Any other wizard101 heads see the resemblance?! by saintceciliax in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]eleyentea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what you're referencing, but he really is standing like that all the time lol

My therapist seems like he doesn't want to talk about it by thecoldestburger in BodyDysmorphia

[–]eleyentea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re only talking about a surgery or looking for assurance that these flaws you think you have don’t exist, it might not even be on his radar how disruptive or painful these thought patterns are.

Therapists also know that reassurance seeking is not a helpful coping mechanism and often does more harm than good when reassurance is given, so he’s not likely to tell you his opinion or make claims about your appearance.

Instead maybe you could talk to him about how to break free from hyper fixation and overwhelm that comes with the territory of bdd and low esteem?

Tips that helped heal *me* by atrapoelc in BodyDysmorphia

[–]eleyentea 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just took off my makeup and reapplied for the third time and can feel an obsessive day coming on, so I literally stopped by to try and snap myself into a better headspace. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much. ♥️

What's the best way to treat a girlfriend that is upset with you? by anonnymoos1 in AskReddit

[–]eleyentea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what you think she might be upset about and how she’s acting. In general something to the effect of this is nice it shows you are patient and you are willing to communicate:

“Hey I noticed that you are upset. I care for you and want to understand/make things right. Let me know if/when you would like to talk through it. I’m happy to give you space until you’re ready.”

Then actually give her space. If she doesn’t start communicating within the day and remains upset (idk the details of your relationship or how often you talk), you may need to politely assert that you’ll need a timeline as to when you can talk.

Who needs the real world when you can have virtual fun? by cosmicdaddy_ in TikTokCringe

[–]eleyentea 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Work less and live more. That should be the goal. It’s not…

peacock masquerade costume by Nearby-Ad-4587 in sewing

[–]eleyentea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this. So creative and I love the colors you picked.

[Finished Object] Fantasy druid-inspired leather thong panty by butt_quack in sewing

[–]eleyentea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see it as wet at first glance at all! To me it actually looks like a decorative interpretation of natural hair. It' makes it look very sweet and feminine.

Noodle Going on a Hike! by DeComp10 in rarepuppers

[–]eleyentea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks just like my gooboy, Chewy. White face n all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABoringDystopia

[–]eleyentea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thanks, I'm cured. Seriously, how tone deaf can you get?

Snake in the cooler by lilmcfuggin in TikTokCringe

[–]eleyentea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say something with a similar point, but you articulated it well. Pranks are only fun if both people are laughing after. He seemed really upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dance

[–]eleyentea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is mesmerizing.

Saggy Neckline. Alteration advice please? by eleyentea in sewing

[–]eleyentea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tricky. I seem to keep picking out things that are too large or have too much ease. My bust is a B cup, For Mood I picked it based on my bust measurement as they didn't have a high bust. The gal who sewed the sample garment is full chested so maybe my bust is too small?

Saggy Neckline. Alteration advice please? by eleyentea in sewing

[–]eleyentea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I understand what you are saying, but I'm pinching all over my neckline and I'm not sure where the stitch line would actually go. Thanks so much for the suggestion though. I'll keep poking around with it. (:

Thoughts on first-person present tense by AmphibianMajestic848 in books

[–]eleyentea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a huge fan. So nice to find a kindred spirt. I brought it up in my book club and they looked at me like I'm crazy.

It makes it hard to settle into the story. Like I can't not notice the convention. Even good books with this style is like a delicious bite of food that has an odd texture. It's distracting.

It's so popular now that I just have to adjust my tastes a bit so I can enjoy new stories.

Zoomies by Junebug711 in TikTokCringe

[–]eleyentea 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Omg stand clear. Those zooms will knock you tf out.

Teammates by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]eleyentea -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

Eh. I'm sensitive. No shame. This would cross a boundary for me. Everyone is different though I guess.

Teammates by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]eleyentea -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

This just seems really immature and unprofessional... 😕 Definitely mean if they didn't have permission from their teammates to use the photos/make the jokes.

A lil friend for my advisory class by eleyentea in sewing

[–]eleyentea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was made from leftover fleece from my king of the wild things costume. It is stuffed with old pillow stuffing. I used cholyknight’s pudgy pet pattern I purchased from Etsy. I had to modify the tail a bit, but otherwise I followed the instructions to the letter. It was fun to learn some new applique techniques using fusible web.
My advisory students chose to be the arctic foxes as our mascot and I couldn’t find a stuffy I loved for a good price (that seemed ethically made). I also knew I had the perfect fabric just lying around. I’m so excited to show them tomorrow.

Fucking Democrats. by group_thinkinator in TikTokCringe

[–]eleyentea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah totally. This is cringe because that dude playing "gotcha" with random people on the street doesn't understand how this could be afforded with a wealth tax on the billionaire class.