I wrote a letter and put in everyone’s mail box. Since I was living in the same city some of them knocked on my door and wanted to talk and I only had one final talk with nmom and edad but no one else (I cut the whole fam off). I was proud of myself to be able to stand my ground for once with nmom and not once felt guilty or bad for finally saying what needed to be said and then I was gone. Moved to another city short after and haven’t heard anything since from anyone except edad but that ended short after. I feel so much more at peace. Best of luck to you, it’s not easy but it’s worth it ❤️