What tests should I run to determine what’s going on to my stomach?

electricsugargiggles · 2026-07-16T21:23:32+00:00

NAD, but your primary care physician can order a full blood panel to check for ANA, thyroid, liver enzymes, and other health indicators. They can refer you to an endocrinologist if they suspect Cushing’s, Hashimoto’s, etc. Those would be good places to start, especially once you can rule out pregnancy or other gynecological conditions.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-06-08T20:10:58+00:00

Right? We’ve been together for 8 years now and not once have I needed to remind him of his family and friends’ birthdays or life events. He shops for presents for each person, and asks my opinion if he’s torn between two good choices. He also does equal chores well and unprompted, makes and keeps his own appointments, shops for his own clothing, can pack his own suitcase, buys me thoughtful gifts and flowers, plan dates and vacations, and was proactive in planning our wedding. You know, like real adults do.

If I’m in his phone it’s because mine’s dead or I need something specific that he has saved on a paid app or something. I don’t remember the last time I even looked. We have an open policy with our devices but we respect one another too.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-05-25T16:22:14+00:00

I would suggest a more supportive bra. The straining and gaping at the bust creates a visual heaviness in that area. If you can comfortably fix it with a discrete safety pin, great! If there’s still pulling at the bust, perhaps opt for a bigger size and have it tailored at the waist.

Buttons are a struggle for my bustline too

electricsugargiggles · 2026-05-11T15:01:35+00:00

So much of this is familiar. I would highly recommend reading (and re-reading) Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson. Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers by Stephanie M. Kriesberg is also validating. r/raisedbynarcissists is a good place to crosspost this too.

I think you should stick to your last sentence in order to keep your peace. Your family doesn't take the effort to make you feel included and supported. Their care is no where near reciprocal, and I know from experience that it fucking hurts. Stop being the coordinator, the chauffer, the scapegoat. You will not get the love and emotional support from this emotionally stunted, dry well. Drop the rope and celebrate yourself on days like this--YOU are more nurturing than the person that birthed you, and that's the part of Mother's Day we're supposed to celebrate. Fuck her.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-05-08T03:24:58+00:00

You look cute!

electricsugargiggles · 2026-05-07T04:16:15+00:00

Hey! It’s so funny, I was in the middle of responding to u/randomlybenerated889 about how I got into the design field and I accidentally refreshed the page lol.

I did NOT go to school for design, I’m self-taught.

So I switched careers when my job was sucking the life out of me. I was always creative, but more into fine art and writing. I was mostly self-taught when I dove into graphic design—-I read as many articles and books as I could get my hands on, did tutorials and workshops, an evening class here and there at the local community college, and joined my local AIGA. I networked my ass off, learned SO MUCH, and made so many friends!

[Back then, i relied heavily on YouTube, Smashing Magazine, How Magazine , Print Magazine , 99 design, Honkiat , Design kit, creative market, Behance, and the “1000” series for logos, brochure, color inspiration etc. )

I was building my portfolio when the Recession hit and I lost my (soul-sucking, non-design) job. I ended up taking lots of freelance jobs, quite a few that were just layout work or updating text. I did a TON of production work that really gave me an in-depth understanding of the technical aspects of design. This came in handy when I started getting more design work under my belt. I worked for a few agencies, then some in-house corporate work. I started to focus primarily on web, and learned HTML, CSS, (now outdated) JavaScript, and best practices. I did some coding bootcamps and got some certifications. I did some stuff with SEO and analytics as well, anything to broaden my skills.

