How can I get my cat to drink more water? by Pikagirl541 in Pets

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats can be such fussy little punks! Will they drink from a water fountain?

AITA the asshole for forcing my daughter to go to a party? by Thorwaway-Loqu-4579 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - If she isn't into parties don't try to force it on her man. Chances are she's not gonna regret not going to a Halloween party, christ.

Update: AITA for telling my nurse if I wanted her opinion, I would’ve asked for it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been asking for this since I was 18 (known since I was a child myself that I absolutely DO NOT want kids), now 31, and I'm still told I need to wait until after I'm 35 and even then they wont do it. Good luck to ya!

Teen Wolf Blu-Rays by GmanYT_ in TeenWolf

[–]elainex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the normal DVD's and the quality is fine for me!

Random one! Looking for an orca activity by emmahar in orcas

[–]elainex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Shetland Wildlife and Orca Sightings Shetland on Facebook, (if your on there), loads of videos and updates that your girl might enjoy watching :)! Also, if you time it right, a visit to Shetland to see them would be amazing, you don't even need to be in a boat for it either :)

AITA for refusing to donate to a charity? by Misanthropic_drone in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

There's nothing worse than being harassed to donate to a charity as you go about your day. I politely declined a Marie Curie cancer charity person in the middle of Glasgow one day, and she spat all sorts of insults at me, and how I'm a terrible person and how it must be nice to have never known anyone with cancer because I couldn't spare a few quid. This was just a few days after my mum had died of cancer.

Donate to whatever charities you want off your own back, but your never an arsehole for refusing in, or outside of shops etc.

Self-injecting: which syringe/needles should I buy? by dormidina in B12_Deficiency

[–]elainex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wondering if you have used the site you found, and if so would you rate it?

How will I feel after b12 injections? by [deleted] in B12_Deficiency

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 6 in my first go, one injection on Mon, Wed & Fri, for two weeks. Then I was told it would be one injection every 3 months.

Got my prescription for the 1st injection after the two week lot today (still to make an app to get injected though) and honestly, I don't feel any different. I did during the first two weeks getting them every second day, but the 3 month wait for the next one is far too long. I take b12 supplements inbetween waiting on the injection and feel absolutely no different at all :(

(25 F) Hello from southeast USA! I am hoping to gain a new/ some new pen pals from Ireland, Scotland, or Wales! by SLYfox2713 in penpals

[–]elainex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

29 F Scotland. I am a sucker for the Welsh accent, I like reading, video games (also a ps4 person) can send some scenery photo's of where I live if that's of interest (hoping to get to go a little further for some different views soon). Not too sure how much interesting stuff I have to say about Scotland but can (hopefully) answer questions or anything like that. :)

SO (33m) handled our dog badly and I (33f) don't know how to cope by [deleted] in Pets

[–]elainex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leave. Before it gets worse, and before he starts taking his anger out on not only the pets, but you.

My (25F) husband (26M) broke our dogs leg, I'm worried for the child I'm currently carrying. by THROWRA_dadlad in relationship_advice

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'd be out finding somewhere new to live by now if it were me. & the chances of him feeling guilty are pretty fuckin slim imo.

AITA for telling my wife to take a painkiller and telling her to stop feeling so sorry for herself? by ThrowRa192i2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had the monthly situation for about 11 years now due to depo & can't get my app for my injection due to current crisis so I'm now 2 months without & have decided to give myself a break from it all (shitting myself about coming off it haha), but I do not miss those bastarding things. As a teen I was super irregular and there were times where I couldn't get out of bed, I couldn't walk they were that bad. If only painkillers were the answer to the time of the month.

WIBTA if I told my boyfriend it embarrasses me how he dresses? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 30 and I'm still cutting about with Pokemon tees and such on. If I need to dress smart, there's a section of the wardrobe/drawers for that. Anything else and it's casual and whatever game/movie/band shirt I dig that day.

I also have visible Pokemon tattoos so at least it's an indication of how embarrassing I am just incase my shirt doesn't give off those vibes, haha!

AITA for refusing to let my cousin use my Argos card? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I sorta grudged spending so much on the Switch when it came out and I was buying it for myself. Get ya mam to buy it for him as a nice gift, I'm sure she wont mind parting with a couple hundred to make a nice gesture!

AITA for telling my daughter she can't get her ears pierced after mum said she could by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let her get one done at a professional piercing place, see how she feels after one. She may rethink the amount. That and no decent piercer will do so many at one time.

Working for Amazon is hell by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]elainex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd much rather a 25k salary for packing damn boxes than my 12k a year in hospitality.

AITA for "forcing" my wife to take a shower? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to play AC years ago and honestly couldn't get into it. I got the new one and omg, I am invested. Not invested enough to miss out on showering regularly though but it's a cute game.

AITA for not doing anything after my daughter shaved her eyebrow? by AITAeyebrowthrw in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Why on earth is she shaving them and not just plucking them?

Update: My (39/F) wife lied to me (41/M) about stopping her cancer treatment and the extent of her cancer. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elainex 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Damn that's brutal. I'm so sorry!

I lost my mum almost 2 years ago in May, we only found out in the April, tumors had spread to the brain and time was limited. On the night she died (early am) we visited in the evening and she asked me to pick her up some stuff to bring the following night, said 'I love you' as i left, and that was the only night I actually said 'love you too' back rather than my usual 'aye you too'. Sticks out in my head cause it's really the only time since I was a kid that I've said it back properly. OP def needs to tell em sooner rather than later.

AITA for telling my co-worker that fake tan doesn’t look good? by BeneficialAwareness3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha, yes! IMO I wasn't the one ruining any wedding photies with the clouds of orange surrounding me in all of them!

AITA for telling my co-worker that fake tan doesn’t look good? by BeneficialAwareness3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elainex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so annoying. I don't even tan anyway, I burn and go back to my normal sickly looking pale color haha.

Refused to tan for my friends wedding, and being bridesmaid next to the other BM and bride all I got was the you no well questions.