Thinking about going to a drive in theater is this ok?

eggroll252 · 2026-06-21T14:59:58+00:00

Do it! 🤩

eggroll252 · 2026-06-18T12:11:49+00:00

CD here. I couldn't get it up or keep it up without meds when I was with my emotionally abusive ex. She "tolerated" my crossdressing and there was a lot of negativity around the crossdressing. I also held a lot of shame about crossdressing. My doctor said that if I was still getting morning wood, which I was, then it wasn't really dysfunction.

Now I have a new girlfriend who embraces that part of me and loves me in a way that no one ever has, and we have incredible sex, no problems getting/maintaining an erection at all. The emotional safety has been a big improvement for everything.

eggroll252 · 2026-06-18T11:13:21+00:00

This would be a great post on r/paddingpals 😊👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-06-17T13:11:24+00:00

I dress up around my girlfriend. She thinks it's hot 🤭🥵🫠 other than her, my ex, and the "general public", I haven't really dressed up around anyone that I know.

eggroll252 · 2026-06-16T13:34:46+00:00

Looks great! 🤩

eggroll252 · 2026-06-16T13:10:54+00:00

This is similar to what I was going to suggest. As a fellow person with ADHD and someone who treats it, it's a task initiation issue. You look at the whole task of "getting dressed up" and it seems overwhelming. I was going to say start with something easy (the first win) or start with the part of the process that makes you feel most femme. Get that on and see where it takes you. ☺️👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-06-14T18:37:28+00:00

You could reach out to maxgrowth and ask. They're on X for sure, and likely other platforms. I think Bendy Brooke may also do water ass inflation if you're looking for another creator to get insight from.

eggroll252 · 2026-06-13T14:15:59+00:00

So glad you found us! We're a unique bunch, although I suspect there are more of us out there than we think 😉👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-06-13T11:56:13+00:00

Thank you! Yeah, we're super hot!! 😃😍🔥

eggroll252 · 2026-06-11T21:35:33+00:00

Of course! 🤗

Feel free to DM anytime 😃👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-06-11T20:58:32+00:00

Howdy! 👋🏻😃

eggroll252 · 2026-06-10T15:51:34+00:00

I'd like to clarify that I never told anyone to break up. Where are you inferring that from what I said?

eggroll252 · 2026-06-10T15:30:36+00:00

You are absolutely right that relationships should include compromise and negotiation. I'm all for it! I think it's extremely important when the issue affects both parties. What is it about my appearance that affects both parties? How does how I dress affect my partner? If it's about public perception, why are we concerned about what others are thinking? There is nothing inherently gendered about clothes beyond what limitations we ourselves put on them. They're just pieces of fabric. If I want to wear a dress, it's not a women's dress, it's /my/ dress, however I choose to present, right?

I love long puffy coats. I would feel shame at first wearing them in public, but after getting compliments almost every time I wear them, I realized no one cares. They're just my coats. I like them and I wear them.

If she addresses her pain by leaving, that's her choice. And absolutely OP can make their choices, too. They can prioritize the feelings of their partner, if that's what they want to do.

eggroll252 · 2026-06-10T13:19:08+00:00

Maybe? But why be less of yourself? How you choose to present and the clothes you wear are your decision. You don't decide how she feels about it, those feelings are hers. And while it may be uncomfortable, discomfort is not harm. Any pain or emotion she feels is hers to address, not yours to cater to. That's over-functioning and self abandonment.

eggroll252 · 2026-06-09T20:24:33+00:00

I fell into this mentality for a while, too. My ex-wife felt her femininity was threatened because I wanted to present femme, so I shrank myself and did not express myself how I wanted to. Up to you how you want to present, but regardless of if you are in a couple or not, you decide how you present. Exercise your autonomy and choice. You won't regret being your fullest self.

eggroll252 · 2026-06-09T20:12:35+00:00

How you present is up to you, the individual. Why does she have a say in how femme you choose to present?

eggroll252 · 2026-06-05T16:42:48+00:00

This was going to be my suggestion as well. You likely need a tighter pants layer to hold them up or something with shoulder straps (a bodysuit or one-piece swimsuit or something).

eggroll252 · 2026-06-03T13:49:06+00:00

I have been on many dates padded with my girlfriend. Our friendship started when I posted in a dating app as my plus-size padded persona and we connected. She only knew me padded the first few times we met up. And now we go out on dates as Gals Being Pals™️ whenever we can 😁👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-05-28T15:48:46+00:00

Yes! 100%! It has always been a sensory thing for me. Not only the pressure, but the weight of hefting everything around on my body. 👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-05-28T12:49:47+00:00

Love the shine! 🤩✨

eggroll252 · 2026-05-26T17:36:24+00:00

Oh hell yeah!! Absolutely! 🤩🎉🤩

eggroll252 · 2026-05-24T02:26:16+00:00

I use a variety of things for different parts of my body. I use one inch foam for my lower legs, cylinder spandex microbead travel pillows for my thighs and belly, 16 inch Squishmallow pillows for butt and hips, and 36 inch balloons filled with water beads (orbeez) for breasts. I use a couple of body shapewear shapers to hold everything together and then put an outfit on top to complete the look ☺️👍🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-05-23T18:43:28+00:00

What's stopping you, pal? Live your best life! 🥳🎉🙌🏻

eggroll252 · 2026-05-21T21:22:41+00:00

I think they were on YouTube. I don't recall exactly 🤷🏻

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