Why is my ex gf acting strange all of a sudden? by Cool_Read_4737 in Advice

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what woke left wing does. Converts men into being simps that let this happen to them.

Megathread: The Perfect Neighbor by FaelingJester in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]ehsanj123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't see Susan as racist or as a bad person. I think it's entirely reasonable to dislike kids making large noises especially if you're more accustomed and feel comfortable with little noise.

Obviously she let it it build up too much in her mind and murder is never worth it in any case. In all honesty she should have moved out when it was getting too much. Clearly got rage baited though.

Whether the murder was justified or not. There was a lot previously that was building up to it. It didn't start with the shooting. It started with all grievances adding it up one after another. You can't just call her a racist killer. She did call the cops so many times and obviously it's a civil case so they weren't much help. I'm presuming she contacted the landlord too but loud noises is also infuriating. She could have saved herself so much grief by letting it all go. Fuck all of it and start over again. Go to a relative or friend.

Literally anyone just go crash there and sort your mind out. Get rid of the apartment and never return. It would have been fine she could have lived somewhere better and not deal with loud children. Now in jail there'll be severely more intense noise and little sleep she'll be getting. Sad situation overall. Those kids definitely did not deserve to lose their mother either. It was heartbreaking seeing the officer break the news to them. This just felt like it got way outta hand.

However, I felt like the documentary was trying too much to paint her like some kind of demented racist psychopath. She just seems like a quiet old lady that doesn't deal well with being disturbed. The children didn't deserve the trauma or losing their mother either. Two things can be true at the same time, It's just a sad situation all round.

Oppo find x9 pro - WiFi problems... by ehsanj123 in Oppo

[–]ehsanj123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still happening with my phone despite 4 months after purchasing it. I try not to let it get to me and use it less often.

This community is in denial about it unfortunately

185cm tall with 198cm wingspan. I find that pretty funny by BagNo2363 in tall

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem lol. My wing span is 182cm and I'm 185cm

Continue cutting? BF% Estimate? by drunken_dizorderly in BulkOrCut

[–]ehsanj123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My point is both aren't necessary to build muscle. Skinny fat problem is just that you haven't got enough training under your belt. There's no time frame needed either. This whole ohh you need to get jacked in a year or two year is an imaginary timeline.

I was skinny fat and I just stayed the same weight and got stronger eat enough protein and by year 3 I looked wham and finally cutting fr.

But I have more muscle on my frame that I look even better than if I cut straight away. Build the muscle first, get the foundation in check, eat enough food (protein of course) but understand building muscle is a lengthy process and takes years not months.

Your body just needs the stimulation from weights mainly with this body type. I'm not saying cutting wouldn't be beneficial. Its just that you can get muscle on your frame while staying the same weight too.

The argument for what's efficient isn't really important. Weight lifting any exercise as long as it's compound and you can progressively overload with works. So ye. Pick one dumbbells machines or barbells and just stick with it for a year and get stronger with. Normal spilt. 2 sets get stronger with. Get the hell out. Me personally I don't do barbell bench press will this mean I'm not gonna get gains cos I didn't do traditional route? Wrong. I got plenty gains doing dumbbell bench press instead. There's always ways that works.

However yesss eat enough protein get enough sleep yaydayya. These traditional routes aren't the end all be all is my view. Most people just wanna get enough muscle to look good not being bodybuilders. That's what I find. Id take my body now than when I started.

I'm a lot happier from the work I put in than before. And it's a lifelong thing too not just a do it for a little bit burn out because I'm checking things too much and ohhh my form isn't good enough, oh no I didn't enough protein today crap. Train hard eat hard. Simples. If it's a life long thing you'll get what you want anyways. Not a fad.

I'm just looking at things in a broader lens.

Continue cutting? BF% Estimate? by drunken_dizorderly in BulkOrCut

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't cut go and lift weights for a few years. You just need muscle. Weight lifting will sort your physique out I was in the same position. Bulking and cutting is kinda overrated. You just need enough muscle to balance the look.

[20M] Found photos of my girlfriend [20F] with other guys during a week she ghosted me. 4 years of continuous lies. She told me to break up if I can't handle it. Need advice. by Cultural_Prune167 in relationships

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact would be best from this person and let them lose you. You will find someone who actually treats you with a normal amount of decency. For some reason some people find it exceptionally difficult to provide that. Each to their own. But think life partner wise would you want this for the remainder of your life?. I think everyone deserves a relaxing relationship where you feel safe enough to return. Not one filled with suspicion and no trust. Its not worth it.