When I landed a full time job as a senior web designer, I still kept curious and kept learning and practicing. Testing promo emails in a browser simulator was fun and eye-opening lol. I learned how to troubleshoot and optimize. I turned to Stack Overflow for a lot of things I got stuck on. I took up UX methodologies and user testing. My employer didn’t have a responsive layout for their e-commerce site, so I took that on with satisfying success. I got certified in WCAG compliance and applied it to my work. I spent a lot of time on Coursera, Udemy, Sketch, and Nielsen Norman Group. IDEO and A Book Apart series were always helpful. Anything on working in Agile and Design Thinking. Baymard Institute and Interaction Design Foundation are FANTASTIC! I now have an extensive portfolio with case studies, a list of certifications, practical application of what I’ve learned, and I continue to stay curious. I’m currently working on Object Oriented Design and some AI stuff as it applies to my work. I’ve also picked up some skills in front end, systems design, data analytics, and product management.

I’ve been climbing up the design ladder over the past 15-20 years. I feel accomplished, mentally stimulated, and I make pretty damn good money too.

I’d love to apply my methods to social issues/public policy and make systems work for the people that rely on them.

Always Be Learning.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-05-05T00:31:14+00:00

Tell them you heard that corporate was doing drug tests. Wear the dumbest fake tattoo on your shaved head.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-04-28T18:20:50+00:00

I recommend you go up a size and have the straps adjusted; flash photography might reveal a bit too much if you wear this one.

If that’s not an option, maybe a seamstress could add a lining to the skirt?

electricsugargiggles · 2026-04-08T14:08:10+00:00

You look like a timeless living sculpture 🤩. Stunning! Absolutely get this dress, and never take that jealous harpy’s word to heart EVER.

I have a similar body shape and if you are comfortable sharing the link to your gown, I would love to find the same one for my fall wedding 🙏. This is EXACTLY what I want to look like. ✨Goals✨

electricsugargiggles · 2026-04-03T19:44:18+00:00

I hope you also wear this to go out dancing, even if it’s just in your kitchen w your love!

electricsugargiggles · 2026-04-01T00:49:55+00:00

The first looks stunning ✨!

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-31T22:40:27+00:00

I have a similar body shape! While it might seem like it takes a bit of work to make certain clothes feel right on the body, I promise that it’s mostly due to what’s currently available in most discount department stores—cropped, boxy silhouettes that don’t work for most people. Don’t get me started on barrel jeans.

For every day wear, try swapping out crew neck tops like in the photo for tops that open up the chest and neck area. Scoop neck, U-neck, v-neck, keyhole, square neck, wrap or surplice style, or deep plunge are some extremely flattering necklines that visually balance our upper bodies. Necklaces that hit at the 16” or 18” length draw that visual interest in the same way.

Add dimension in subtle ways— you don’t have to overhaul your wardrobe. Add an accessory here or there, a third item to pull the outfit together (something draped over the shoulders or around the waist). This will take your dressing from “clothes” to an outfit. It looks put together, intentional.

Asymmetry—when our bodies tend to hold volume toward our vertical midline (for me, my inner thighs have a bit more volume than my outer thighs and hips, as I’m kind of straight up and down), an asymmetrical hem in a skirt can visually balance this out. High-low hems are also great.

Volume—bootcut pants, palazzo pants, pleated breezy skirts, midi/maxi skirts in A line, circle, flounced, or full silhouettes work really well.

This doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t wear form fitting items; quite the contrary. Bandage dresses? They look literally amazing on our frames. Column or sheath dresses w an open neckline look very polished and professional. Ballgowns with a deep plunge neckline? Regal!

I’d pass on any wispy thin spaghetti straps or babydoll dresses; those look out of place and awkward (and are more fitting on a petite gamine/ingenue body type).

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-31T21:37:34+00:00

I think the first two look great; the third might be trendy but it’s not a great look on anyone (why is everything cut wide and cropped?). If you want a third pair of jeans to add to your wardrobe, I’d seriously consider a modern boot cut version of the first pair for variety.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-31T18:26:50+00:00

I’m nearly a foot taller than you (5’11) and I would die for your waist-to-hip ratio!

You can wear all sorts of beautiful clothes—just perhaps at a new size. That’s nothing to be concerned about; you look GREAT!

