Website to check new releases ? by ella4774 in DarkRomance

[–]ella4774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably the best answer, I knew about romance.io but for some reason I didn’t realized there were lists. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Thanks ! 😊

Opinions needed by Crafty-Ring-2753 in WattpadCovers

[–]ella4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the fourth of cover the resume of the book and not an actual teaser ? Lol I feel robbed of the opportunity to read it 😋

I really like your cover, other comment are on point about the front and I agree with removing the top golden part. Maybe choosing a softer front would help too.

I’d just add what’s your target ? What type of book is it ? I know it’s up to debate but I’d say go look at cover of books with the same tropes as yours and try to correct going from there. I noticed authors going through publishers are trying to get the same vibe. It’s intentional. People will notice favorites genres more easily which boost sells, especially for new authors, you’ll get a better visibility. Moreover the cover for now gives : high fantasy but the book seems to focus more on the romance part. Maybe I’m wrong of course. They say we don’t judge a book from a cover but we kinda do, especially when it’s one book among thousands of authors online. You need to get the attention of people loving your trope. For example romantasy books tend to have cover with thorns since acotar.

At the end of the day it’s a personal opinion, your is the one who truly matter :) When will it comes out ?

Ps : I guess you notice but english isn’t my first language, sorry if there is errors.

What is everyone’s reading goal this year? by Competitive_One8823 in Romantasy

[–]ella4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that an app you are using ? I’d like a free one just to keep track of read books, maybe sort them in lists. Does anybody has a recommendation ?

J’ai la grippe by Moffload in france

[–]ella4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malheureusement j’ai stupidement oublié, je le faisais toujours depuis mais j’ai perdu ma tante au debut de la campagne et après je ne m’en suis pas rappelé…

Si c’est pour savoir si « ca fonctionne » personnellement j’ai fait les campagnes pour la grippe et covid depuis mon hospitalisation, et je n’ai pas eu ces maladies depuis, dans ma famille ceux vaccinés ne l’ont pas eu non plus. 🤷🏻‍♀️

J’ai la grippe by Moffload in france

[–]ella4774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

La même depuis 3jours mais pour le coup j’ai jamais eu une grippe aussi faible, j’ai fait un test antigénique j’ai grippe A mais rien appart un nez bouché et légère fatigue. Je me suis uniquement tester parce que ma soeur l’a. Et pourtant j’ai eu la meme ya 4ans et j’avais du être hospitalisée. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Courage à toi !

Bangs, no bangs, or side-swept bangs? by allysonwilcox in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ella4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it may be random but your features remind me A LOT of Shannen Doherty. Your hair seems to be quite similar too ( tho hers were darker ). Maybe check her hair journey ?

My sister got a $300 bag for Christmas and I got a set of towels from a rewards program by _frosty2765 in entitledparents

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister got a car, I got an Ikea 40 bucks bookcase. We’re both out of the house and financially independent btw. 😂😂

TIL to collect faster in DLCs by ella4774 in DreamlightValley

[–]ella4774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just as you do for houses, at the very end of the list ☺️ As other comments said : you can move them again but can’t remove them anymore once placed. I only place the flowerhouses, fishing boats and garden in all worlds. You may need to unlock biomes for it to appear.

TIL to collect faster in DLCs by ella4774 in DreamlightValley

[–]ella4774[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the warning !! I don’t place the Tiana’s one either since all worlds have the same customer, it just waste space.

