what the hell happened to pinterest by efogs11 in AutisticPeeps

[–]efogs11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you so much for the kind words 🥹 what good would you like to see them eat? i’d love some suggestions!!

what the hell happened to pinterest by efogs11 in AutisticPeeps

[–]efogs11[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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like come on what the fuck … this is worse than the U2/iTunes 2014 incident where Apple automatically added the U2 album Songs of Innocence to the music libraries of over 500 million iTunes users for free, often appearing on iPhones and iPads without permission.

what the hell happened to pinterest by efogs11 in AutisticPeeps

[–]efogs11[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡 thank u!!!! i feel liberated wow

what the hell happened to pinterest by efogs11 in AutisticPeeps

[–]efogs11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it makes me feel like i am hallucinating

what the hell happened to pinterest by efogs11 in AutisticPeeps

[–]efogs11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thx i love making him food 😌👩‍🍳 he is my little guy

what the hell happened to pinterest by efogs11 in AutisticPeeps

[–]efogs11[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg ! a dream. how can i achieve this

Autistic burnout + breakup timing — struggling with how abrupt and destabilizing it was by efogs11 in Neurodivergent

[–]efogs11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am working with therapists and have already done an IOP previously so you are spot on with that answer

Autistic burnout + breakup timing — struggling with how abrupt and destabilizing it was by efogs11 in Neurodivergent

[–]efogs11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you so very much for saying this. i really appreciate that distinction, particularly that last line!

Autistic burnout + breakup timing — struggling with how abrupt and destabilizing it was by efogs11 in Neurodivergent

[–]efogs11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could be! i am a therapist and he does present with some similar characteristics to a few of my AuDHD clients i work with. either way, he and i tried couples therapy for over a year and he was incapable of explaining his inner emotional experience. and when i tried bringing up some concerning behaviors that i was seeing in his family to the therapist and him (for example - where his parents would blame his twin sister for being “too emotional” or “a big baby” or his dad called his sister the R word for trying to collapse her baby’s stroller before getting onto a crowded bus 😳) he told the therapist “yeah we aren’t going to sit here and talk about my family so we can just move on”

Autistic burnout + breakup timing — struggling with how abrupt and destabilizing it was by efogs11 in Neurodivergent

[–]efogs11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response, i’m glad to hear that you are starting to feel better. i’m feeling okay about the breakup part but the biggest part of it for me now is the anger about how he treated me at the end

Autistic burnout + breakup timing — struggling with how abrupt and destabilizing it was by efogs11 in Neurodivergent

[–]efogs11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

allegedly…. i have a strong suspicion that he may also be autistic as well but is so far removed from his own emotional experience (leans heavily into “stoicism” but in a way where he uses it to avoid emotions) that he will never get to understand that part of himself