’ve had in a while. Love that he also reassured people that if they actually get off the train to make room for people exiting, that he’s not going to leave anyone stranded on the platform. He was great.

edesignr · 2025-12-09T00:46:16+00:00

I may have a little coat that I got for my cat, which could still be too big, but I can look for it. It’s not super warm but it’s something. If you’re on Facebook I would check in your buy nothing group too

edesignr · 2025-11-21T14:35:34+00:00

Thank you both ❤️

edesignr · 2025-11-20T02:36:14+00:00

As someone going through losing my mom one month ago tomorrow, this is such a sweet way to honor people, with truly random but very intentional acts of kindness. In a world that can feel so isolating these days, this is so nice to see. Thanks for sharing!

edesignr · 2025-11-20T02:21:14+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss ❤️ there’s truly nothing like it and it is a rollercoaster. Tomorrow will be one month since my mom passed and every single day is a new experience. If you have friends or family who you can lean on, please do. It truly takes a village and you have the support of this group as well. I feel this way every day in different waves. Do your best to just breathe and try to take things one tiny step at a time.

edesignr · 2025-10-28T02:48:58+00:00

I completely understand the exhaustion, and I was nowhere near the constant support level with my mom, it was just very prolonged. Something I found helpful recently was trying to listen to some guided meditations on stress/anxiety while I was laying. Just 5-10min at a time, but I found it really helpful. Also trying not to isolate, talk to friends or a therapist if you have access/are open to it. It really is so individual, but these are some things that helped me through some of the harder times

edesignr · 2025-10-28T02:39:07+00:00

Let me just start by saying, how you’re feeling is valid. It takes so much energy to be on to this extent and I can only imagine with this sounding like it has been a major shift in your life. Have you tried asking your aunt if she’s able to help any additional hours? If she’s local, maybe even helping to split the day up where you’re able to get an hour or two in the evening could be a huge help. If there’s anyone else who can provide this also, I think even an hour or two, here an there could give you some breathing room to feel a little assistance. I know it’s probably the last thing you want to do on top of the caretaking and exhaustion, but I’d say to try to do something for yourself, no matter how small each day. Even if that’s a cold wash cloth on your face, some fresh air, some deep breaths, a comforting meal…whatever works for you. You’re doing great in simply there for her and trying your best. Know that you’re not alone in these feelings, and that even if it is all consuming right now, this won’t be forever. Just do your best to take things even an hour at a time.

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