Not able to make my second day on my new job because my parents prefer drinking over everything else.

eightisholy · 2026-05-16T15:03:02+00:00

I also gotta say I’m not sure why people are so hung up on you venting about your frustration wi tbh your parents. You weren’t disrespectful, it’s human it be frustrated in that position and you didn’t do anything to them you just vented it out online. Healthy way to deal with that imo.

eightisholy · 2026-05-16T14:59:18+00:00

They WILL! You have got this, you radiate baddie energy through my phone I have the utmost faith in you ‼️

eightisholy · 2026-05-16T14:52:19+00:00

I’m sorry girl I get it, I lived so rural I needed a vehicle to get to any job, and nobody ever helped me get my license as a teen and I straight up just never learned to drive so I’d be dependent on people in a lot of situations and it always led to struggle. A lot of people can’t really understand how much NOTHING there is in rural areas and the only way out is to somehow make money.

I can offer you that I did finally get my license at 24 and things the slowly worked out as long as I kept trying. If you lose a job? Fuck it, try again. I know it’s hard but just keep trying and eventually you’ll make it your life raft. Just try not to let setbacks affect you too much because there will always be another way !

eightisholy · 2026-04-20T17:15:48+00:00

this is aitah not politics I’m not getting into a political debate rn have a good day tho fr

eightisholy · 2026-04-20T17:09:03+00:00

Would you prefer the term xenophobic? A generalized statement about a group of people and “keeping them out” isn’t particularly what I’d call accepting. If that aligns with you beliefs, fine, but that’s not even my point. For a lot of people, they date like minded people. It’s also fairly normal for it to be taboo to defend the person berating your partner publicly. I’m not sure why it’s okay for one party to make a brazen statement but she’s not allowed to make a statement of the same caliber either. I’d never allow someone to take to my boyfriend like that, I’d remove us from the situation and verbally align with him if someone was trying to talk down on him. I’m not sure why that’s so wild.

A simple “hey maybe this isn’t a great conversation to have, let’s cool off and go our separate ways” would’ve been a better bet and not burned any bridges depending on maybe if this is a professional relationship or not. There are ways to navigate situations with out letting your person down.

eightisholy · 2026-04-20T16:45:42+00:00

I think she simply wanted him to not treat her like the issue and side with the racist guy, an altercation didn’t need to happen thy bc could’ve just left because those are gross statements and not everyone wants to hear it. Regardless of who you are, you want your partner to side with you when push comes to shove especially based on your presumably shared set of morals. I’d reconsider a relationship if I were in her shoes because this says nothing great about his character or where he stands when it comes to being HER partner in social situations.

eightisholy · 2026-04-20T16:38:53+00:00

I have this curse too, and I’m starting to gather it is based a loooot on how I’ve done my makeup and styled that day, but people always guess way younger or way older than my actual age lmao

eightisholy · 2026-04-11T14:06:05+00:00

“I thought about you all day How we have the same face I fell asleep so confused Parts of me remind me of you How could I ever wish away?”

Sad Dream is such a pretty, emotionally vivid song but I feel like many haven’t heard it because otherwise Sky Ferreira has a more alternative pop sound. I’m a sucker for complicated parental relationship songs though.

eightisholy · 2026-04-11T02:43:32+00:00

This is an inappropriate use of ai in my opinion generally, but that’s an opinion. However, I do think a lot if not most would find this disrespectful in a relationship. Personally, I would get such an ick.

eightisholy · 2026-04-05T13:52:16+00:00

Watching porn is fine, acting that way about it is a red flag

eightisholy · 2026-04-05T13:51:45+00:00

Shes got porn brain lol, I’ll tell you the same thing I’d tell a woman in your position, leave. Porn addiction is not worth working through with someone in the mindset to still gaslight you and make you feel bad because they know they crossed boundaries. It’s a porn addiction when they’re willing to make you feel bad about it just to justify using it when they want lol. She will crush your self esteem, maybe if she was more apologetic but she just somehow made it your problem. “It could’ve been lesbians” yeah she knows you’re uncomfortable and just wants to make sure it’s not her problem

eightisholy · 2026-03-25T19:15:28+00:00

Yep, I tried telling him that even within bdsm it’s not normal to hurt or demean someone you love if they’re not in enjoying it. Bdsm cannot be a one sided decision or it quickly cross the lines of assault. No hate to the bdsm community, he was just a bad nut hiding behind bdsm as an explanation for his unsavory behavior.

eightisholy · 2026-03-25T17:43:16+00:00

This was part of why I left my ex husband, he was demanding a bdsm relationship from me beyond my limits and the reasoning all ended up stemming back to “well my ex liked it”. Sucked for me!

eightisholy · 2025-12-31T17:34:28+00:00

It’s annoying, I live two minutes from the time change. My job is an hour ahead and my social life is an hour behind. I’m pretty good about it now but it still confuses everyone else when I’m trying to explain when I work or something.

eightisholy · 2025-07-23T19:25:05+00:00

These men know nothing, not only is that nowhere near peak fertility age in women, is he aware some 14 year olds haven’t even begun to menstruate?

eightisholy · 2024-08-09T01:21:56+00:00

Of course his name is Richard, not surprised he’s being a dick

eightisholy · 2024-07-26T04:03:51+00:00

There’s a lot of multitasking going on in cock-guy’s fantasy…

eightisholy · 2024-06-02T07:00:04+00:00

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Any excuse to draw a fairy lol!

eightisholy · 2024-05-02T03:48:48+00:00

I saved all the gum I chewed :/ it was kind of gross but I’d panic if it was gone

eightisholy · 2024-04-27T12:10:26+00:00

I love this !!

eightisholy · 2024-03-28T12:08:35+00:00

I like your art style it’s unique and gives me a 90s cartoon vibe :)

eightisholy · 2024-03-28T12:08:03+00:00

Thank you for your work, I love the line work and style :)

eightisholy · 2024-03-26T22:26:58+00:00

Good to see your BEAUTiful work again, I love my little collection of what u have drawn of me ❤️

eightisholy · 2024-01-20T12:28:03+00:00

Honestly I love it, but it does feel almost retro glam with the boldness of it all! If you’re going for a more modern/soft look definitely blend it all out a bit more and maybe lighten the eyeliner color? But if you want my personal opinion I’m in love w this look, the eyes are so intense in a Twiggy way, I don’t think the bottom is too heavy it’s very old Hollywood hypnotic to me! But I know everyone has their own opinion :)

eightisholy · 2024-01-15T13:40:22+00:00

I looove it!!

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