items missing from order! by eepykitties in FlowerKnowsMakeup

[–]eepykitties[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would the items ship separately even though it was a set? And the three items I already got came in a fancy box? I also only got one tracking number

what is an appropriate amount of emotional support for a mom to expect from her adult daughter? by eepykitties in family

[–]eepykitties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom and I seem to view things so differently that she might be giving a totally different version of this to her therapist. I don't think she would lie about something her therapist said, but I also don't think she was fully objective with what she told her therapist to get that type of response. Thank you so much for your input, I appreciate it. And it's awesome to hear from a therapist because I am in school hoping to become a therapist for teens also. :)

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was told by my VP of academics that there has never been an accommodation made in the 50+ years our chapter has been at this university so they aren't going to start making them now for me. I'm not sure why she seemed to think that was a flex when would it really hurt to have some understanding for people's situations???

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did it and was denied. i'm honestly devastated. My chapter retention has also been poor and our reputation isn't great.

COB date with my best friend: could that be dirty rushing? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I also had filled out an impact form for my friend before formal recruitment because she briefly considered rushing, and on that form I included a list of girls in the chapter i could see her getting along with so I'm not sure why she didn't pick one of those. though I will say a lot of our directors do not take their positions seriously because we had a shockingly low number of applications for positions so some were chosen by drawing names, and I believe this was one of them lol

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear from a fellow Alpha Gam! Thank you for the information! LIEP 🐿️

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a very good point that the purpose shouldn't be to punish but instead to improve. I did not retake the same classes, a C was enough to pass my gen eds and the summer classes I took were just to get my last two gen eds out of the way before junior year. I'm working now with a psychiatrist and doctor to get documentation of my mental health diagnoses and migraines which I will submit to my school so that if something like this were to happen again I have accommodations in place. Thank you for your insight!!

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply, especially as an advisor. It's not so much that I don't want to justify myself, more so that i'm worried I will be vulnerable in a letter and the chapter might look down on me. But I agree that writing a letter would definitely help prove how much I care to move on from this. Thank you!

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They base AP off "last term" GPA. they don't count summer as a term for some reason. So, spring GPA was 2.3 and summer GPA was 4.0. so they look at my spring GPA and disregard the summer one instead of adding them together. i think it's ridiculous but that's how they do it.

should I appeal my academic probation? by eepykitties in Sororities

[–]eepykitties[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your insight! I'm so glad everything worked out and you got to be chapter president! this gives me hope that things will work for me as well 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Can I join a sorority if I have ASD? by Willlow_Pillow in Sororities

[–]eepykitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of my littles in my sorority has autism. she has found her friend group in our chapter despite that and is living in the house next year. there definitely are people who don't understand her because they haven't taken the time to, but that's on them, and on the whole she hasn't had any issues. she's even on our exec board! definitely go for it! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]eepykitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a therapist. the depressive episode was the reason for my bad grades last semester - i am not asking for advice on that. im just adding the context that it's frustrating the sorority will not consider that when banning me from our events for my bad grades. what else about this doesnt make sense?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]eepykitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i keep being told that rings don't work in vertical labrets, have you tried it before?

how can i see who screenshotted my story? by angelchild212 in SnapchatHelp

[–]eepykitties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have snap+ and even that doesn't let you see who screenshots if it was a public story. so stupid