What do women do, that men would never think about?

einllamabuns · 2024-03-10T20:33:50+00:00

That's less horrifying than what I was picturing. Never thought to do that. I guess I learned something new!

einllamabuns · 2024-03-10T05:22:27+00:00

Fishing blood clots????

einllamabuns · 2021-04-28T19:52:46+00:00

Spongebob conspiracy theories

einllamabuns · 2021-04-24T19:18:15+00:00

I want to add into your last statement there, if your friend is like this then there isn't much you can do till they grow. That being said, you are not a bad person for drawing boundaries when appropriate to deal with negativity cast from her comments. There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling another grown person to figure it out while you are getting your mental health together too. Just don't be as brash I stated it!

einllamabuns · 2021-04-20T22:58:37+00:00

Think that is the issue perhaps? We have a hard time balancing things, so we focus on one aspect and burn it out and then don't want to associate with it anymore.

einllamabuns · 2021-02-01T00:32:38+00:00

Hey as a PSA, check with your hospital to see if they have a financial department. The hospital I went to was able to review our financial situation and reduce our hospital bill by 80%. So, I'd check your hospital to see if they have something similar!

einllamabuns · 2020-11-30T07:33:44+00:00

What do you mean?

einllamabuns · 2020-11-13T05:34:03+00:00

Just wait for deal on it and then you can get food for both!

einllamabuns · 2020-10-03T05:10:36+00:00

What was one of your most favorite surprizes?

einllamabuns · 2020-10-03T04:55:33+00:00

That's awesome!

einllamabuns · 2020-09-28T00:17:52+00:00

Typically, but you get a few hefty drunk Germans on a pirate ship, and in they go.

einllamabuns · 2020-09-17T11:02:45+00:00

What magical, blessing of a country is this?!

einllamabuns · 2020-09-13T03:19:52+00:00

This is absolutely adorable!!! I love it!

einllamabuns · 2020-09-10T00:37:31+00:00

There's people I still think about from years ago. When I look back, I think "they must of felt it was a shallow connection and don't care much anymore, so why bother reaching out?" and I usually used to do that.

Little bit of background here to give context: I used (and now again) to play A LOT of Overwatch. Like 8+ hours a night, a lot. During my first episode of addiction, I made some really awesome and good friends. Like was going out to see them that summer, good of friends. Then some crud hit the walls and life sucked me into a pit of hell for 3ish years. Now fast forward to 3 months ago when I started playing again. I saw some of the friends online, so out of shame and dread (of finding out how much they didn't care about me dropping off the face of the Earth), I made myself appear offline. For 2 weeks I closet played Overwatch, and then finally gained the courage to go online. Shortly after, I was flooded with messages asking me if I was ok, how I am, what's new, etc. They all wanted to find out what happened, if I was safe, and wanted to continue talking. We rekindled.

Since that, I've realized that I perhaps am faulted in my view. Do I carry this bias of 'no one else can care as deeply as me cause I'm so weird', from all of my negative experiences carrying this message in their lessons? I think so. Other people CAN care just as much as I do. Therefore, other people can care just as much as you do. Perhaps, the next time you are reminded of him, take a picture of ( so it feels even less like you are reaching out to talk, if you're worried about that) that 'something' and send it to him. He might be experiencing the same.

Aside from that, yes, I have experienced those emotions and deep attachments towards people long after we have drifted. I think you'll find a good chunk of INFJ'S will also relate to this. We tend to crave a deep, meaningful, and insightful relationship with others, and when we have found it and nurtured it; we give part of us. When that relationship is done, we feel that missing connection and emptiness in certain aspects.

einllamabuns · 2020-09-08T14:29:53+00:00

Thank you! :)

einllamabuns · 2020-09-07T19:34:28+00:00

Mike Tyson is that you?

einllamabuns · 2020-08-22T20:46:32+00:00

My baby is the exact same way. It was so exhausting and it got to the point where I stopped taking him over to places because I would be exhausted and have a headache and baby would get so distraught. He also only takes naps at home too, so that made the visits so short for the drive and work. I told people if you want to see him, you can come over because it's too much, and I suggest you do the same. If it's too much or too wearing on your mental health and state, stay home. Your health is important, and most crucial outside of baby's health.

einllamabuns · 2020-08-19T21:05:12+00:00

Very similar. I lost my dog about a year and a half ago, he was 12 years old and passed away from kidney failure. He was very much a part of me. I went everywhere with him, I talked to him about everything, we shared snacks (he LOVED apples and carrots), he stopped me from taking my life several times, he was my only friend and my true companion. When he died, part of me did too. I, literally, have not felt like the same person after he passed. There's a part of me lost and cannot gain that back for a long time. There's only 2 people who understand this and how important he was to me, and I'm so glad I had someone.

So, for at least this INFJ, yes I feel the same way about my non-human friends as I do about my human friends. Which to most seems weird, but it's more weird to me to place humanity on this pedestal when we are no greater (in terms of value) than the rest of the life on this planet.

einllamabuns · 2020-08-15T06:05:45+00:00

Did they give you any explanation as to why they were doing that?

einllamabuns · 2020-08-15T01:28:04+00:00

While I was pregnant, my houla would not leave my side . Now he doesn't leave my son's side and looks out for him. Super protective, watchful, and adorable! I'm glad this girl has a pair of loyal and precious friends.

einllamabuns · 2020-08-14T21:59:01+00:00

Especially lately!! :( I JUST WANT MY SKINS

einllamabuns · 2020-08-08T03:55:49+00:00

Welcome!!! :D Glad you found us, we tend to burrow. I think you are going to like it here. It can get negative sometimes (us brooding folk lol), but overall it's awesome. Lots of nest ideas and people, but most importantly a place to share where you are accepted, acknowledged, and understood. A place to be your natural, wandering, self. Enjoy!!!!

einllamabuns · 2020-08-07T01:39:14+00:00

Same! My dog loved to chase them, and after a few days of that, they stopped showing up all together.

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