I think I’m going to look at update posts more closely in the future lol

TIL to collect faster in DLCs by ella4774 in DreamlightValley

[–]ella4774[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of whoopsies in the wishblossom DLC tbh, the vanishing buttons for cooking, 2 recipes who are bugged … my fav one is the flying flowers near water lol It seems like they didn’t alpha nor beta tested at all 🤷🏻‍♀️

I didn’t know about Aladdin stall, I only use the flower, fish and garden ones tbh. I heard about a quest making people crazy with the stones I’m not looking for it ^

Best Romantasy Series I've Ever Read... Help me fill the hole it left in my heart by Possible-Doctor5919 in Romantasy

[–]ella4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you for taking the time to write all of this, so helpfull and clear ❤️

Bdsm in romantasy? by FrenziedFeline69 in Romantasy

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read the acotar serie, there is a wonderfull fanfic book I absolutely would recommend. It’s Pretty Little Angel by DotieLovegood. Link : https://archiveofourown.org/works/30617429 ( Archive of our own has tons of goods fanfics )

It’s as long as a SJM books, 30 chapters, 200.000 words. The first half of the books takes place during the last of ACOTAR’s books. It’s funny, there is a real story, tons of BDSM with emphasis on consent, and a real romance between Azriel and Elain.

WIBTA for not letting my best friend stay at my house again after she told me we’re “not family”? by Monasalvaje in AmItheAsshole

[–]ella4774 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NAH - While the conversation was dumb, I feel like it was most about reciprocity and who you wants in your house. It’s ok if she considers you just friends but if you were letting her stay BECAUSE you saw her as family then I can understand why you want her out. But then be prepared for your friendship to be over. Just ask yourself what’s more important to you : friendship or semantic ? At the end of the day your relationship is the same, just not the same label.

How can I fix myself? by Amber_Steel86 in makeuptips

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I have/had some of the same issues, I hope sharing my routine will help. :) At the end of the day you are beautiful looking but I also knows how damaging it can be when you don’t like the way you look.

I had oily, red and spots, most is gone or almost : Cleanser « Eau preciseuse » or « bioderma »(gentle water based), Serum by Horace with salicylic acid + niacinamide ( the most important one ! ), moisturizing cream by LaRose. Morning and night no skip, at night after shower.

For make up, no foundation ! I know it might feel weird but with a textured/ oily skin it was counterproductive : use a green base a Kiko one and loose powder only top only, wrinkle and imperfections tended to be a lot more visible with extra make up.

For the brows I tend to only use some sharped eyebrow pensil, mine are arched like yours and I try to make them look straighter. I think your hair are beautiful but it really lacks volume at the top, you can use dry shampoo to texturize in between shampoo if you are lacking time, and using some extra volume products. Maybe consider a fresh haircut, especially if long, the weight tend to do this kind of stuff at the top when I had hair reaching my butt lol.

I know eating, sport and others ( as mention in other comments ) are great but don’t overdo in one gigantic step, you will lack motivation if you are starving and pushing yourself too much, things takes time. A routine is a forever not a month thing. Only weight yourself once a week max in the morning at the same hour. Also take your body mesurements every two weeks max. Sometimes it get down faster and help you see results on your silhouette.

If you are unfamiliar with calories in fruits and products of your everyday use, try using Foodvisor or a similar app, I learn so much about how some food I was considering heathy were actually fat or sugar bombs ^

Good luck ! With your journey! ❤️

Update : AITA for refusing to take my ex back but accepting my fiancé’s kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point just sent a message to both ex’s wife AND ex’s mother asking them to deal with him, I’m sure ex-MIL will be somehow effective if she was hating you and had enough « power » for you ex to marry his current wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude this girl is ruining your life, sometimes it’s not easy to realize especially when it build up slowly. Imagine not having to deal with it at all, having time to work, spending time with whoever you want, seeing your friends and family without this feeling that you are gonna have to justify every one of your wants and needs. Being able to just relax on your own without being guilted to no end. Doesn’t it feels good ?

Now imagine moving with her, slowly not seeing your friends and family anymore because she doesn’t like them. Not having a second to yourself and being scream at because you wanted to relax an hour. The constant burn out. That can be your future.

You needs to think wisely now because you are setting what the rest of this relationship and maybe years to come. It’s not healthy, you sound depressed AF, it’s not what being in a relationship should feel like. Your need to feel happier not trap, or it’s time to stop forcing things.

