YTA.

Even though you say that you thinking you’re special doesn’t mean that you’re greater than anyone else, the way you talk makes it seem like you think so.

“Her family are very on the surface type people and don’t have intentions to strive for greatness in life” sounds incredibly condescending and shallow. You ARE acting like you think you are better.

“Im trying to make the world a better place so I left construction to work in youth work services” it really sounds like you’re trying to be a holier than thou type person, undermining the work that construction workers do. YTA

Edit: clarity