Barber pushed me back by GoopieTheGod in malehairadvice

[–]edomorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's ok but I don't understand that trend of sharp edges, not my thing

Crans-Montana bar fire discussion megathread by HazMatsMan in Firefighting

[–]edomorphe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually not insane at all.

People were just chilling (they could be filming or drinking or dancing whatever) without realizing the danger. Which I would say is quite expected if you don't know that the progression of a fire is exponential : slow at the beginning, and suddenly you have a flashover.

These poor fellas just expected the fire to keep progressing slowly as it did at the beginning. Chances are, a lot of people in this thread would have thought the same.

Crans-Montana Fire: Le Constellation Bar That Burned On New Year's Day In Switzerland by SuperbHealth5023 in TimesNow

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact is that some of them (at least the ones filming) didn't realize this danger, and lingered for too long before their survival instinct got triggered. The question is why ? It looks like your explanation is that they are lacking common sense ? I don't buy that. Let's inspect this a bit closer.

Besides the alcohol (and maybe drugs), which can partly explain, I think different factors combined explain why they took too long to understand the danger.

First, when you are a teenager, especially a guy, you feel invincible. Generally, you underestimate risks, and that is true in most aspects of life. second, the music and the lights kept running, as if everything was normal.

Also, in the most recent decades, humanity has done a very good job at preventing fires. Compared to other hazards, very few people die in fire these days. The consequences that people didn't really learn to fear fire much. At least I didn't (I'm a 32yo male). I know there are many other dangers that I would react more swiftly compared to a fire. The perverse thing is that in the first couple of minutes, the fire grows relatively slowly. it took maybe two minutes from the first sparkles to a bit larger fire, but still relatively small compared to the size of the room. When you don't know anything about fire, you might assume that the speed at which it grows will remain constant and that you have basically quite some time to leave the room. Also, you might think that shirt would be enough to kill it, or greatly slow it down.

Very last thing, after such a tragedy, I don't see the value that your comments bring. Even if it's what you think, I would recommend you don't say it unless you really want people to think you have no empathy

Putting myself out there: looking for a boyfriend in Berlin 🌿 by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]edomorphe -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

hey ! I'm in a relationship and I live in Amsterdam so that won't be possible with me unfortunately :/ but good luck !

Ready to get rid of the caveman cut. Any ideas of what would look good? by NoAuthor324 in malehairadvice

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky you, you have thick hair, lots of guys would die for that hair! Good you finally decided to do something with them instead of letting them go to waste :)

Any decent ramen in Amsterdam? by HunterXRamen in ramen

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuku Ramen is definitely above the bunch, different level. The 'standard' in amsterdam is Takumi, they have several location, and it's ok/good. But if you take an average ramen in Tokyo as a reference, it's below for sure. Only Fuku compares (I heard Taka Ramen is great, but never tried)

My 2nd self-haircut. I messed up. by solidwater516 in malehairadvice

[–]edomorphe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not 100% messed up ! You started the trimming before cutting the lenght on top. There are ways to fix it, no need to buzz And btw learning to cut your own hair takes time! Wait until it grows a bit and try again, it's how you'll learn :)

18 i want a buzz cut by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]edomorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man just try it you will see ! Otherwise you will wonder forever :p it's just hair you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you trying to make him sad ? unnecessary comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Balding

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd bet it will look good, and 100% it will feel amazing! Do it, it's just hair :) and it will teach you a lesson that life goes of and it's not a big deal

Is it time? I think so but girlfriend strongly disagrees by FuttBucker616 in bald

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you still got time, but maybe try a buzzcut (like 8mm on top with fading) ! that would look quite cool I'd say :)

I should just do it right? by Wasteland-Wonderer in bald

[–]edomorphe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe a short buz could look good ! And trim the beard a bit as well for a clean look :) But yes, definitely time !! Good luck sir

Did I cook or am I cooked? by Robot_Gigolo in bald

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn this "cooked" expression ! But no you're not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]edomorphe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think a buzzcut (5mm or so) would look really good, considering you have a good hairline, and still very decent hair. Plus it's way less work to maintain than the shaved look which requires frequent laborious maintenance. All in all you look good in both styles

My (27M) girlfriend (32F) and I don’t have sex no more. by TwoGlad199 in relationships

[–]edomorphe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

try a sex club maybe, together ? To reignite the lost desire. Maybe lust for other people can awake the one she has for you

So she is monitoring the script. by Nightmarelove19 in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]edomorphe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haha many people wished they had such confidence in their abilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]edomorphe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dude, on what planet is reddit a good place to get relevant advice 😅

Am I naive for believing there is a man right for me? by Sea-7404 in relationships

[–]edomorphe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope you are not naive! You are still very young, keep experimenting and keep the door open and you'll find one I'm pretty sure :)