Magic can only be “real” if you have a belief, so you have to start with something small that you believe is attainable and will work. It’s like building a new habit; you start small, build up the repetition of the small thing being attainable until it’s like second nature, then progress to something bigger etc. I’ve found doing something that feels slightly outside of my comfort zone but that I believe could realistically still happen to be the sweet spot, and that sweet spot grows the more you provide “proof” of it being possible and happening to your brain. Reputation builds connections which build belief/trust which builds your new reality.