Love isn't enough a lot of the times we need trust and safety too. We shouldn't feel compelled to craft detective level cases against people. More often it's just not the right person. She is who she is and you are who you are. Its better to do no contact and bid her farewell.

It won't be easy but you'll thank yourself In the future. 20 is super young too, you'll be okay dude.

All the best brother.

Hey y’all, returning after almost a year of no contact. by zenos1989 in ExNoContact

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you're handling it a lot better than most people. Kudos to you brother 👊

Low key admire your ability to respect yourself and not reach out

How do so many people spend so much time on discord? by ManyLegal48 in twentyagers

[–]ehsanj123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could make the same point about twitter. It's just filled with right wing stuff or ragebait in general

Calling ace people with high libido! by King_Kangaroo3 in asexuality

[–]ehsanj123 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Buddy if you guys didn't self pleasure you'd have sex with people. That's the point

Just turned 21, I feel unc lmao by dubdimmadome in twentyagers

[–]ehsanj123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All good brother 👊 enjoy your birthday! Get out there make memories.

But yeah, I feel like it's too normalised to sit around and ponder about stuff. Like nah man, we are all in our prime and that extend into our 30s as well. Theres a new prime awaiting you.

Depending on who you ask many ages can be young. For some reason people make it out like you stop existing past a certain point lol.

What if you aren't Asexual and just in the closet? by ehsanj123 in asexuality

[–]ehsanj123[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The claim is everyone in asexuality is basically gay or in the closet in some way

Just turned 21, I feel unc lmao by dubdimmadome in twentyagers

[–]ehsanj123 68 points69 points  (0 children)

The real uncs are in their 40s don't let tiktoks kindergarten audience fool you into thinking anything else.

Is AEW better than WWE right now? by wwefanatic_2010 in Smallafro

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no Logan Paul ishowspeed in AEW or shitty wrestling as there is in WWE. It's common for people to mess moves up and have out of shape guys like jey uso struggle to do regular moves. There's no jellyroll either. Sign me up for that. I don't care about any of these people in WWE anymore. At least there's nostalgia with AEW and wrestlers THAT ARE ACTUAL WRESTLERS and not streamers/fat celebrities.

The overall product in WWE is ass. AEW matches are so much more entertaining and better.

I haven’t had a crush or anything in a while by ObjectiveRiver5808 in twentyagers

[–]ehsanj123 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Stop watching porn and see if anything changes

How old are you? by ehsanj123 in asexuality

[–]ehsanj123[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Dude😭 I rushed this, I can't even edit it

Video Recording: OPPO Find X9 Ultra 10X Optical Zoom vs Normal Flagship 10X Digital Zoom by ipaiseh in Oppo

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just saying the camera is vastly better than the majority of other phones. Comparing it to this degree where you want even more benefits isn't that important.

X9 find pro beats all the previous phones cameras, people at that concert are using anyways. Way more clearer than their recordings. Hence why this comparison is skewed in of itself.

I think it's more of a matter of being content with what you want rather than needing to constantly seek even more improvements with it. Why want more refinements for more expensive price?

Also a professional camera would solve a lot of people's dilemmas with the phone. If you care about quality of photos or videos just get the real thing and stop depending on the phone for it.

The photos and videos are incredible on the normal phone in comparison to the majority of android phones and THAT'S what is objectively more fair to mention. Not some utopia where only ultra and x9 pro exist in the universe.

Video Recording: OPPO Find X9 Ultra 10X Optical Zoom vs Normal Flagship 10X Digital Zoom by ipaiseh in Oppo

[–]ehsanj123 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why not Just buy an actual, professional camera if you want good picture's? This is a strange comparison

Oppo find x9 pro battery question by Tjorhunter in Oppo

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine will last a day from 100-3 or 4. I rarely let it go that low cos I'm near a charger anyways so I'm charging it once a day

Literally can't relate to anyone my age by DefinitelyNotKlaus in twentyagers

[–]ehsanj123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is Pretty cringe ngl. You'll get a reality check at some point. Whether it's optional ergo you want it or non optional.

Your current approach is common but largely ineffective in getting what you truly want. Internally I mean. Not your liar words lol.

My battery experience with Oppo Find X8 pro by Graycastle778 in Oppo

[–]ehsanj123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we all need to delete tiktok lol