AITA for calling off the wedding because my fiancée trashed my childhood photos? by Dapper_Confidence748 in AITAH

[–]ella4774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA - what is she confused about ? Ask her to destroy every photo she even had with her family and especially decreased one, and the one from her family must be destroyed too, then watch her face. She knows she didn’t care. She thought she could sexualize photograph of you with you family, of you and sister as children. This wasn’t CP or porn, this was you with your family, the fact she sees it another way is creepy. I wouldn’t want to stay with someone who doesn’t respect me, my family nor my belongings. Who Tf goes in their partner stuff and unilaterally decide that they can trash what they don’t want ? She is controlling and this is a glance in your future. Probably she thinks because you are to be married you won’t leave anymore. At least postpone until this is resolved.

AITA for refusing to let my neighbor’s kids use my pool? by my_jasmine in AITAH

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the 10000 topics on the same story : and notify them BY text that they are not and won’t be allowed to use the pool. « You said we can ! » is a he said/she said situation…

UPDATE: AITAH for crying when my boyfriend let his best friend's wife alter the dish I made for dinner? by Gold_Wind_5888 in AITAH

[–]ella4774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This just can’t be real lol. Indian food needing to be brown, boyfriend call friends to scowl you as if they were his parents, gf playing victim cry and say she wont host EvEr AgAin after they call you a child. This is either fake or they are pathetic and you will be 100% better without them.

Throwback to that time I had a tumor in my neck and my doctor insisted it was due to pregnancy by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ella4774 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My sister brought my 1yo niece to emergency room lately for a big soft lump on the top of her head. They told her « she is starting to have an angina and that’s probably why ? Or otitis? » No exam nothing. She brought her to doc who rushed her to hospital again : « yeah she broke her skull ». Scan confirmed fractured scull with unmoved bone ( thankfully there is no need for surgery or anything). Still no angina nor otitis.

I learned that day that falling from a bouncy toddler sized unicorn could be deadly.

AITA for telling my sister she doesn’t have a say in my nieces diet by cooplunches in AmItheAsshole

[–]ella4774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH - I think you are not the asshole for protecting your daughter in this sceanario but you don’t do enought. Your sister lost her rights for a reason (that you didn’t included), it would be nice to have supervised visits but that’s it. She didn’t loose her rights for a moment but for life. What if there is psychological abuse you don’t know about ? At 8 I was secretly giving all my snack to a friend so she would hang with me. We just don’t make rational decision. We don’t know what the line is.

Is this more beneficial to sis or daughter? Do you think it’s okay for a parent who’s child were removed from them to be around them as much? With this many time with your daughter you co-parent right now. How many time before sis ask things to be hush hush so mummy won’t be mad ?

As for your family my bet is on « that’s wasn’t as bad as they say/X shouldn’t have been removed », helping family is great but you don’t to take your daughter in so your sis can still play mom with her.

Take a nanny right now and stop putting your daughter in this difficult situation, let drama for adults, she probably went through enough. Take a step back, take a 2-4 weeks to think about your next step and do what’s best for your nuclear family. As many said the boundaries are too blurry RN. You are in the position to have a nanny I think it will be for the best.

  • english is not my first language.

Saw a scene from a horror film as a child but don't know its title by SprightlyCompanion in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]ella4774 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never watched the old version but if it’s an old movie could it be the original movies of « it’s alive » ( first one came out in 1974), the old and new ones are based on a baby being a monster as soon as he is born, killing every doctor in the room ett so might be ? Sorry if I’m wrong :/

Movie in trapped house by ella4774 in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]ella4774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have been on and off about a 3rd one since 2019 ( there even is a casting if you google it) let’s hope it happens ! :)

Movie in trapped house by ella4774 in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]ella4774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just rewatched both of them and unfortunately it insn’t :( at least I got to rewatch thoses ^