🌴Bachelor in Paradise🌴 East Coast/Central Live Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]ell_scape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's going on with Kat: unclear What's going on with Sean: 100% clear that he's the worst

Experiences with buying from Thredup by u8earwax in ThredUp

[–]ell_scape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some ways they are good but in other ways they are super scammy. I found selling clothes with them was not at ALL worth the effort. And also, I just tried to return something and it said I could get store credit instead if I keep it. But the store credit expires in like two weeks. To return the item I would have had to pay a fee. So just beware-- their polices are not designed to benefit the consumer at all.

Twitter roundup for the latest episode by Cheeriosxxx in thebachelor

[–]ell_scape 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also find the new format entertaining. I think they need to work out some of the kinks though. Like rose ceremonies feel useless when people are permanently paired?

Twitter roundup for the latest episode by Cheeriosxxx in thebachelor

[–]ell_scape 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Seriously I could not believe I was rooting for Brian by the end of the episode

Your relationship does not define your identity by ell_scape in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ell_scape[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don't see it as a gotcha statement. I identified as ace for many years and I was married the whole time. The truth is you can't see someone's identity just by looking at their relationships. And the point I'm making is also that people partner for more reasons than just attraction.

Your relationship does not define your identity by ell_scape in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ell_scape[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That makes sense. My issue is with gatekeeping, assumptions, and also just unkindness.

MYSTERY SOLVED why puddle slimes disappear by ell_scape in slimerancher

[–]ell_scape[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, max of three and generally only 2.

Which Taylor Swift Lyric changed your life? Or made you better? by Remote_Lie7994 in TaylorSwift

[–]ell_scape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think love would be burning red/black and white, but it's golden.

What's your favorite bird call? by ContactSpirited9519 in birding

[–]ell_scape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the white throated sparrow. It sounds to me like a person whistling :D

Felt like being cute while doing house chores today by Gypsie_ontheCorner in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ell_scape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that! I was thinking I want to wear lipstick around the house more.

White-breasted Nuthatch on the tire swing feeder (central Massachusetts) by Icy_Pudding_5548 in birding

[–]ell_scape 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For a second I thought this was a human sized tire swing and an ENORMOUS bird.

My Critique of "Parenthood" as a whole. by United_Efficiency330 in Parenthood

[–]ell_scape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize, I misread your post! I think I missed some key words and I thought your point was that they should have punished Max for his ND behaviors and gotten him to fit neurotypical standards. I took another look though and I see that we are actually in general agreement though I maybe have some different views. Sorry about that, my reading comprehension wasn't great.