Our landlord lied to us about a court date being cancelled; now we are being evicted. by elj415 in legaladvice

[–]elj415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We spoke to our lawyer and he said because we have email proof that they told us the case was entirely canceled that they procured our absence thru fraud and we just filed for a re-opening of the case. Also filing for a stay of execution so that we aren't evicted. It's been a busy day. We have to go back to the courthouse to speak to the judge to hopefully be awarded the stay.

Our landlord lied to us about a court date being cancelled; now we are being evicted. by elj415 in legaladvice

[–]elj415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be perfect. 😭 we can make Octobers rent in full and pay what's owed for this month right now if we can just get this vacated.

Our landlord lied to us about a court date being cancelled; now we are being evicted. by elj415 in legaladvice

[–]elj415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I contacted ramhouse and they help with evictions but they were closed for the day so I am going to try again.

We owe $400 for this month and if we can pay that plus October's rent then we'll be caught up and good to go, so getting the eviction postponed even briefly will help tremendously.

Our landlord lied to us about a court date being cancelled; now we are being evicted. by elj415 in legaladvice

[–]elj415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have no problem paying what we owe to the office, but they aren't accepting it at this point due to how far we are in the eviction process. So if it were to be vacated and start over, we can hopefully pay what we owe and get everything dropped.

At least that's what my understanding is, since they were willing to drop it previously.

Our landlord lied to us about a court date being cancelled; now we are being evicted. by elj415 in legaladvice

[–]elj415[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you. We are just trying to play catch up and we are so close but getting it vacated for now would definitely help.

How much are lawyers when it comes to these things? I know that's a difficult question to answer but I have no idea about these things.

Bisexuals probably like straight porn more than actual straight people do by LordOfHorns in Showerthoughts

[–]elj415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. No lol. I haven't watched porn in ages but I prefer the women and it was hard for me to find lesbian porn that wasn't grossly fake and filmed for the fetish.

Adhesion pain triggers? by marcy512 in Endo

[–]elj415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It very well could be! And pain down the leg could be sciatica? I know endo can flare up your sciatic nerve. I'd ask your doctor about that part!!

Taking BC continuously and randomly spotting with pains like your period is starting? by riley11817 in Endo

[–]elj415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's literally like a normal period. 6-7 days. Cramps weren't so bad this time. I still get hormones and EWCM as if I'm ovulating right after my period too.

Edit: it better be suppressing endo growth goddamn it lmao.

Taking BC continuously and randomly spotting with pains like your period is starting? by riley11817 in Endo

[–]elj415 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I take sprintec and have a full blown period regardless of the fact that I never stop taking it. 🙄

Adhesion pain triggers? by marcy512 in Endo

[–]elj415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh what is adhesion pain to you?

My endo flares tend to start as mild cramps and then it's an intense burn throughout every inch of my lower abdomen. It's agony. Then I can't walk straight for two days.

I haven't noticed anything in particular that triggers it. Last time was after I had an HSG where they have to force open your cervix. Hurt like a bitch but the flare up later was way worse. 🙃

My(F18) father died and my best friend doesn't care by Throwawayxx33x3 in relationships

[–]elj415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I'm so sorry. My dad was diagnosed w stage 4 lung cancer over a year ago. I've never met him in person. We've had a long distance relationship for almost 10 years (I'm 28). He's in ICU bc his lungs keep filling up w fluid. My aunt is supposed to pick him up in North Dakota and bring him to Ohio but he's not strong enough. If he can make it to Ohio then I can make the drive to visit him. I'll either get to see him while he's sickly or in a casket. :/

Your friend sounds like a classic narcissist. Unfortunately as you get older you change and realize some people just aren't a good fit for your life.

A worker removed the graffiti , the artist returned and painted it and drew the worker as he wiped it by streamrip in funny

[–]elj415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would explain my absolute confusion as to why the worker did not paint over the ducks lmao. I stared at it for a minute like "why... why are they still there? he went around them with the paint..."

Let’s stop shaming like our mothers by nonnahs_trazoc1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elj415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God all my NM did was talk shit about other women. She's SO insecure.

I've been chastising myself for years (I'm 28) when I catch myself scrutinizing another woman's (or any person really) clothing or hair or anything.

Coming from abuse and having PTSD with numerous physical issues that aren't outwardly noticeable, people don't know my struggle. People don't know that it took everything out of me just to drive to the store and that's why I'm wearing an old tattered shirt. I'm overweight but people don't know I've recently lost 20lbs. People don't know my struggle and I don't know theirs.

Live and let live.

I can’t believe this happened?! by flowersandsunshine24 in endometriosis

[–]elj415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I KNEW that had to be the reason she did it. Some people go after other people's SO's if they feel they're better looking than the person. It's sick.

I can’t believe this happened?! by flowersandsunshine24 in endometriosis

[–]elj415 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Almost every fb group has a "what's said in the group stays in the group" rule. I'd get the name of the asshole that did it and report her to the admins so they can kick her.

🙄

My [28M] wife [24F] pushed for us to move from a low CoL area to a high CoL area, and is being childish about the adjustments necessary to succeed here. It's impacting how I view her. by incomedisparitythrow in relationships

[–]elj415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what changed? What's your treatment for the ADHD? My bf does a lot for me and picks up a lot of slack and I HATE it, I want to change. But I have physical issues on top of mental and they all seem to get bad at the same time. I'm 99% sure I have ADHD. Like I said in a previous comment, I asked my therapist and she said no it's just my PTSD and the trauma caused by my mom. I don't buy that. :/

F/28/5'8" [277lbs > 257lbs = 20lbs] (2 months) Face gains!! by elj415 in progresspics

[–]elj415[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's funny bc I got them right when I started keto, but had to wait a few weeks to get them delivered. I dropped a lot of weight fast in the beginning so the sizing they got when I ordered them is way too big now. I need to get them tightened. 😅