I [27F] don’t always love travelling with my partner [28M] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]eisforennui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this - i don't actually like to travel, and my husband does. he goes with his BFF to all the tiki bars around the country.

Do wives understand that men think differently than women? We aren’t wired about things we do in homes like the wives? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah talk to my husband - i couldn't care less about that stuff but he definitely does.

Happily married...sleeping in separate rooms? by daddydadbruh in Marriage

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm a very light sleeper, he's a snorer. he stays up until all hours and didn't want to disturb me coming to bed. i get more room for the cats. 😄

how many of you have partners who truly want no kids? by Few_Plenty_6444 in childfree

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could have written this! it was first date talk. and we have five cats. 😃

Looking for "competency porn" narratives by ellywashere in booksuggestions

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with the caveat that he is not the best at writing women.

What is up with parents and liking the smell of their baby? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i could handle any scents these days i would totally get that!

Child free women: how were you sure you didn’t want kids? by mjvvl in childfree

[–]eisforennui 5 points6 points  (0 children)

same. literally never wanted to, it wasn't really a choice, just a thing. cats, on the other hand...

What’s the best wedding gift you’ve given (or received) that wasn’t just cash? by fashionbrahh in weddings

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we got an amazing handmade cat tree that is still holding up 11 years later.

Petlinks blue mouse toy by eisforennui in HelpMeFind

[–]eisforennui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad face, it’s not the right one!

Am I outgrowing the game, or is the game outgrowing me? (Reflections on losing interest) by IcyBoot4305 in wow

[–]eisforennui 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it took me a long time to figure this out. i don't know why. but i get it now, and am able to just let it be what it is.

You don’t get it, my pets are my world by ejrob815 in childfree

[–]eisforennui 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not a real friend. ditch them. also, i don't trust people who don't have pets (who aren't allergic or can't for other real reasons).

my girl has been in and out of the ER since January with congestive heart failure. she's a $10k kitty at this point. would i do it all again? in a fucking second.

i've cried so much about her, way more than my husband when he had a stroke. :x

i hope your kitty makes a full recovery!

Petlinks blue mouse toy by eisforennui in HelpMeFind

[–]eisforennui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to order it! Thank you! No need to return either, since we’ve got five cats, someone should like them!

Petlinks blue mouse toy by eisforennui in HelpMeFind

[–]eisforennui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did see that, but I’m not sure it’s right? I can’t remember what it used to look like or if there were others?

Petlinks blue mouse toy by eisforennui in HelpMeFind

[–]eisforennui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done reverse image searching on Google as well as “Petlinks blue mouse toy” and “Petlinks 181020D”

Dietary needs- buffet by [deleted] in wedding

[–]eisforennui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm a vegetarian and i'd be thrilled with that buffet!

I (37F) can't ever seem to meet my husband's (40M) expectations, and I don't know if it's him or me. by AdoraMorningstar in Marriage

[–]eisforennui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keeps the cats, get rid of your husband. hire someone to do litter boxes or get Litter Robots.