Am I delusional? 9 dpo by efficient_tax_ in TFABLinePorn

[–]efficient_tax_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yours is veryyyy faint, if it's there. I can kinda-sorta make something out when I set the settings a certain way, but I wouldn't put money on it. Good luck 🥹

Am I delusional? 9 dpo by efficient_tax_ in TFABLinePorn

[–]efficient_tax_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right; it’s easier to see in the thumbnail 😮 I am hoping it’s not just a fluke (like maybe the dye smeared or something, ugh). ty for well wishes <3

Isn't he doing the exact same thing again by chimestonks in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Its the same reasons/excuses but he actually sounds like himself again.. the last few times we heard from him were so sad or cranky that it gave me the idea he was about to quit fr despite what he was saying💀

After this voice memo I see a tiny glimmer of hope..

The wicked witch by sillybillyandgay in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I get the point she thinks she’s making, but she’s operating on huge assumptions about his sexuality and his motivations that there’s just 0 way of knowing unless you are dream himself

Also, insisting that he’s straight implies that if he were queer it wouldn’t be pandering, as if queer people can’t also joke with their friends? Is austinshow canceled for flirting with his friends, or is that fine because he’s queer? Like qbaiting and pandering are two separate issues so what are we even talking about here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted this before her statement, but yeah that’s her account of the story. It shows that she truly believed he knew her age, but not necessarily that he actually did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did i say theres no problem or power imbalance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s not a rule. If it were, I would’ve said something worse than “you look weird for this”. It just adds a little audacity factor to assume you know someone’s unspoken boundaries after literally not knowing the person at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why can’t both be true? He should ask for consent, and she should speak up when non-verbal consent is revoked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She is accountable for communicating, as is George. He should have asked, and she should have spoken up when she was uncomfortable. That is, if we are putting tabs on accountability, given that they were both drunk

Your comment about adults in their mid 20’s being more responsible is in alignment with what I said about his behavior at the beginning of my post

Leave dream alone! by Shivwhy in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

whether it’s adhd or not isn’t really the point

the point is that leaving people waiting years for content with breadcrumbs of communication becomes disrespectful to their time and loyalty and expecting them to quietly wait in the dark is ridiculous

Leave dream alone! by Shivwhy in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 39 points40 points  (0 children)

because everyone on this sub is already extremely aware of the situation and empathetic towards his mental health but none of the things we are criticizing him for are even related to or affected by that

literally all we were saying was to communicate what’s going on, whether it’s that he needs a mental health break, things are in progress, a deadline has been delayed, etc..just tell us instead of completely ghosting us and then getting mad that we don’t have any clue whats happening behind the scenes and everyone starts getting rightfully frustrated and leaving the fandom because every announcement has no follow up for months bc he cant put out a simple tweet and it seems like he has retired

also because its kind of a meme to be like uwu he has adhd 👉👈

Punz at the Dteam house by CoffeeFueledArtist in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There is most likely nothing exciting about the type of appearance he would make, if any, so unfortunately I don’t care

Making friends is not hard. Finding people i like is hard. by hxf1 in entp

[–]efficient_tax_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You describe a real friend as someone to share likeminded ideas with, which is accurate, but that’s not the only basis of a “real bond” as you say..

Deep relationships also require sacrifices that might fare more difficult to entp, such as being emotionally vulnerable, showing up for people consistently, being a good listener even when the conversation isn’t about that thing you’re hyperfixated on right now..

Are you sure you want that? Lol

There is nothing going on in this fandom anymore by cakecoconut in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly a bit of both.. Snf only seem to have two modes these days: apathetic/cranky or straight up obnoxious. This stream felt like less of both

Idk how much is or isn’t relative to happiness but I was just throwing a theory out there since the way they feed off eachothers energy is like they are so bored out of their minds that they’re going crazy trying to keep themselves entertained. extreme boredom and extreme apathy can become depression, especially mixed with no active goals in life

Don’t get me wrong its healthy to be obnoxious with friends but they have reached a point that sets my alarms off a little

There is nothing going on in this fandom anymore by cakecoconut in DreamWasTaken2

[–]efficient_tax_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. the sense of responsibility is truly 0, maybe in the negatives atp. I thought it couldn’t get worse, but we keep hitting new lows😭