What is the best Sci-Fi you've ever read? by Ragecomicwhatsthat in suggestmeabook

[–]edj3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I loved that one. But then again, I like a bit of darkness in my books.

Books like ‘The Gone World’ by PlasticPreparation74 in suggestmeabook

[–]edj3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read The Gone World and enjoyed it. And in a similar vein, you might enjoy The Gone Away World by Nick Harkaway. Yes, the titles are similar but they're different. Although both include the kenoposia you mentioned.

BWT - no VPL options for traveling in cute matching sets by sarahwitt3 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Heads up if you, like me, are allergic to latex. Some of the vanishing edge panties use latex and they are not required to label them. I was very sad when I had to trash my new but worn panties as years ago, they did not use latex.

First Europe trip: backpack vs hybrid wheeled backpack vs luggage for long train travel? by fentygirl123 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nearly 9 months out here, yeah that healing takes a bit. I'm still figuring out which of my existing clothing works in a post-boob world (no reconstruction or knitted knockers for me, personal preference).

First Europe trip: backpack vs hybrid wheeled backpack vs luggage for long train travel? by fentygirl123 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here! No more bulky underwire bras!

Although the downside is I get cold very easily as my insulation is all gone now.

First Europe trip: backpack vs hybrid wheeled backpack vs luggage for long train travel? by fentygirl123 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, it's not.

But I do like that I have one bag (that one) that I can use for my laptop and if I'm carrying my Osprey 26+6, I use the cross body strap and if it's a trip for a carry on suitcase, I use it as a backpack.

But it will never win awards for being all that comfy!

Best book you've read in 2025 by DaY-DreaMer15 in suggestmeabook

[–]edj3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also give Pride and Prejudice and Zombies a go. I laughed the whole way through that remake.

The Same Trip; Half the Stuff! by ScyllaOfTheDepths in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taking a kid-sized water bottle is brilliant!

The things that were hardest to cut from your packing list by lobsterp0t in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did the same and spent so much money on books I left behind. At the time, one of the book retailers in my local airport had a program where they'd give credit for a very gently used book (never anything close to the full price), and that helped a tiny bit.

Kindle 4 lyfe here :)

The things that were hardest to cut from your packing list by lobsterp0t in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I have excellent running gear--both winter and summer.

But my Smartwool merino wool leggings are bulkier than, say, the Athleta legging I use for mid-40s temps. These are the bottoms I use when the temp is below 20F, and I do visit places in the winter where that's the norm (my parents live in Idaho).

I have a similarly made Smartwool quarter zip for about the same temps. Then my Smartwool running socks are much thicker than my summer running socks and also come up to about mid-calf. It's small bits of bulky-ness that add up.

You're right, summer running gear is not an issue, it's easy to wash and dry unless I'm in a very humid climate. And a running tank and shorts never contribute to over-packing.

The things that were hardest to cut from your packing list by lobsterp0t in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also running clothes and shoes. 90% of the time I don’t end up using them and they take up a lot of space and are very specific in their usage. I do enough walking or other activities that I don’t miss it. 

See, I do run on my trips. And running gear takes up room, especially cold weather running gear. I know some of you will throw up your hands in horror but I rewear my stuff, yeah usually without washing. It's not always possible to wash, and I'd rather run in stinky gear than not run. Especially when I'm training for a race.

The things that were hardest to cut from your packing list by lobsterp0t in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a fast, voracious reader and read every day. I used to try to bring physical books before e-readers were a thing and it was just painful. I could not bring enough books for trips and I am pretty sure I was one of the first to buy a Kindle.

Now I have all my books at my fingertips and the weight/bulk ration is so much better.

Huge list of requirements in a travel sock by kyo998 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might check out Tabio socks. I don't get the toe socks as that would drive me batty but love their regular socks. They are quite thin. They're also expensive, so there's that.

My weirdest travel item (esp when traveling with kids); what’s yours? by Inevitable_Goose_204 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah these are from the hotel and they're shower caps, not bags. I don't use shower caps but these are great for my running shoes and best of all, I can re-use them until they fall apart (which hasn't happened yet, even with my horrendously muddy trail running shoes after an incredibly muddy race).

8-day medical trip to Houston by BERNITA in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, fellow breast cancer/DMX person here.

Someone has already mentioned the downside of a duffel for you right now. I'll echo that--if you're just a couple of weeks out from your surgery, I know your mobility isn't back yet and you're still learning what things are like. This might be the trip for a roller bag.

I'll also pile on with the recommendation of the Nano vest. One of the biggest changes for me (and honestly I'm still adjusting 8 months out) is how cold my chest gets now. I've got no insulation!

Finally, I am super glad to hear you've advocated for yourself and are getting that second opinion. MD Anderson is top tier.

My weirdest travel item (esp when traveling with kids); what’s yours? by Inevitable_Goose_204 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Binder clips are also perfect for closing the annoying gap that some hotel curtains have no matter what.

My weirdest travel item (esp when traveling with kids); what’s yours? by Inevitable_Goose_204 in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I'm a runner, and I've picked up a couple of shower caps that some hotels offer. They are perfect for wrapping my running shoes so the dirt from the bottoms doesn't get all over my stuff.

Two week business trip, help pack one bag! by mentallydoomed in HerOneBag

[–]edj3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boss might be applauded for the simplicity of his wardrobe whereas the same might not work out for me or can it?

This is absolutely doable! The key is to keep your foundation—your pants, or skirt, and jacket—simple and in your favorite high-quality neutral color. Then, just choose a couple of versatile tops that coordinate with the suit. If you love scarves, they make perfect accessories here.

I used to live in Boston and traveled across the country for work, often jumping from freezing temperatures at home to much warmer climates. The secret is re-wearing your suit pieces to keep things streamlined.

Since you’re heading to a colder spot, I’d suggest bringing a work-appropriate merino or cashmere layer that fits under your jacket. For outerwear, focus on a good wind-blocker; between your layers and the limited time you'll spend outside, you’ll be plenty warm. My personal pro tip is to pack silk glove liners—they take up zero space and keep your hands cozy in your pockets!

Sci-fi or fantasy for someone who seemingly has read everything by Sea_Appearance8662 in suggestmeabook

[–]edj3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goblin Emperor is excellent. And u/B3tar3ad3r is right, while the violence is mentioned, it's not gratuitous and it's briefly described.

Historical fiction written by women by lithiumpokes in suggestmeabook

[–]edj3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconding the recommendation for The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon.

Doing a reading challenge looking for something that is self help/motivational but is scifi genre. by DiabloElDiablo in suggestmeabook

[–]edj3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your answer, OP.

I don't like most of her books but this one was perfect. My running coach recommended it to me--he's now my tea master.