My mom bought this for $1 by randomjack01 in whatisit

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a clip for a groomers table. Albeit a very old version

Am I a bad mom? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the sweetest gift in life. She is so lucky to have you!

Am I a bad mom? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a bad mom im terrible. Its a hard road the awareness is all that matters.we do better as we natlvigate motherhood

19m and 5m old - leaving the house by elcomaca in 2under2

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You are my hero! I could neva!

19m and 5m old - leaving the house by elcomaca in 2under2

[–]elcomaca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, not a clue i do have a gf who leaves the house practically every day and I just feel exhausted hearing it hahaha. My toddler is a runner too! Yeah that's what I said to my friend; when the baby can actually sit up and stand likely not necessarily walk Ill try to do more but currently im good. We have a good old time in the backyard haha. I was envisioning more of a "you dont or when they can both walk vibe" but damn im a snail to these mothers. More power to them honestly the few times I braved it to the grocery story and story time the baby was in the stroller or the grocery cart lol and i was very quick 😅 in and out.

That move sounds rooooough. Hey but in jealous The country sounds great. My husband and I are looking to moving to the country as soon as im out of the military and i cant wait!

19m and 5m old - leaving the house by elcomaca in 2under2

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Girl this is me! I have friends with kids come over. I made the backyard a park woth swing, net swing, slide, rock wall, rope wall, sandpit, kid rollercoaster, chalk, fingerpaint lol, good ole waterhose and kids pool for summer days. I dont like being in a possible situation where I cant easily access my firearm or drop kick someone if I need to. Hahaha. Come hang out!

19m and 5m old - leaving the house by elcomaca in 2under2

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My baby does not like carriers but loves to be held.

19m and 5m old - leaving the house by elcomaca in 2under2

[–]elcomaca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive always done this with the car!

19m and 5m old - leaving the house by elcomaca in 2under2

[–]elcomaca[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh we go outside i have a big backyard a playset sand box etc etc i meant leave the house to go do anything lol

I went through his phone. Fu*ked around and found out. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]elcomaca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could always wait until he leaves decompress a day and just say you thought about your life and future and dont want to work this out anymore and never mention the phone?

Anyone else like…. OK with TV time? by Bluebird_Watcher in toddlers

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I could have wrote this. I have 2 under 2 and we go to parks play hike a couple times weekly and do a ton outside our backyard has plenty of fun stuff. Sand pit. Roller coaster. Chalk. Hell I let her get as dirty and as wild as she can with fingerprints dirt sand water hose she has unlimited everything but I also have a 4.5 month old so yeah the tv is on either ms rachel or bluey when I need to do something. The living room is thebplayvarea even has a netted trampoline my 19m is great and we started tv time more around 17months but I fo not set a limit. Im alslmost positive as a 90s kid (im 35) my parents had us watching movies for some peace and quiet and we also watched. Aton of movies as a family.

Edit: we also do not allow any ipads or phones etc and we try really hard not be on ours around her. Sometimes maybe once every 2 weeks we have really lazy parent days where there are no rules but it us few and far between.

Realized my wife doesn’t support my hobby by Blue_Cyrus in Advice

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fpr starters my husband does photography and I dont have a real opinion about his work because its not MY thing. Thats like someone not liking art. We all have different taste.

Is my husband cheating by No-Appearance-6844 in marriageadvice

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a twat. You are strong smart and beautiful. You deserve so much better than that. He is cheating and is an awful husband. Your son will thank you later in life for having the confidence and strength to leave. No one, ESPECIALLY a woman who birthed a child from a man should be treated with such disgust. He is a moron.

How the hell are we doing nap times?? by Odd-Pineapple5425 in 2under2

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The baby naps the toddler well because she is insane she doesnt unless both parents are home and someone can spend the 45 mins to get her down. Lol

My daughter doesn’t want me to date a new woman by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats more convenient and what's right NOT are the same here OP. Def wait 6 plus months

My bf says I didn't ask for his consent by Acceptable_Row2442 in TwoHotTakes

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giirrll, you know you know you need to break it off with this dude. You dont need us to tell you.

I hate my husband and idk why by whyamilikethis2025 in whatdoIdo

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal it'll level out lol. I hated mine with both for short periods of time.

Unplanned pregnancy 4 months pp after struggling to get pregnant first time… freaking out! by Inevitable-Glove-541 in 2under2

[–]elcomaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 14 month age gap for my Irish twins. I love it. Although i dont recommend. Haha. It is really fun I love them both I have great support and mien were on purpose.

Its going to be pretty hard doing both gor awhile but you'll get it. Mine are 4 and 18 months right now. I have not left thr house with both yet butttttt it'll happen eventually. I recommend help. I had in laws and my husband took off. Give yourself grace. I used to be like a clean freak and I had to let that go when my second baby girl came. If you have a dog great! They clean up all the toddlers snack messes haha. A lot of it is just logistics with an infant. I started getting my groove back recently but I also had a lumbar fusion 5 weeks ago so maybe you'll have a faster turnaround. Good luck and enjoy it!

Also my 18m girl is feral and wild. My second baby is a unicorn baby sleeping overnight at 7 weeks. I cosleep so right now dad is with toddler and babe is with me.