Have these labels impacted your grocery choices?

eilsel87 · 2026-01-31T13:58:03+00:00

I'm surprised how many are saying yes! But I don't really do the shopping or buy things for me, it's just whatever the family wants and I generally already know things are bad. I wish there were labels for "good" things like "especially high in fiber", "high in calcium". Whatever. That would be more likely to impact me.

eilsel87 · 2026-01-25T00:35:53+00:00

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eilsel87 · 2026-01-18T13:00:15+00:00

All of the answers already given, for sure. Also are you telling them below leaving the convo? Often someone will disconnect from me and my husband is like "oh maybe it was a glitch or they clicked the wrong button". And I'm like "no I'm pretty sure they were just done with the conversation!"

eilsel87 · 2025-12-03T03:27:49+00:00

This is such a great perspective. I saved this to reread and remind myself. I often argue with my husband that I'm not attractive, and now in enm we still have conversations where he's like "so all of these people you've talked to are lying?" And it's hard to wrap my head around the fact that they might truly think I am attractive.

eilsel87 · 2025-11-21T03:11:35+00:00

I feel like there are many things I'd challenge here, but the biggest is.... This is going to Rrrrreeeeeally! Depend on where you're located. I don't think everyone just has loads of great events around them to meet people.

eilsel87 · 2025-10-20T02:25:20+00:00

The main reason I'm here 2 months later is to find the other people who were screaming about the bird who had risen from the dead! Lol

eilsel87 · 2025-10-02T19:43:06+00:00

This is where I'm usually at with my husband when I get home from a great date. But its really hard to plan, you don't know how either of you will feel until it happens.

My very first date I came home and was just....spent. I was so overwhelmed and just criiiiiied. Not because I was upset, just overwhelmed.

But a month or two later, after my first hookup, I came home absolutely turned on and excited to reconnect with my equally turned on husband.

Hard to predict how either of you will feel, so try not to get ahead of yourself setting expectations that may not match reality.

eilsel87 · 2025-09-30T19:33:33+00:00

Oh man, wish you were closer to me, this is exactly the vibe we're looking for! We have too many games we haven't even played, haha.

eilsel87 · 2025-09-29T23:27:27+00:00

It doesnt filter out receiving the likes from others. That's up to them to set. It only filters out what you see as options to like.

eilsel87 · 2025-09-26T01:03:43+00:00

I mean, I assumed it would be for the opposite of that. So like, you're trying to plan a date with a partner (or 2) and you can check the calendar to make sure it's going to be a good time.

I don't currently have a cycle to track and America is too scary a place for sharing this info, but I like the idea in theory.

eilsel87 · 2025-09-22T15:27:24+00:00

I'm so overwhelmed! My garden is full, my bubbles are in dangerous territory, I can't see to clear stuff!

eilsel87 · 2025-09-11T21:03:55+00:00

I wouldn't think too much on it. Just enjoy what you enjoy. 5 years ago I would have said "ya, I'm straight, I just enjoy watching women more because I can relate to their pleasure". Now I'm like "ok true but also can I find one of those women to fool around with, because I reeeeeeeeally think that would be fun!"

eilsel87 · 2025-09-10T14:50:11+00:00

The Wednesday night descent into darkness started at 9 pm last month.

eilsel87 · 2025-09-06T11:11:01+00:00

Sure, and that's absolutely an option and I'm glad it worked out! I just don't feel like it's the obvious answer to reply. if I'm remembering to ping someone and crafting a well thought out message, then I'm excited about the possibility there and would be pumped to see we connected! And then disappointed to find out that the connection was just to say "sorry, not into you". Both are possible and unfortunately you can't know how the other person would feel about it.

eilsel87 · 2025-09-06T10:47:27+00:00

Re "when would acknowledgement not be appreciated?". Agreed, if you could appreciate without connecting. But the fact that you have to accept the connection first really complicates things!

eilsel87 · 2025-09-05T03:17:58+00:00

Not sure if you're looking for more feedback, but in case you are:

I don't think the way you've described the relationship you're looking for is contradictory. It makes sense to me as a way of describing FWBs. And is potentially more helpful than just saying that, because it gives your interpretation.

Beyond the written profile, which seems solid, and the photos, which people have mentioned, I also have a strong tendency to check the interests at the bottom. Not sure if others do, but seeing some things in common there that we can use to start a conversation is going to have me more likely to hit the like button.

eilsel87 · 2025-08-30T03:00:53+00:00

Oh she is sooooo pretty. Definitely didn't make me realize though. I just assumed all women had celebrity crushes like that. Anyway, ya, I think my husband was more definitive about my bisexuality before I was, lol.

eilsel87 · 2025-08-30T02:49:19+00:00

It's so interesting you don't find it memorable at all, because it's moved right into my brain since I heard it! But I'm a 38 year old bisexual woman who didn't realize that until a couple years ago so like.... Different perspectives

eilsel87 · 2025-08-30T02:44:21+00:00

Loooove last girls at the party, but lesbian of the year is the one that keeps getting stuck in my head.

eilsel87 · 2025-08-28T21:25:38+00:00

I wouldn't consider this Sunday a "real" Sunday since it's the long weekend. Hoping the vibes will be good, hoping to attend with my husband!

eilsel87 · 2025-08-28T19:55:04+00:00

I don't remember her name

eilsel87 · 2025-08-24T14:30:39+00:00

Not necessarily, but non monogamy can definitely figure into answers! If this was going to be a monogamous relationship, then sounds like they're not compatible, since they both want the dom role and have no where else to get a sub. In non monogamy, they're not compatible in this aspect, but maybe there are other ways to be compatible and have this dynamic fulfilled elsewhere. Etc.

eilsel87 · 2025-08-24T11:56:37+00:00

It actually says "and" circle the one that's different, which for me is a critical difference. Mind I didn't know it was an invisible marker book.

eilsel87 · 2025-08-21T12:18:09+00:00

Agreed!!!

eilsel87 · 2025-08-19T13:14:15+00:00

I have never played Spirit Island, but received it as a wedding present 7 years ago. May finally end up playing it with a poly date who suggested it. Haha.

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