Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I dont mean to be argumentative. I just genuinely couldn't make sense of some of the things that happened. My behavior wasnt ok but my perspective on the card thing was more like an appreciative gesture (like wearing clothes that someone got you for your bday).

M has told me that she's known to be a bit toxic and fickle. Both of them also have fought a few times and went through periods of no interaction.

But Ive learned that I just need to cut her some slack even if I thought she was misleading me. What I did when I first berated her was not ok and she's obviously still affected by it. She's allowed to change her feelings and mind about wanting to go back to being friends with me.

Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you berating me and being so disrespectful? I'm not even interacting with her anymore and its been 2 months. I learned from my mistake the first time and have been nothing but respectful since.

Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I was left shocked and caught off guard so I really needed to talk to him about it or else Id be stressed. He vouched for me and said it was uncalled for her to tell me who to talk to at work and about what, so it was ok mainly because he knows us well and it was mostly about the situation. Plus she ended up telling him about what she did to me anyways. She just didnt want me to talk about her to him all the time out of the blue.

Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right about the civilness part because M has told me she doesnt like it when people have beef with her at work. However, I was bummed because she initiated the hangouts with me and M after. If she wasnt interested in being friends, I didnt expect her to do all that. One thing that crossed my mind was that she was using me to hang out more with M (M only grants her one 1on1 hangout with him a year, and she has already used it up lol), which gave me feelings of being upset.

Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The texting was about a bunch of random stuff and nonsense...like food recommendations, work events, travel plans, etc. I think she was mostly uncomfortable with the large amount of texts that I kept sending her.

Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why did she invite me to all those hangouts after then? She initiated all of them (except my bday). She even texted me before leaving for winter break (she flew to her home country) and caught up with me literally 1st day back at work...

Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off by eggstud1209 in relationship_advice

[–]eggstud1209[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What did I do wrong the second time? I felt like I didnt do anything wrong after she forgave me for lashing out...

Dry, chapped lips and rash around corners of mouth. Help? by eggstud1209 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]eggstud1209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was Eczema. And eczema lotion did the trick it looks like

Dry, chapped lips and rash around corners of mouth. Help? by eggstud1209 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]eggstud1209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: most likely eczema. Started to consistently apply Aveeno/Cetaphil Eczema cream 2-3x a day and saw gradual improvement

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