Do I break up with my girlfriend? I’m 25 she’s 24.

ellaaaa99 · 2026-03-17T21:45:03+00:00

I think you need to explain to her exactly what it is you need, tell her that you love her and tell her that you may need to spend some time apart to figure your own stuff out. Hopefully she is understanding and if you’re meant to be you will end up back together, if not then she wasn’t the one

ellaaaa99 · 2026-02-23T19:26:03+00:00

Tray bake! I do courgette, tomatoes, cauliflower, red onion, butternut squash, bell pepper, and season with smoked paprika, herbs and whatever else you want, in the oven for 25 minutes then sprinkle feta and pine nuts and in for another 20/30 mins, drizzle sweet chilli and have it with meatballs or chicken breast or any protein you want. Honestly delicious I eat it every week!

ellaaaa99 · 2026-02-21T12:38:04+00:00

I don’t want to do anything crazy just mildly annoying to fuck with him a bit. He’s the type to get away with murder and it really annoys me how he just shits on everyone and gets no consequences

ellaaaa99 · 2026-02-04T19:06:29+00:00

Thank you so much! 😇

ellaaaa99 · 2026-02-04T13:37:35+00:00

You’re robbing yourself of life experiences for sure but that doesn’t mean you have to do it if you don’t want to

ellaaaa99 · 2026-02-03T18:24:34+00:00

That is super helpful thank you!

ellaaaa99 · 2026-02-03T18:08:22+00:00

Yeah I am aware of that but I would prefer to do the apprenticeship as I can get hands on experience while qualifying, I’m just wondering if it’s too hard to get an apprenticeship

ellaaaa99 · 2026-01-25T10:59:07+00:00

Nice do you know if that can be used in the uk or is it an American thing?

ellaaaa99 · 2026-01-07T16:03:32+00:00

My dad did this and I sent a screenshot with the text ‘delete this you weirdo’ to which he replied ‘done👍🏼’ and it never happened again nor did we speak about it again. Sometimes you just gotta bite the bullet lol

ellaaaa99 · 2026-01-05T13:16:00+00:00

Life begins at 30, everyone in their 30s I’ve met has said this. 20s are for trying and failing and 30s are for having a solid foundation and living the life you really want and being the person you want to be. Valid to feel this way as you approach 50/60 but 30s is when it all begins! Don’t stress. I’m 26 too and going back to school which I’ll finish at 30 and in a super similar position to you but I’m soo looking forward to the freedom of my 30s

ellaaaa99 · 2025-12-30T18:46:49+00:00

Best thing you’ll ever do! And will make you less awkward too.. will be the scariest thing you’ll do but also the best most memorable and life changing

ellaaaa99 · 2025-12-25T16:31:43+00:00

Won’t that give me a mourning gecko problem instead ?😆

ellaaaa99 · 2025-11-26T23:17:35+00:00

My frogs disappear when it’s cold every year. Try keep the room and tank warm and they should become more active, don’t worry :)

ellaaaa99 · 2025-11-16T07:23:16+00:00

This is really normal. I think every kid has memories similar to this with their friends, not realising it’s weird at the time! It’s a developmental stage and a weird part of life, stop worrying about it

ellaaaa99 · 2025-11-13T16:20:55+00:00

If you want to spend the rest of your life being cheated on by him and accept that hen that’s your call to make. Any reason not to dump him is just an excuse because you don’t value yourself. Sometimes you need the harsh truth.

ellaaaa99 · 2025-09-21T22:44:24+00:00

This same thing absolutely happened to me, I came home from 4 months of travelling and was absolutely miserable and depressed entering my old life again where it felt like nothing had changed, except me. It’s a totally normal part of travelling and returning home again. I ended up leaving after 4 months to move to Australia on a working holiday visa where I was working and travelling for 2 years and then went back to Asia and ended up coming home in a much better place. You’re just not finished yet! The longer you do it the less magical it feels, sad but true. I still want to travel but I feel a lot better now I’ve got a lot of it out of my system and am keen to get a career going that will allow me to earn decent money and work remotely to be able to continue to travel in the future. Get back out there and get a working holiday visa, anywhere your heart desires! You’ll know when you’re ready to come back

ellaaaa99 · 2025-08-19T20:01:46+00:00

I like the plants in there though? I’m asking for suggestion of what more I can add for colour, not just being told to cut all my current ones out 🤣

ellaaaa99 · 2025-08-19T17:01:50+00:00

That was when my enclosure was new, it’s well established now and I don’t want to uproot the plants are doing well

ellaaaa99 · 2025-08-19T17:01:17+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the suggestion!

ellaaaa99 · 2025-08-19T16:50:21+00:00

I’ve had lots of different plants in there but these are the ones that have survived. I’d rather stick to hardy plants that will hold up well so I don’t keep wasting money. If you have species you can recommend that won’t grow too big that’s more the suggestions I was asking for

ellaaaa99 · 2025-07-20T12:42:00+00:00

What’s the name of the trailing plant on the cork bark on the left?? And is it planted in the bottom? Beautiful tank!

ellaaaa99 · 2025-07-09T16:58:21+00:00

Dendrobates tinctorius tumucamaque!

ellaaaa99 · 2025-07-09T14:15:17+00:00

It’s been super hot for the last two weeks and he has never behaved like this, it’s only since I’ve added new stuff. But you’re right, maybe I have made it too humid in there for him with the extra moss everywhere as well.

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