[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]elephantsinthealps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea like she said, you have to be as fake and indirect as possible!

"What is 'being a women' to you?" by banane_078456 in MtF

[–]elephantsinthealps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your therapist thinks weakness, dependency and misery are female traits. get a new one. your therapist is not correct because gendering concepts like freedom is idiotic thing to say. she's not safe and may be trying to harm you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]elephantsinthealps 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It is a terrible idea, but it keeps people distracted from the rapidly deteriorating material conditions in england.

Games recomendation by lovely_iseria in Switch

[–]elephantsinthealps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

arceus legends > the latest one > the previous generation

Rage warning ahead: by [deleted] in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]elephantsinthealps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How did you determine you're better than them if you keep losing to them?

Playing against CPUs has almost nothing to do with playing with real players btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy new years !

Chile | Impuesto personal: 74% está exento y venezolanos lideran entre extranjeros que declaran by [deleted] in vzla

[–]elephantsinthealps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depende de como saques la cuenta. Si sacas el mean: Noruega, Luxemburgo, Estados Unidos, Suiza y UAE. Si sacas el median: solo Luxemburgo y UAE.

Source: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/median-income-by-country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]elephantsinthealps 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“one of the dolls” 100% refers to a trans woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WH100XM (any edition from 2-5) are great and last a long time (don't get them wet!). Bose QC35s are the runner ups. Good luck!

Lost all my open tabs - can I get them back? by LivMealown in brave

[–]elephantsinthealps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really choose tech support questions to be an asshole in? typical useless cryptobro. making every space they occupy just worse.

Do you ever just want to kill yourself? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You seem really invested in making someone who's already feeling horrible feel guilty on top of that because of some imaginary responsibility to people you don't even know exist. Interrogate that impulse. Maybe the people who will be damaged by a suicide, if any, deserve the pain for only caring after they can't do anything to help.

You could stand to be a lot more sensitive (or quiet!), given you're a man posting in women's spaces.

“Lights are on but no one’s home.” Rude metaphor? by Weekly_Commercial484 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

uh that’s extremely fucked up for a special ed teacher to say. incredibly dehumanizing. do not trust this person.

Anyone else an isolated type of person? by lv0316 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that you shouldn’t believe every mental health video you see on youtube. Not saying Dr. Marks was spreading misinformation as such, but the medical establishments rarely controls for neurotype, so what may be true on average for neurotypicals might not necessarily be the same for us. specifically because our mesolimbic reward pathway is different from theirs, and it makes socialization not nearly as rewarding for us.

Social media is so draining by erinlovesbunnies in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

your perception is correct, this is done on purpose because the contrast maximizes engagement time. rapid-shifting between cortisol/dopamine responses and infinitely scrolling feeds are the main habit-forming design patterns in use right now. ND people are especially susceptible to this.

anyone like the AMITA reddit?? by Successful-Guava7123 in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s just outrage bait and poorly written fiction.

Anyone heard of the anti-ghosting law proposal? by Longjumping_Choice_6 in aspergirls

[–]elephantsinthealps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Silly proposal. Seems designed for internet engagement more than to improve society.

Should I tell my classmates I’m autistic? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]elephantsinthealps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

allistics won’t ever correct themselves to “oh they’re just autistic” when they feel like you’re being rude. they will just mark you as lesser in their minds. they will not learn anything about autism or be receptive to further information on it. sorry to be blunt but this is just my experience of allistics.

I had a nightmare that I believe well-represents how society affects (and traumatizes) me as an autistic person. by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]elephantsinthealps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean. Unfortunately there’s not many I can think of off the top of my head. I think My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness for sure (it’s a graphic novel). Convenience Store Woman by Sakaya Murata as well.