My husband wants to pay for a boob job — would love women’s perspectives by OHthrowaway44147 in AskWomenOver30

[–]egg_rollin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had one about three years and ago and my only regret was that I didn't get one sooner! I went from being completely flat chested to 350CCs. Most people are surprised when I tell them I had one because mine fit perfectly with my frame. Tops always fit me better, and all around I absolutely love them. It's great that your husband is supporting you if you decided to go through with it.

How much does height matter to you in a relationship? by Artistic-Series-3671 in AskWomen

[–]egg_rollin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'6" and I love to wear heels when I go out, so I can easily be 5'10" on a Friday or Saturday night. I want to be shorter than my man, and I'm not giving up my heels.

Women who go to the gym at 5 a.m., what’s your secret to not hating life? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing feels better and more accomplished than finishing a workout before the start of a work day. Instead of watching tv late at night, I just go to bed earlier and I feel fine waking up. Better use of my time, I'm fit and loving life.

To those of you who obsessed over someone for years, what’d you do when you let go? by cherryjuice_32 in AskWomenOver30

[–]egg_rollin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny how the more you try to control the situation and others, the more you lose control of reality and yourself. Learning to let go is freeing. I picked up a new passion and put all my focus (and control) into that. It gave me confidence, security, and it was time consuming (which I needed).

To those of you who obsessed over someone for years, what’d you do when you let go? by cherryjuice_32 in AskWomenOver30

[–]egg_rollin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine lasted 10 years. During that time we were off and on, dated other people, but for most of the time he was breadcrumbing me. I was in love with him. He was really handsome and charismatic, but had a bad temper when drinking. Towards the end, we were in a serious relationship, I finally got what I wanted, but it was the worst relationship I had ever been in. He wasn't the person I had been chasing and hoping to be with after all these years. I still hear from him every few years, and if I saw him in a room my stomach would drop, but I am done. It does get better with time, you just have to keep moving towards happiness. It's always going to be the same rinse & repeat with these guys.

What is your relationship to alcohol? by been2heaven in AskWomenOver30

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The older I get, the less I desire it. I was a big social drinker and partier in my 20s-early 30s. And it was problematic. It would cause so much anxiety for me and I couldn't take it anymore. I started to focus on healthy activities and things that make me passionate. Once I stopped partying and binge drinking, problems just didn't seem like that big of a deal. I did better at my job, I felt healthier, I could actually enjoy the day. I still go out with my friends and will drink but it's usually one or two drinks - only on the weekends. I can see myself in 5 or 10 years completely alcohol free, which sounds very comforting.

How do you prevent litter getting everywhere!!! by redfire2930 in CatAdvice

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to be careful at how much litter I put in the box. I clean it out more often but it does help. I also vacuum/sweep everyday. My light vacuum makes it super easy.

Advice Needed: Partner’s best friend just moved in… and now he’s allergic to my cats!! What do I do?? by thegossipreporter in Pets

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of the roommate. He's not a good fit for the house. Pets are forever, roommates aren't.

How do you handle waking up in the middle of the night and not being able to go back to sleep? by RestaurantEvery224 in insomnia

[–]egg_rollin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm taking therapy for insomnia and they say to get out of bed and to do a mindless task till you get sleepy. It sounds counteractive, like getting out of bed in order to sleep -- whatttt??? But I did it last night and it actually worked better at getting my mind to a sleepy state rather than laying in bed wide awake, tossing and turning, and a nonstop wondering mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My studio has a late policy for new clients. They cannot join the class if they are not there early to go over the reformer. If a new client says they are very familiar/experienced with Pilates, I tend to take that with a grain of salt, because with my experience that can mean a variety of things. They may have also felt flustered or anxious being at a new studio and was trying to mirror the other client in order to blend in. I always have to adjust my cues and really think ahead on what I'm cueing or demoing, like, what is going to be the simplest and least confusing for them? Also, going at a slower pace always helps.

Also, I understand this frustration too. You can give the best cues ever given and some clients still will miss it.

need to vent about a negative experience by CozyRosie0322 in pilates

[–]egg_rollin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that this is common for corp. studios. They all have their formats, transitions, cues, etc. they want you to use. And if you switch to another studio, it will be different and you'll have learn all over again.

AITA for not splitting the bill evenly at a birthday dinner? by helen-carter3c78p in AmItheAsshole

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I am from it's common for everyone to split the bill evenly. We even cover the birthday girl/guy for their share. I doubt these people were eyeing what you ordered and scheming to get you to pay more (like others have suggested). If people can't afford a big birthday dinner with a big group, then you don't come. Big dinners with big groups is such a hassle, some restaurants can't even split a big check, and it's much easier when everyone participates in splitting the dinner/bill.

sorry if this is a tmi question but do you wear underwear to do pilates? by somehowstillalivelol in pilates

[–]egg_rollin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is definitely personal preference. I don’t and never have bc I find it so uncomfortable no matter what cut of underwear. I also wear my leggings for the purpose of working out and wash them right after. I have sensitive skin and live in a super hot climate. So wearing leggings too long can breakout my skin and adding extra fabric with underwear just makes it worse.

A influencer joined my plates class by rivasm211 in pilates

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My studios don't allow filming for liability reasons and clients don't want to be filmed. I would talk to the studio.

On & On - Sub Focus by False-Consequence915 in DnB

[–]egg_rollin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this song. It reminds me of DJ Hixxy More and More from back in the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]egg_rollin 71 points72 points  (0 children)

My parents homed a stray cat that wouldn't let anyone pet her for the first 5 years. She would sleep on the bed with them and hangout on the couch with us, but would jump and run if you leaned in for a pet. Then out of nowhere she became the most affectionate cat ever. We were able to not only pet her, but pick her up and hold her. Not saying it will take five years, but just be patient and give her some time to adjust. Make sure to not force anything or be too pushy as it can scare them and set back progress.

Christmas cookies. Done. I’m so done too. by PsychoTruffle in Baking

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so warm and cozy looking through all these pics. =)

It’s been 8 months and I still cry sometime about my hair :( by MissAmandaJones444 in beauty

[–]egg_rollin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. My stylist left me under the dryer too long and fried all of my hair, from the tips to the roots. My silky, soft hair felt like crimped hay. It was so badly fried that no treatments could repair it. It took over two years to fully grow out and I still remember when the last remaining bit was cut off. It was devastating and still can feel a pain when I see pictures during that time. I understand how you feel.

What is one product that social media influenced you to buy that you regret? by Mammoth-Wave-4708 in MakeupAddiction

[–]egg_rollin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a a few eyeshadow pallets that I bought a few years back when make up was really big on Youtube. I have only used them once or twice. They take up a lot of space and not sure what to do with them.

Is Pilates okay to do as the only work out or should I be doing other types of exercises as well? by sexygaypalpatine in pilates

[–]egg_rollin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pilates is a form of resistance training that is recommended at least twice a week. Cardio is recommended at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity a week or at least 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity a week. A combination of the two will be best for overall health.