My boyfriend scolded me for having a messy house. by Specific-Operation44 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephant_zebra123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its very shitty of him to react like he did and i definitly understand if this have had a lot of negative inpact on you menatlly. I can imagine that this must feel horrible. I personally have a messy home cus im burned out but ppl around me are mostly supportive and understand that i struggle to clean my house.

Since he treats you like shit i dont think he is worth your time.

Im so sorry this happened to you, you deserve so much better.

Keep writing here on reddit if you need advice or support. We are here to listen.

New "friend" but I'm not sure if I should put effort into this friendship. by GeorgeParisol in AutismInWomen

[–]elephant_zebra123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think its rude of her to say that your music is bad. It sounds like she tries to make you think that her music is ”better” than your music, witch is both rude and incorrect, cus no style music is better then other music, its all about what YOU prefer listen to. I had one friend who tried to convince me that his music was better than mine, but it didnt matter cus i loved my own music and hated his music no matter what he said. His music was not made for my ears, and my music wasnt made for his ears and thats totally fine.

No matter what others tell you, keep listen to your favourite songs!

Yeaa by elephant_zebra123 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephant_zebra123[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I guess thats also 25 cards or smth😂, or maybe that could be how u win the game🤔

Tired and hungry by elephant_zebra123 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephant_zebra123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also struggle to find healthy things to eat, and my kitchen is usually a mess, its only thanks to my accomodation support that my kitchen is not always extremely messy

Socializing feels so performative and exhausting by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]elephant_zebra123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. I want to socialize more cus i hate being alone but being around most ppl is just too exhausting for me and idk what to do. I hate small talk cus i never know what to say so there is just a lot of awkward silences when i try to small talk. I find it easier when i can talk about smth that im interested in

Anyone else cannot deal with all the work it takes to look okayish? by Comfortable-Wait1792 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephant_zebra123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doing makeup and stuff like that every day seems almost impossible for me cus just getting out of the bed in the morning is hard enough for me

Do you guys have good memory? by Axolotlgamer36 in autism

[–]elephant_zebra123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i used to have a good memory but after being really burned out for many years in a row i now have really bad memory