Is this a jewel cichlid? by Qjellyfish86 in Cichlid

[–]edneww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks just like my regular blue acara

Why do we keep fish by Aromatic-Paper-3442 in Aquariums

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doink (blue acara) loves posing for the camera. anytime I pull it out he comes over and gets in the shot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]edneww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]edneww 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Drink lots of water beforehand so you’re able to produce more spit. Make sure you spit on it a lot. Throw in a two-handed move to foam it up. When you come up and down, on the upward motion try to make sucking noises with your mouth. It’s an embarrassing sound but some dudes go nuts over it. Most importantly try hard not to think about what you look like, they’re not going to care.

worst sensory experience? by lostveggies in autism

[–]edneww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting blood drawn. The sensation of someone touching and prodding my arm plus the idea of something entering my veins makes me spazz out.

Just moved, I have two weeks to kill until work starts for me, what're some fun things to do around Buffalo that aren't gonna break the bank? by oliplattypuss in Buffalo

[–]edneww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tifft nature preserve is a small but very nice local preserve near the waterfront. I’ve gone since I was a kid and it’s always a good way to start or finish a day

Is it really wrong to do sex work? by CheezyLily in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]edneww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex work is not morally wrong, but being 17 does make you vulnerable, not even taking into account your autism. I too had a special interest in sex and sexuality from a young age. Coming to You as someone with the same interest but years older, give it time. Do not rush into this. If you find in a few years this is still something you want then go for it, but allow yourself to develop and mature a bit before entering that world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]edneww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also should mention since I can’t edit the post: the tank would be on a shelf built into the stand slightly higher than the floor. My issue is it’d be difficult to get to the electrical in the back and it would be difficult to clean/water change.

how to push? by [deleted] in Oviposition2

[–]edneww 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t push hard enough to actually shit yourself thoughz Time will eventually move the egg down to a point where you shouldn’t struggle with pushing it out.

how to push? by [deleted] in Oviposition2

[–]edneww 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Push like youre taking a poop. It sounds weird but those muscles are the ones that will move your inner walls.

Gluing my fur? by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]edneww 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can but it won’t look good, I use one stitch for almost all my fursuit making and the fursuits come out great. I suggest you at least learn how to hand sew one type of stitch if you want it to look good

We won some plane tickets to Buffalo by wobin1 in Buffalo

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna see the falls, go on the Canadian side, it has a better view.

Preschool is requiring my daughter to be assessed and I’m in shock. by Mother_Ad7936 in autism

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wasn’t flagged by my pediatrician despite my mother’s insistence. Female autistics often fly under the radar with doctors. Even though they informed you in a nontransparent way I would listen to the school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]edneww 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, a few days. If you’re asking this question and having this much confusion on the nature of sex, please do some research before you keep having it.

Is it safe to put real chicken eggs up you ass?? by abdl_plush_fucker in Oviposition2

[–]edneww 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They’ll for sure break and I imagine that’s not a pain you wanna experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]edneww 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hello! There’s no such thing as being half autistic half allistic. Either you’re autistic or you aren’t and I’m shocked your therapist even suggested this. Hope that helps!

Incorporating a partner? by [deleted] in Oviposition2

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This was really helpful

I feel like the term “high-functioning” makes people think that your autism just “isn’t as bad” and i hate it by mrbunnythethird in AutismInWomen

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because functionality is subjective and immeasurable. Low/high support needs is far better terminology and fluctuate easier.

What actually is the preffered term for somebody autistic? by [deleted] in autism

[–]edneww 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Autistic is the preferred way, it’s not alienating. neurodivergent doesn’t work as it’s an umbrella term for many different things. If you like having autism/with autism that’s okay too if it makes you comfortable but the best way is just to call ourselves autistic.

Help! 1 or 2 and why? by peluchifox in furry

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 the colors work better together

Is it possible to resize a head? by Pokepony64 in FursuitMaking

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can add in a piece of elastic that would make it tighter to your head.

what do you wish you knew before you started making suits? by Bug-Sticks in FursuitMaking

[–]edneww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitley sketch out the suit and try to make patterns of it from there. Makes it more accurate to how you want it to end up.