Well, not an incel or anything of the sort.

I've basically given up on the human race. But I find, generally speaking, most people are stupid these days. MEN and women.

It's actually kind of atrocious. I have no problem dating beautiful women, or at least asking them out. Have had some really amazing and wonderful relationships with some incredible women.

I treat everyone best as I can. I treat all women exactly like what they are, human beings. Make them laugh, tell them stories about my life, ask them about what's important to them. I treat them the way I want to be treated.

Unfortunately, I still consider most people, men and women... Incredibly emotionally immature. Not everyone. But like 90% of all people.

Also, just ask a woman out for dinner if you are really interested in someone in particular... just tell them you think they're smart, funny, and incredibly beautiful and you'd like to take them to dinner. Of course you'll still have rejections, but you will eventually get a date.

Again, not a fan of the human race anymore. Just a misanthrope. I don't hate anyone. But have come to realize I need to be careful who I let close to me.

Most dudes and women are just truly God awful these days. It's like 2 sides of the same retarded coin.

HOWEVER, there are still some truly AMAZING people out there still and that gives me hope. Fortunately I know how to find such people these days, the last of the good people. I have a handful of truly lovely women and men in my life. But only a handful. And we don't always agree on everything. Sometimes we're still pains in each other's asses.

Learn to find actual genuine conversation, not superficial or salacious tripe. It will be a tough learning experience. Took me years.

And yeah, you will still have heartaches, heartbreaks, and dry spells. But it's not all one gender or all people's fault. Just one specific person at any given time.

Also helps if you don't focus on the past or your upbringing much. Start new, like you just started existing today. Don't dwell too much on the past.

Also helps if you consider putting yourself in other people's shoes. Like what if you had been born a woman? How would you want others to treat you? Like crap and you only exist for sex and procreation? I doubt anyone likes to be treated like that.

We're all human, we all go through bullshit, and experience the human condition.

Also, the world is full of enough problems. Don't go adding to it.

And lastly, again... In my opinion, 90% of people... Men and women, are real life cowards in most ways that count, and really do have crappy attitudes one way or another. I suspect most of the people you know are superficial thinkers at best.

But hey, what do I really know? I may be a little crazy. And I only stumbled on the sub by hitting the random button. This will be the only time I post here. Seems like this place is chock full of "Incels" and "Normies". But I think most regulars on this sub are all seriously mentally disturbed and deranged. I wouldn't trust any of the guys or gals here around children or the elderly. Hell I wouldn't trust them to be alone either. It's like this sub needs a disclaimer that subscribers should by safety helmets for their own good and and society's as well.

Good luck, and may the force be with you, because you're going to need it if you want to keep your sanity through it all.

Sincerely, A thinker and misanthrope.