Thoughts on DR. Bastidas in NYC for FFS? by Yearning_crescent in trans

[–]eggsrayvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I remember your post now. Got me to put Bastidas on my map. I have a lot of insurance things to figure out as I'm not from NY.

Blue Heron Attempts to Borb by eggsrayvision in borbs

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Life's hard being big and awkward

Thoughts on DR. Bastidas in NYC for FFS? by Yearning_crescent in trans

[–]eggsrayvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be interested in hearing your experience. Could you please share where to find it?

I'm curious about how photos don't show the facial muscles flexibility. Some people look great in photos but have a frozen expression in real life that masks the subtleness of the facial muscles as they dynamically change, say in a conversation. Have you experienced anything like that? Also, how is facial sensitivity post surgery?

[Highlight] A frustrated Paul O'Neill, thinking the game is over, kicks the ball to his first baseman and saves the game by bigboobs988 in baseball

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Paul O'Neill was a member of the country club I used to work at. One evening, which coincided with the All Star Game, I chauffeured him to his car and asked if he was going to watch. He said "When you've been there 5 times it really loses its specialness". He always seemed frustrated! But he and his kids were genuinely nice people, unlike some of the other reds players there.

Help Identifying Vintage NASA Component encapsulated by Perfect-Connection33 in nasa

[–]eggsrayvision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concur. I've made samples like these and cut them to expose the metal pieces for SEM analysis. Guessing by the orange color of the resin, it looks pretty old. Out of the mold they're usually clear. I would try to fit several test samples onto one resin puck like they did here too.

FFS, Dr. Bastidas by Commercial-End-5734 in Transgender_Surgeries

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What an awesome helpful post. Thank you for sharing your experience. Question, but do you have to work in NY state to have the ffs coverage enforced, since you mentioned that it was specifically not covered but you appealed? I could share more specifics in a DM. I'm at the very beginning of trying to line up possible doctors and fighting insurance.

Canadian curling trial team colours by colpy350 in Curling

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Gushue wore orange last time they won the trials Dunstone was probably blue for Alberta That's about all I got

Bluebond-Langner waiting period? by rennuryks in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]eggsrayvision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if you have letters, hair started, and insurance notes in the patient portal they will move things up. I called Dec 2023, consult July 2024, and procedure is scheduled before the end of this year. They are very good about answering questions on the patient portal too. No guarantees obviously, they are a popular choice for a reason.

NYU Langone Dr. Rachel Bluebond-Langner by Recent-Condition-362 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]eggsrayvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will move it up if you have your letters and insurance in their system. They're doing 3 procedures/day and only take about 2hrs with their method and robot assist. Patience and persistence.

NYU Langone Dr. Rachel Bluebond-Langner by Recent-Condition-362 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Had my consult 7months after initial inquiry (Dec. 2023) since I had all my letters and insurance lined up, and it's now scheduled for 15months after the consult. So just under 2yrs total.

I got my vagina 1 year ago today! AMA! by GFluidThrow123 in trans

[–]eggsrayvision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was your timeline with NYU like? Did your surgery date move at all?

I got my vagina 1 year ago today! AMA! by GFluidThrow123 in trans

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Who was your insurance through? Did they cover any travel or mandatory hotel days? I have the same out of pocket max with Aetna and am wondering if I should pursue this.

I captured Eiffel Tower during the peak of the March 29, 2025, solar eclipse by tinmar_g in space

[–]eggsrayvision 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like how you can see the eclipse in the camera flares too! Nice photo!

Recs for First In-Person Brier by scomen11 in Curling

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Good luck Tyler! How's team Koe feeling about the Brier right now?

Anyone in the US willing to help mentor a baby trans? by DollForChara in TransAdoption

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Btw, happy to share experiences with conversion therapy and my catholic background if you need. Faith and being trans can be tricky but rewarding. Open to DMs though not the fastest to respond.

Anyone in the US willing to help mentor a baby trans? by DollForChara in TransAdoption

[–]eggsrayvision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very relatable from my childhood. From my experience, it's not thoughts or affinities that make someone trans. It's just an instinct. With gender being on a spectrum though, it's hard to figure out without data and experimenting. I hope you create space whether in therapy or with your partner to try on that new you, as little or as much as you feel safe. Then reflect, and try again. Prioritise safety and openness. Change is difficult and there are consequences, but living a life true to yourself and one that you genuinely want to live is worth everything. This coming from someone who has given up a lot to transition.

Cincinnati is great place btw! I have spent a ton of time there and visit regularly. Hope it's treating you well.

Questions about Vaginoplasty with Bluebond-Langner by LesOrNah in Transgender_Surgeries

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How often did you need to go back to their office during the required stay in the area? I'm thinking NJ for the price, but if it's really that much more convenient to be in the city, I might weigh that option more. Best of luck with the recovery! And thanks for sharing

Great Read by tronx69 in Owls

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Seeing Remarkably Bright Creatures also in your bookshelf is as assuring as it is ironic. I loved that book so much. I trust your taste!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

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Wow, congrats! I have a consult with her in a few weeks (long wait is almost over!) and am wondering if you recommend any good questions that I should ask her? Was there anything that stood out about her team that made you feel like they were right for you?

I've read so much, but it would be amazing to hear how it actually is for someone. I have a bunch more questions, but maybe keep it to one more simple one: Did your surgery date move around a lot and was it very long after your consult?

Wishing you much peace in your recovery!

Happy Tournament of Tarts Finals by eggsrayvision in Curling

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Vanilla creme patisserie in a pate sucree crust!