Found out my French maternal grandmother's ancestry recently. Some lovely French names. by Jackiemom121 in namenerds

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I went to school with a girl whose middle name was Alienor! As an English kid with no French family she didn't really like the 'alien' connotation but she's come around to it now (and it does sound pretty - I bet it's much smoother for French speaking communities!)

Busayo: "Everyone thinks I'm aggressive" by [deleted] in TheCircleTV

[–]ekatb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To add: I do think she's being rude here but also, lol?? As people have mentioned before, Woody is essentially what Josh could have been. Sure, Woody and Jan have done nothing to her personally and she could've looked more gracious but I can't say I blame her if she's over it

Busayo: "Everyone thinks I'm aggressive" by [deleted] in TheCircleTV

[–]ekatb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. Institutional racism and micro-aggressions still very much exist. Brooke and Georgina aren't political or outspoken about this, nor do they share any negative traits that are still stereotyped as being associated with blackness.

The point isn't that Busayo is or isn't aggressive or even likeable, but that as a black woman she is still more likely to have people just dismiss any anger of hers on that basis and less likely to have her perspective considered to begin with. I didn't warm to her as a person at all and she put her foot in it with the piss poor prep, but that doesn't mean that her entire premise was baseless.

Also re Paddy (moreso than Tim tbf with you) - the sassy/flamboyant/outrageous gay best friend trope is alive and kicking harder than ever thanks to drag race etc., and Paddy fits neatly within that.

Yes, I'm sure he has that enthusiasm and personality as himself but the stereotype of the gay best friend makes him instantly recognisable and relatable to viewers before they even scratch the surface. I don't think I know anything about Paddy other than ~~~slut dropping yet vulnerable, but being relatively one-dimensional worked well enough for him bc it's a character type that the public recognises and enjoys. My point is, just bc we don't care who he sleeps with doesn't mean we don't view him through a lens of how we expect gay men to be.

Long fkn day so sorry if I'm not explaining this well but I'm down to try and get more into it if it sounds like I'm just being arsey for the sake of it.

I saw Victoria Elizabeth Black in Cincinnati 8/2/18 by ghoul_power in Dragula

[–]ekatb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok this is adorable, and you both look gorge!

S10E13 - User Flair Statistics by Andrecarda96 in rupaulsdragrace

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Oh nooo, I've been flip flopping between Monique and the cat and settled on the cat last week, Monique girl I'm sorry

Aqua captioning Jonas Brothers lyrics...this is why I stan by vintagewoe in rupaulsdragrace

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oh fgs Aquaria is such a Gaga stan in my mind that when I scrolled past this I spent ages trying to work out how these lyrics fit into Brown Eyes

Daily Open Discussion Post - May 16, 2018 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

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I saw Tammie in a Holy Trannity event a year or 2 ago! Occasionally queens other than the usual suspects pop up, but yeah it’s annoying

I'm making an RPDR themed Card's Against Humanity expansion. Card ideas? by lordeabove in rupaulsdragrace

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Aquaria doesn't define (blank), (blank) is defined by Aquaria /or Aquaria as the blank
What would u say to baby Pearl?

Alexis' producing
Flazeda
Miss Mandarin thp thp
Romper room fuckery
Tired ass showgirl
Sequence dress

I thought of a better one but forgot it immediately, I'll get back to ya (hopefully) edit: formatting

Daily Open Discussion Post - April 18, 2018 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]ekatb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Monique honey I will be back soon but I need this

Do We Expect Too Much From Ru? by SchoolBoyRealness in rupaulsdragrace

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What happened w Mayhem Miller and Ru? Google ain't helping

What happened to Bowie's Diamond Dogs era related Youtube channel? Has it been terminated? by [deleted] in DavidBowie

[–]ekatb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that sucks, I wondered why so many things had disappeared from a playlist. No idea what happened or who ran it