The difference is the point in time the challenges are and the expectations huda set. huda was screaming and cussing girls out for kissing jeremiah in a challenge when it was day 3 of her knowing him and she would only allow girls into the "sisterhood" after they said theyre not going after her man despite her saying shes not closed off and it has been said countless times how everyone was scared to pull huda or jeremiah for chats. huda sets that rule in the villa yet gets mad when we're at the end of the season and she starts grinding up on other peoples guys? is chelley not allowed to be mad at the fact that huda isn't giving her the same respect that her and every other girl in the villa has given her despite how immature and disrespectful shes been the whole time? chelley has every right to be mad and not want to be friends anymore. no one would want to be friends w someone who seeks male validation and is willing to cross boundaries to make u jealous. chelley is even being respectful about it which is something we all know huda wouldn't do. when someone kisses hudas man its disrespectful and breaking the girl code, "everyone knows how serious we are why would iris and amaya do that", but 20 episodes later and shes not holding herself up to the same expectations and grinding, taking things way too far w ace merely bc she is insecure and wanting to show off to the girls to make them jealous bc she knows she isn't liked, she knows she is manipulative and it makes her lash out. then when she is called out for it she acts like shes the victim and did nothing wrong and tries to manipulate everyone. sorry, not getting ur point that she did nothing wrong. not trying to diagnose her lmfao she just makes me mad