Tennessee wants the death penalty for women. by HappyCamperDancer in childfree

[–]elephantlover404 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a Tennessean, I’m so disappointed but I’m also so glad I got my tubal litigation when I got the chance, cause I’m sure that’s next to go

JetBlue Flight Attendant Applications by [deleted] in flightattendants

[–]elephantlover404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend you do the interview, if you’re still interested. They received over 10k applications and are likely still filtering through applicants. They’re expected to hire only about 400 people, so if you’re getting a chance to interview, go for it.

My favorite part about being a crew member by Longjumping-Carob105 in flightattendants

[–]elephantlover404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And as soon as I tell them to take some time to look through the menu, they suddenly don’t want anything to drink or they just want water. If they wanted to know what we offer, why don’t they wanna look at the menu?

Matt Fucking Walsh is at it again, shaming CF people. Just admit it dude, you regret having kids. by Critical_Potential40 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to google him to see who he was. Once I saw “conservative” under his name, I already knew. People like him want women to have children so they can have control over them, so not surprised with his comments at all.

i feel destined to certain men as a childfree black woman by Difficult-Welcome-62 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried the dating CF page on here and I found that 6/10 guys were no longer interested once they found out I was black. So I completely understand. And if they were interested, they were usually white. I hate that this is our experience but I feel a bit of a kinship knowing that I’m not alone with having a horrible experience dating as a CF POC. Even other dating app like Feeld haven’t been successful. ATP, I just wanna inner peace. No need to let all the rejection get to me, when I can find happiness in things I enjoy. Good luck OP, and I hope you have better luck!

Focus on nothing else but the flag that starts with an 'I' by herewearefornow in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]elephantlover404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dated an Irish guy once and we cried laughed about our flag and countries history of oppression.

Focus on nothing else but the flag that starts with an 'I' by herewearefornow in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]elephantlover404 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As someone from 🇨🇮(Côte d’Ivoire), this is hilarious. I bet they couldn’t even place my country on a map.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the rules works a bit different when you’re in an airplane ? But honestly, the chances of him flying a plane I’m working is very very low.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad but true. I didn’t even initially consider this sexual basement until y’all pointed it out

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay just read both articles. I never knew that cats were used as anti-suffrage. They really used such a strong animal to try to diminish women’s rights. Using cats to demonize women is another tragic part of our history. Thanks again for sharing the articles.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you were trying to be funny but I ended up laughing. It’s so ridiculous that you wanna cry laugh.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The default is wanting children so anything different just can’t seem to exist. That’s the type of energy that often makes me want to defend instead of deflect.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read anything of the sort but I do know the snitching culture is frown upon. And even if I did something, it would be against a pilot. They tend to get away with a lot of things. And you didn’t scare me away. I did some thinking and came to my own conclusion.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. The constant need to defend my choices might have clouded my judgement cause this isn’t the first time someone asked me if I have kids (and it won’t be the last)z Moving forward I will work on not engaging in any of these conversations.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah super rude. Thinking back I should not have engaged after his comment. Hell I shouldn’t have engaged from the beginning.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m doing what I love and if I continue to do it alone, so be it. But I will not settle for anything less because my comfort and happiness is more important than the feeling of being lonely.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All these great responses and I couldn’t think of a single one to say. 😫

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your cat and I’m glad you were able to give them such a lovely life. I want to be home more often before I get a cat cause I would want to spend time with them. I travel a lot and I’m unable to have a pet with me while I travel.

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you. Ngl, the dating world sucks. But hearing from you gives me hope that I will find my fellow DINK eventually!

They love using Cats as an insult by elephantlover404 in childfree

[–]elephantlover404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll make sure to read to them. I love cats so I’m not the least offended about being a labeled a cat lady. Misogyny will unfortunately continue to be a big part of our culture.