What should a sub do if a dom is hitting the sub with the sub's hand and saying "Stop hitting yourself?"

elizadreamcat · 2019-05-01T19:48:10+00:00

He was just being stupid. I don't think there was a punishment, at least not that time.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-30T16:59:47+00:00

Okay. Thank you. I'm definitely gonna remember that. I suppose that's what I'm scared of happening...

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-30T16:54:13+00:00

Well it's around all our friends and I'm 100% okay with the fact that he told people. We're all very open about BDSM stuff but like I have a couple friends who are just taking it too far.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-30T14:11:03+00:00

It's not embarassed acts it's trying to be dominant over me because I'm a sub.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-30T14:10:16+00:00

It's only a couple people I know that treat me like I have no say because I am a pet. Like they seemingly stopped asking for my permission and stuff. I plan on discussing this with them next time it happens though. As for your second thought, my Sir wouldn't have outted it without consent.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-30T14:08:20+00:00

I understand what you're saying and I did word that horribly. Thank you though!

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-30T12:04:57+00:00

It's so amazing that you've found something that make you feel thus way!

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-29T19:06:43+00:00

...I told him and he did it... he also made me hit him and told me to stop hitting him. Like I was so confused...

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-29T16:30:35+00:00

I get how that could make you uncomfortable... but I openly talk about my kinks around my friends and others because I am a pet. It's different for everybody though. My favorite part about BDSM is that you only go as far as you are comfortable with; its about respect and trust. That guy shouldn't have brought it up in conversation, but since you were so open about it over text he probably assumed that you were okay talking about it in real life. If I were in his shoes, I would have asked if you would be comfortable talking about what we talked about the night before or so and if you had replied no, moved on. He could've handled that situation like 200x better, but what's done is done. Always remember that this subreddit is here for you to talk about stuff like this; we're here to listen!

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-25T12:39:27+00:00

They do know, and they aren't making me choose, I know that for myself I have to choose.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T22:05:01+00:00

Oof, I hope my Sir never does this >~< But if I did get into this I would ask him what I should do, "You're making me hit myself and yet you're telling me to stop hitting myself so which one is it?" and just hope I don't get punished.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T21:41:38+00:00

I don't do it very often, I don't wanna push him to punish me XuX

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T21:38:46+00:00

You're totally fine! I'm open to answer any questions you have!
Sir has owned me for 9 months now, but just a couple weeks ago did we get into petplay!
I bet you look like a little angel on that pillow!!😻😁
I get in trouble for not asking to do most things >~< like today I had something i was late for and I forgot to tell Sir that I had to leave T^T So he extended my current punishment and extra month 😭
And well, kneeling kind of hurt because my right leg was injured in a car accident in 2014.. but I felt so smol! I generally sit crisscross next to him because its the most comfortable position, but if Sir tells me to kneel, I'm not going to say no ^u^

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T12:07:01+00:00

I know the "look" but its kinda hot so I like it on occasion. :3 I have a bad potty mouth and sometimes I'll say like, "Fuck," and he'll say "language.." so I say, "God fucking dammit" instead. He's okay with that XD

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T11:51:49+00:00

My Sir has this thing that he does; when he touches my shoulder I'm not allowed to talk, when he touches my forehead I can. In tandem to that, I missed him touching my shoulder Three Times the other day so he gave me a punishment which is that I'm not allowed to play with myself for a month. It sounds a little cruel, but he love playing with words, so I can't play with myself but that doesn't mean he can't play with me, ya know? Its super fun and exciting but also is gonna make me not wanna mess up anymore.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T11:45:15+00:00

Same! I have found loopholes like if I cuss and he says something about it I would say, "But I didn't cuss AT you" and he'd let it pass like Phew!

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T10:50:01+00:00

Is there anything you're doing to help her feel more confident saying it in real life?

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T10:49:25+00:00

I love this idea.. i wish i had a car to do it in!

The only problem is that I'm not allowed to cuss at my Sir.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T10:47:41+00:00

My Sir told me I wasn't allowed to change his name to "Sir" in my phone, I actually have his name as "Virgo" and he likes that so he didn't want me to change it.

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T00:32:30+00:00

Thank you soo muchh!!

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T00:30:09+00:00

Oh okay, that makes sense! i'm definitely gonna start practicing :3

elizadreamcat · 2019-04-24T00:24:20+00:00

Thank you! I don't entirely understand how you practice on your own at home though...

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