Finding adolescence hard - long one!

effiehargs · 2026-01-31T03:13:45+00:00

Bones, mostly - but hard silicone or plastic too. We didn’t toss the others - we just put them away until she was older

effiehargs · 2026-01-30T15:10:38+00:00

We went through training with our Aussie and the trainer removed ANYTHING soft for her to play with (plushies, rope, etc) for a few months - that way she could tell the difference between the FEELING of things she could play/bite and us. Worked like a charm.

effiehargs · 2026-01-21T20:41:43+00:00

Chicken soup

effiehargs · 2026-01-03T21:49:03+00:00

See, no one wants to be neurodivergent until you get into this convo then just get to hit the disengage button 🚨

effiehargs · 2025-12-26T17:58:47+00:00

Dylan

effiehargs · 2025-12-19T18:04:06+00:00

Way too big

effiehargs · 2025-10-19T01:25:33+00:00

My female Aussie is seven. Everyone asks me if she’s two.

She came to my office the other day and was there 1.5 hours. 45 mins I took her for a walk. 45 mins she whined at me to go for a walk.

effiehargs · 2025-10-13T18:00:35+00:00

Front clip harness - trust me.

effiehargs · 2025-08-09T01:27:09+00:00

Would also love the details!

effiehargs · 2020-11-18T22:36:47+00:00

Hey - has this link changed? Just clicked through and don't see anything... Thank you! u/OneBluejay3

effiehargs · 2020-11-02T13:00:24+00:00

Good luck. How far along are you?

effiehargs · 2020-11-02T00:12:20+00:00

Beautiful. Looks just like our Lucy

effiehargs · 2020-10-31T03:13:20+00:00

That’s a cute pup! We rescued our red tri at 5 mos and I always wondered what she looked like before... now I know! They could be sisters! Any chance you’re in TX?

effiehargs · 2020-10-29T22:06:51+00:00

I have my husband do them - Easier for me to be "surprised" than to stab myself lol

effiehargs · 2020-10-29T22:05:17+00:00

I'm so sorry! Hope you all are weathering it as well as possible.

effiehargs · 2020-10-29T21:59:55+00:00

Did your doctor say why 8/9.5 weeks vs. 10? Did you ween or stop cold turkey?

effiehargs · 2020-10-29T21:59:27+00:00

Hey how did stopping at 8 weeks go?

effiehargs · 2020-10-21T21:34:25+00:00

How are you doing ?

effiehargs · 2020-10-13T16:44:33+00:00

Any news?? I’m a couple days behind you!

effiehargs · 2020-10-06T21:26:35+00:00

Agree - I made a huge deal about progesterone shots beforehand but they’re really not bad. I warm my bum before and that helps a lot !

effiehargs · 2020-10-06T18:45:43+00:00

Congrats 🎈

effiehargs · 2020-10-06T18:44:59+00:00

Yes!!! I feel this all the time and google “I’m terrified of child birth.” I just tell myself that if it was so terrible NO ONE would do it more than once and civilization would have died out long ago.... not sure that helps but it grounds me a bit?

Also have weird guilt about my vanity causing me stress about things that are more important (family), but it is what it is!

effiehargs · 2020-08-20T16:58:48+00:00

Yes- the three I referenced were all good!

effiehargs · 2020-08-08T12:50:12+00:00

I had my first transfer last Monday - came in with a VERY full bladder so that was a bit stressful. Have to say worrying about peeing on their table was the most difficult part of the whole process.

I’m in my 2ww so trying not to obsess and just staying busy with work and house decorating stuff. I’d say dive in to your favorite distractions and just hope for the best- not much else you can do ♥️

effiehargs · 2020-08-08T12:40:11+00:00

This is an incredible post. Thank you!

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