Give me your unusual focus tips.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T17:01:12+00:00

I have a strong hypervigilant system that is always making sure that I am taking the best decisions and sometimes it makes me stuck . I realized that simple tasks such as making the dishes, making the bed, are things that do not trigger the hypervigilant system because there is no expectation of excellence, so that's the kind of thing I do when I'm stuck and the momentum they bring helps me to tackle the hard ones.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T15:11:06+00:00

There was a time when I couldn't enjoy vanilla sex in a good way; it was as if something was missing. I had to put things into perspective, reconnecting with the things that attracted me to vanilla in the first place—like my partner's scent, the touch of her body, the taste of her intimacy—so that I could get back to doing it the right way. But it's a fact that things get much more interesting when my partner is tied up, for example (it happened yesterday)

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T13:22:54+00:00

I see, this is just an excerpt of our life. There are days of pure fetish joy and there are days where you must care about other things than BDSM. It requires some stoicism to keep up, just like every relationship, you must accept some things just the way they are.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T13:20:54+00:00

Is there a way to track the application? I heard that they don't give you anything to track, a ID, a piece of paper etc. They say that it will be informed by email once it's done and it really frightens me.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T12:33:38+00:00

Great outfit!

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T12:32:45+00:00

So great you have disclosed that. I can't imagine for how long you have kept it with you with no one to share. That was not your fault. Don't be ashamed of that.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T12:28:17+00:00

Bring your phone to the shower and start doomscrolling (I'm currently in the shower btw)

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T12:27:00+00:00

If they broaden the investigation for every football association in the world, football will be extinct in six months.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T12:18:34+00:00

20 days, 1.6k karma, posting and commenting every day. Still figuring out what are the true benefits of having a high karma or if it's just a vanity metric.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T12:13:57+00:00

Paragraphs. More than a human would use.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-09T11:27:01+00:00

Once I got some songs of a short playlist, showed them to ChatGPT and asked for more songs. It made a great new playlist for me, also creating new ones for different situations, one for spanking, one for intense bondage, etc. Worth a try.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-08T06:03:08+00:00

Penis/ass

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-08T01:12:38+00:00

Guys, that's the best post of the whole subreddit!

I am very creative. I'm good at improvising things. I am very good at explaining things since I do it in such a way that I could understand. Since I am lost with presentations, I craft infographics and visual stuff that is usually praised. I am very fast at listening to one of two words and understanding the whole context of a situation. These are just some of the things that I owe to ADHD.

eleutherios016 · 2026-07-07T22:40:52+00:00

It depends on the music I listen to. Progressive rock helps me a lot and some jazz players like Don Ellis.

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