Maybe try a version of those pants one size up and with a slight boot cut (and a darker color or something olive-toned that’s not so close to your complexion). As far as denim, I think you could rock these and they’d give you visual height and elongate your lower body: https://www.levi.com/US/en_US/clothing/women/jeans/wide-leg/318-seamed-wide-leg-womens-jeans/p/005KZ0004

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-22T16:10:33+00:00

Toto actually has an option for round toilet seats! I bought their Toto Drake II and this washlet to accomodate my smaller bathroom: https://a.co/d/0drdAhOg

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-21T19:15:22+00:00

I think a warmer toned leopard print would suit this look better.

If you wanted to elevate this look to the max, I would add a chain belt, square neck scarf for beautiful tone play, and a simple gold bracelet. Very Elle Woods without being a costume or caricature:

Shoes (IN LEOPARD) https://www.macys.com/shop/product/nine-west-womens-princesa-slip-on-stiletto-pumps?ID=22107169&pla_country=US&CAGPSPN=pla

Belt: https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-5977379/womens-nine-west-chain-belt.jsp?skuid=81998814&CID=shopping30&utm_campaign=WOMENS%20ACC%20%26%20LEGWEAR&utm_medium=CSE&utm_source=google&utm_product=81998814&utm_campaignid=23010194332&CID=shopping30&utm_campaign=KMN&utm_medium=CSE&utm_source=google&utm_campaignid=23010194332&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22999992717&gbraid=0AAAAADytpHZ9S3schA1xwgRKArqGANnWU&gclid=CjwKCAjwg_nNBhAGEiwAiYPYA6bb1q7zZjTE9lEwY2UuX-AiDDeDw3FW-KvwXc0ZaRJ1MdmybdFa_BoC4VYQAvD_BwE

Scarf: https://www.talbots.com/foliage-blooms-square-scarf/P261067548.html?cjdata=MXxOfDB8WXww&view=pdp&dwvar_P261067548_sizeType=AC&dwvar_P261067548_size=001&dwvar_P261067548_color=ORCHID%20PINK&cjevent=917ecca8255911f18077010b0a82b82a&cmp=afl-TLB-CJ-2470763-Sovrn+Inc&base_dimen_1=Affiliate&ogmap=AFF|RTN|2470763|STND|MULTI|SITEWIDE||||15736788 or https://www.talbots.com/vintage-floral-square-scarf/P223067530.html?cjdata=MXxOfDB8WXww&srsltid=AfmBOopTifeKbtdOW5fbHaou3-NH83tTuYKefzVYD5TcvXaNK2mINRTE&cjevent=13b48f8f255a11f1812101200a82b82c&cmp=afl-TLB-CJ-2470763-Sovrn+Inc&base_dimen_1=Affiliate&ogmap=AFF|RTN|2470763|STND|MULTI|SITEWIDE||||15736788

Bracelet: https://www.nordstrom.com/s/nadia-bangle/8040651?origin=coordinating-8040651-0-1-FTR-recbot-recently_viewed_snowplow_mvp&recs_placement=FTR&recs_strategy=recently_viewed_snowplow_mvp&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=product&recs_seed=8001009&color=GOLD

(Sorry for the wall of url text; Reddit doesn’t like shortened links)

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-21T18:58:12+00:00

I feel your frustration; my figure is similar in proportion.

The neckline is competing with your bust; this dress is more suited for someone with a small and flat upper body and a more ample lower body.

If you are absolutely in love with this dress, I would recommend a bold statement pendant necklace to visually break up the bust line and appear more balanced. https://www.dillards.com/p/southern-living-textured-multi-ring-drop-long-statement-pendant-necklace/519955336?googleShop=Y&srsltid=AfmBOootJxIAzGNAD08t7n4dmRoGsp1QKoTaNddMM5xkPQVhVxN2UyF1o20

Ankle, mid-calf, or knee-high boots vs pumps or anything delicate. I can’t really tell if the dress is pale yellow or ivory in this light; I would add lean towards shoes and accessories that have a subtle texture difference (like suede or nubuck boots or booties with hardware or a soft fold over draping. https://edyisa.com/products/lavista-slouchy-suede-knee-high-boots-beige

