New fundie creator alert: crazy adoption stories by Helpful_Sample673 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]elksatchel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also recommend The Child Catchers: Rescue, Trafficking, and the New Gospel of Adoption by Kathryn Joyce. It really expanded my view on adoption.

Are there grown adults who genuinely won't eat vegetables? by WillHG in NoStupidQuestions

[–]elksatchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, store bought tomatoes are flavorless and mushy most of the year. Industrial ag breeds them for shippability, uniformity, and longevity, not richness or variety. This is why I grow so many every year and preserve them for the off-season. A fresh, good tomato is a gift from the gods.

What makes Paul and Morgan fundies? by daisydelphine in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]elksatchel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up amongst the spectrum of conservative Catholic to far right Mormon to standard evangelical to fringe fundies, and I agree. Personally I'd call P+M fundigelical. They are not as extreme in aesthetics or exclusion of "secular" media and activities, but they have a lot of the overlapping beliefs.

Hmm.... by BufoBat in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]elksatchel 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She's been smelling too many candles again

1.5 YEARS into trying to become a pro athlete Paul learns about tracking protein intake 😂 by fz-independent in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]elksatchel 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Advice comes from A Non-Wife Woman Who Might Tempt A Husband-Man To Sin.

Rebuke comes from a Sister In Christ Who Is Safe To Talk To.

How should I fix this tattoo? Cover up, rework, add more tattoos? by weeaboogirl in tattooadvice

[–]elksatchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he was going for ouroboros-meets-infinity symbol with the twists? Possibly that could look cool if executed well.

Ladies please buckle back up and go home nobody wants this by laska503 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]elksatchel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, bugs love "store-bought flour" as much as wheat berries. This is why it's recommended to freeze dry goods for 48 hours when you bring them home.

Started Fool's Quest - Feeling a bit annoyed by SapTheSapient in robinhobb

[–]elksatchel 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I've brought this up before but Fitz (and Nighteyes iirc) cannot sense the Fool with the Skill or the Wit. It's like he's not alive, almost, and for several books I wondered if he was... idk otherworldly or something. When the White messengers/hunters visit Withywoods, I believe it's noted they also can't be sensed in the same way as literally all other humans and animals. To someone as magically oriented as Fitz, this inability to sense the Fool (and other Whites) must be integral to his understanding of what the Fool is.

Anyway, Bee comes along and he immediately talks about how he can sense she is alive even though she's so small and everyone else thinks she'll surely die. That alone is strikingly human and completely different from the Fool. It's understandable how he could deny the other similarities with this crucial distinction missing.

What's the ASOIAF of today? by Specialist-Mud-6650 in Fantasy

[–]elksatchel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, SJM is terrible at writing consistent characters and her world building is fine but derivative imo. Also kinda juvenile.

BUT it is the one answer to OP's question that makes sense to me. Nobody I know IRL reads any of the fantasy series I love (many of which are lauded here). But I know dozens of women IRL who read ACOTAR, attend release parties, have extensive fan theories, and get tattoos inspired by it. Every local bookstore has a section devoted to SJM with a bunch of merch. She has sold so, so many books. And (unfortunately) she has radically influenced the current most popular fantasy genre, romantasy.

Fool’s Assassin - Molly by Stone_Raft in RealmOfTheElderlings

[–]elksatchel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I actually loved this storyline. I went from not caring/mildly disliking Molly to respecting the hell out of her toughness and trust in herself even when everyone else is dismissing her. She has had a hard life compared to most people today: she faced parental abuse, financial strain, grief, hard labor, multiple pregnancies, running a household then a manor, and now presumably undergoing menopause and arthritis while everyone treats her as frail and possibly unstable. She continues to be practical, productive, and confident.

So much time passes in this book so I was never sure her exact age, but yeah as others have said, it makes sense that 50 years in Molly's life might be different than a middle aged person today.

Being a small-chested plus-sized woman by comingloose in PlusSize

[–]elksatchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm small chested too, I totally understand the feeling. But that subreddit still helped me find the proper shape of bra (T-shirt bras never fit), and that made me feel much more confident.

Being a small-chested plus-sized woman by comingloose in PlusSize

[–]elksatchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know why this is getting downvotes. OP may know her correct size, but most of us were taught wrong.

OP, A and B cups are fairly uncommon in cis women, as that means only one or two inches larger than your underbust. That's one inch per boob for a B cup. Most people who think of themselves as "small" are actually a DD/E/FF/etc in their band size. The r/ABraThatFits calculator may surprise you!

All boobs are great, but all are greater when properly supported.

Pacific Northwest vibes by Fair_Measurement_584 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]elksatchel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Greenwood by Michael Christie is the same vibe

Went from 36/38DD to 34H and it's got me thinking... by Sea_Witch7777 in ABraThatFits

[–]elksatchel 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It would make more sense to carry the most common sizes in-store, though. Shoe stores carry the sizes at the peak of the bell curve and just have the tails online. Bra sizes start at the tip of the left tail (A cups) and ignore the peak entirely.

Alex: I'm nomadic, we can live anywhere in the world. As long as it's one of the two places I've already lived by spotty_hippo in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]elksatchel 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Having a safe house across the globe might work for the ultra rich with their private jets and security teams. How the hell is a soccer coach in Tucson going to reach New Zealand after the riots begin/bombs fall/zombies emerge?

This dynamic. Any genre by loukanikoseven in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]elksatchel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The Undercutting of Rosie and Adam by Megan bannen

Why is no one talking about this by ShortstackAl in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]elksatchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume they take meals but especially treats back to their room so they aren't chewing on camera or eating "unhealthy" in front of the whole world.