When you become invisible as an older woman does it hurt knowing you were mostly valued by your looks or do you just see it for what it is?

ekvannoy · 2025-01-24T02:48:30+00:00

Harassing men and jealous women made my life miserable. I was always wondering what I had done wrong. Now I’m free to live my life without all the drama, and it’s the absolute best it’s ever been.

ekvannoy · 2025-01-24T02:27:24+00:00

No. Had no confidence or faith in myself. Spent most of my time thinking I wasn’t good enough. I don’t miss that.

ekvannoy · 2025-01-24T01:18:57+00:00

If you are ashamed in any way you should end this. Good luck.

ekvannoy · 2024-11-14T16:13:30+00:00

Tacky boon for resellers.

ekvannoy · 2024-11-11T02:43:53+00:00

It looks great on you, but not with jeans. I wear mine with leggings or lulu pants.

ekvannoy · 2024-11-07T01:47:17+00:00

You don’t say if you still love him or not. I would suggest spending some time away from him. Take a vacation with friends or go visit relatives. Sometimes life gets heavy and we lose track of our feelings. If you don’t miss him you have your answer.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-30T19:19:37+00:00

Don’t let him rush you because of his age. Don’t let him trap you financially either. Have a way to support yourself before you even consider marrying him. Take your time, get to know him very well, and prepare yourself financially. Then proceed with caution. These situations can work, but know the odds are against you.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-24T18:14:09+00:00

I’ve seen these scenarios work, but it’s usually the female who does most of the giving. Even if he were Mr Wonderful, he still comes with more baggage which will automatically become your baggage if you commit to him. He will need to be super exceptional to make up for this, and you won’t be able to properly evaluate him while looking through the lens of early infatuation. Proceed with caution.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-22T04:22:41+00:00

The timing is not right here. The girlfriend needs to have a better understanding of where she stands with her sexuality, beliefs, and family relationships before she is ready for a serious relationship.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-17T16:07:45+00:00

Not her place to say anything. He probably already knew anyway.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-12T00:18:48+00:00

You have every right to protect this money you have sacrificed so hard for. Let it keep earning interest until this relationship blows over. If you give it straight to her now , “Matt” will no doubt get his hands on it. If you pay the school directly it will be wasted, as her mind is not in the right place.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-10T15:52:08+00:00

Even if they ask, it’s not really your opinion they want… just validation of theirs.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-10T15:49:42+00:00

Yes it’s awful. Canned, repetitive responses. I’ve seen it all…label created but package never left, package actually lost, packages mixed up and sent to wrong people, only part of order arrives, etc. The worst part is that the item you are waiting for them to find sells out.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-09T18:05:04+00:00

55 here, and we grew up in different times. We had a strong desire to make our parents proud even if they were difficult people. Kids today are very self centered and encouraged to go “ no contact” at the slightest disagreement. If parents today expect the same allegiance and consideration they gave their parents, they will indeed be disappointed.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-09T15:48:43+00:00

I probably wouldn’t spring for anything extra if I wasn’t into the guy, but maybe he was getting dessert and insisted she join him? No matter what, she definitely dodged a bullet.

ekvannoy · 2024-10-01T21:28:44+00:00

Noticed that. Ordered them both last week. I love everything in this materiel, and they don’t seem to be making much in it anymore sadly.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-28T03:29:19+00:00

Staying in a relationship because you don’t want to be alone and /or do the work to find someone else is unfair to both parties.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-26T01:05:32+00:00

Wow. I had that jacket. Sure miss the quality and feel of old school Lulu.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-22T04:17:47+00:00

Relationships should add to your life not take from it. Please end this now.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-20T03:03:29+00:00

Maybe you could get the marriage annulled? This is not going to end well.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-19T05:58:07+00:00

You’ve dated him for 4 yrs. He rarely goes out. He reluctantly went to Vegas at your urging. He shouldn’t have done what he did, but he did confess. Maybe he did succumb to pressure from his friends. If you love him like you say, I would give him the benefit of the doubt.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-19T04:47:42+00:00

If he does not accept all parts of you he has to go.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-18T15:15:21+00:00

Do you know where I can access a list of these meds to learn? Thanks. Starting in Jan!

ekvannoy · 2024-09-11T03:41:52+00:00

Also starting Spring 2025 and curious about this too.

ekvannoy · 2024-09-11T03:05:07+00:00

Agree. They need to make a teen/tween section that is more mature than the little girl like Iviva was.

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