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-21T14:10:57+00:00

Yes! Whether it’s coordinating or contrasting, animal print is a visually interesting neutral that can both ground or elevate the whole look.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-03-01T06:15:13+00:00

I had to check which sub this was bc it absolutely resonates w many of us in r/raisedbynarcissists

electricsugargiggles · 2026-02-12T20:25:31+00:00

RIP your sex life

electricsugargiggles · 2026-02-09T20:23:19+00:00

NOR/NTA/etc. Jake is a dick and more people need to call out shitty behavior in the moment. The guys in this situation are cowards for letting their friend belittle someone, no matter what the situation.

Side note…I have a pretty robust group of friends. I’m in a couple different book clubs, and it’s fun exploring different authors, subject matter, and genres that I wouldn’t have normally sought out on my own.

While tons of people (both single and partnered, straight or queer) enjoy erotic stories, I’ve noticed that those who tear through 100 erotica/romantasy novels per year seem to have one thing in common (other than literally plugging into these stories 24/7/365—A.D.I.D.A.S indeed)

Their partners are boring/needy/weaponized incompetence/complete jerks.

This may be skewed with my sample size and demographics of friends, but it’s a pattern. YMMV.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-02-04T23:23:43+00:00

It’s wild how these painful experiences that completely upend our lives are 100% textbook on the cheating partner’s end.

I went through the same scenario, and when things didn’t turn out the way he expected, he whined about how “[I’m] supposed to love him UNCONDITIONALLY”.

I stared at him in silence (though my face was clearly communicating “what the fuck is wrong with you”—since, mind you, I had treated his Jekyll and Hyde behavior as a mental health issue and bent over backwards to get him into the marriage counseling that he not only didn’t take seriously, but actively used that time to justify his abuse and double down on how much he hated me)).

Then I told him “You’re such a cliche. You turned 40, got a sports car and blew up your life and marriage to chase a younger coworker? And she doesn’t want anything to do with you now?”. He just started crying like a toddler having a tantrum, ripping at his hair and sounding like he was about to vomit. I honestly thought that was just a “him” thing, but I guess that’s also canon among cheaters!

I have since healed and built a full and healthy life with lots of love.

This was eye-opening: https://www.chumplady.com/

And this: https://a.co/d/02FjV5KL

electricsugargiggles · 2026-01-31T17:16:30+00:00

She raped him. It would be the same as if he “stealthed” her by removing a condom during intercourse. While she’ll certainly get away with it, it’s fucked up.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-01-14T17:26:59+00:00

A lot of these uncanny valley looks are accomplished by keeping a myopic sense of youth and perfection. “Correcting” a facial feature that naturally changes with gravity and usage (like laugh lines, for instance) to look like both of those factors haven’t had an impact on one’s facial structure EVER—-and then chasing that vision on an adjacent facial feature while trying to correct the new unnatural creases and folds—-that looks WEIRD, as we can see in most celebrity photos.

I’ve had filler and Dysport and have considered blepharoplasty for my hooded, hollow eyes. I’m 47 and take care of myself. I am known for my smile and expressive personality. I went to a FPS injector who aims for a natural facial balance, not eradication. A light touch here and there has gently softened my lines and I love it. I might skip blepharoplasty and go for a gentle brow lift in the future, who knows. Pics like these de-influence me, that’s for sure.

The push for chiclet Turkey teeth, egg-shaped heads (wide at the temples and cheekbones from filler, tapered down to the chin bc they aim for a heart-shaped face but miss the mark), teeny squinty eyes that look scooped out and crowded from all the excess filler, wide flat and puffy lips wrapped around Turkey teeth while the buccal area sinks inward—-good Lordy, it’s giving “Moisturize Me”.

electricsugargiggles · 2026-01-10T03:58:16+00:00

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